Ancient Cloud: ", a harvest". "Ten years of trees, a hundred years of tree people, children's education is a topic of eternal change since the birth of human civilization. Even today, when the 21st century is highly civilized, it is still a problem that plagues many of our families. As parents, there are two major things in life that must be completed: first: to realize self-worth in society; second, to educate our children.
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Children's growth education should be three-dimensional, multi-faceted, diversified, healthy and positive, and the current education is divided into school education and family education, both of which are indispensable.
What we want to talk about here is family education, how should family education be carried out, what content should be educated, and what is the way of education? I'll break it down into 4 areas below to explain one by one.
One. Love children, respect children, trust children, and mingle with children
As parents, it is natural to love our children, what parent would not love their children? But some of our parents' love has become coddling, and love is "harm". Therefore, the way of love is very important: giving the child a hug, an encouraging smile, a friendly communication, sending a small gift in life, these will make the child feel the love from the parents, and increase the child's trust in the parents.
Two. Focus on communication
Although parents are adults, have the right to educate their children, scold, control privileges, feel that children should live according to their own guidance, to do things, in fact, it is a selfish performance, every day with a threatening tone to communicate with children, over time, will make children fear, inferiority, and even stimulate autism, counterproductive.
At this time, we must learn to listen quietly, listen to the child's inner thoughts, and listen to the child's own voice, so as to understand the child's distress or difficulty. For example, after the child returns home from class, he takes the initiative to ask the child about the interesting things in school or the difficulties encountered in learning, and takes the initiative to give him direction and guidance on how to deal with things. Allow children to generate independent opinions and ideas. Avoid being a "well-behaved baby" when you grow up, have no opinion, can't afford to experience life or society is tempering and fall on the road to growth.
Three. Encourage your child to rise to difficulties and challenges
The competition for survival in today's society is extremely fierce, and the social road is full of challenges. If we do not learn to take the initiative to solve difficulties and challenge difficulties, then we will be eliminated in social competition. As parents, how can we help cultivate our children's tenacity and fear of difficulties?
In the child's learning, they often encounter test questions that they will not or feel that they cannot do, and they do not want to do it, and slowly develop the mentality of encountering difficulties and do not dare not dare to take the initiative to challenge it to solve it. Therefore, usually or on weekends, I will go with my children to solve the problems in learning, we will study and analyze the answers to the problems together, combined with the reference and analysis of the knowledge points learned in the textbook, as long as the test questions that are not separated from the textbook can be solved, even if they are not made today, they will not give up, tomorrow will be OK. Slowly let the child develop the habit of taking the initiative to solve difficulties when encountering difficulties.
Four. Let children learn to be tolerant and tolerant
Tolerance is a landscape, able to tolerate others, grow themselves, and improve their self-cultivation. As the saying goes, "The prime minister can hold a boat in his belly." The more celebrities or successful people, their tolerance and tolerance are incomparably broad. In life, we walk on the road and accidentally bump into or step on someone else's shoe, and the other person's sentence: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. We'll say in reply: it's okay. The other party also expressed apologies and did not affect himself. We all live under the same sky, and we have to learn to be tolerant and understanding.
The topic of educating children is never outdated and never left behind. In the growth of children, we as parents correctly guide and correct the shortcomings in children's growth, so that children can learn more useful knowledge and bring help to society when they grow up. Finally, I hope that parents can educate their amazing children.