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February 14 is coming, another valentine's day full of love, in everyone's impression, Valentine's Day and love is the "patent" of adults, and has nothing to do with children. Is this really the case?
Many parents also consciously let their children avoid the topic of Valentine's Day, keeping them away from love and love in the adult world. But no matter how old you are, you have emotions, you deserve to be loved and you should learn to love.
Nowadays, many children do not know everything as adults think, and perhaps some children will ask questions about love, and most parents do not know where to start in the face of such questions.
The understanding of love is different, the explanation is also different, and some naïve children tell their own understanding of love.
What is "love" in the eyes of children?
Henry asks a little friend named Michael what love is? The little friend said that love is to like a person, and will kiss and hug him. When asked who he loved, Michael said he loved his parents and sister and brother.
Henry says he loves everyone in addition to his parents and siblings, including his best friend Michael, when the two children give each other a hug.
Teach children to express love, so as to increase the distance and feelings between each other, on Valentine's Day parents can let children say about the understanding of love, there may be amazing answers.
Love is a concern from the heart, which makes people warm and touched
Luis teaches sam the robot to learn English, and when he learns "Love", Luis explains that if you like someone, you will involuntarily care about him, and you will also feel happiness and warmth. But Sam is a robot, and he doesn't have the ability to perceive real people, and he can't feel the human emotions of warmth and happiness.
After Luis pulls out a broken bread machine, Sam is very concerned about whether the bread machine can be repaired, begging Luis to fix it, Sam is eager to know the bread machine. If the bread machine learns Sam's concern and expectation, it will be very warm and touching.
Let the child understand that there is always someone who secretly cares about and loves you without you knowing, so give others care, you are happy, and being loved is warm and touching.
Teach children how to express love
1. Hug
Abby asks Kristen how she reacts when she is loved, and Kristen struggles to answer the question because she doesn't know what words to use to describe the feeling. Abby gave Kristen a big hug at this point, and both smiled happily.
Kristen says that smiling faces are the reactions and feelings of being loved, and sometimes love doesn't require too many words, and intimate and silent body language is better than all sweet words. A hug can warm others to happiness themselves, let the child learn to hug the person he loves, and teach him how to express love.
2. A small gift with a heart
On the eve of Valentine's Day, Abby receives a Valentine's Day greeting card handmade by her good friend Elmo, which is painted with a lot of flowers and heart-shaped patterns, which is exactly the pattern that Abby likes.
Knowing each other's preferences, Elmo confirms that his best friend will be happy to see these patterns after receiving the greeting card, and he expects the smiling face of his good friend, which is a sweet feeling.
Tips: The gift of the heart is also an expression of love, not in how much it is worth, but in the heart, and a gift of the heart contains a deep understanding of each other.
Teach children how to love!
The child is born with a strong ability to imitate, teach him how to learn to love others and love himself, become a loving person, parents are the best teachers, and the details of daily life can be taught by example. I take children to do this love education, summary has 7 points, share with you!
1. Positive language and action
Language is a double-edged sword, which can warm a person or "kill" a person, and even the youngest child can distinguish emotions from the language, tone, and tone of adults. Parents should exercise self-discipline, children should see in their eyes, and use positive language to avoid harsh and sarcastic language no matter who interacts with them.
Zero violence in words and actions, so that children are emotionally stable, full of inner security, feel the love of parents and parents, so that the children who grow up in such an atmosphere are also a loving person.
2. Respond and accompany with heart
Children rely on their parents for only a few short years, so parents should respond to both physical and psychological needs. Patiently listen to the child's needs, seriously meet him, adult perfunctory children can also clearly feel.
Children with a sense of inner security will be full of love without lack of love, and will take time to accompany them in their busy work, and it is high-quality companionship. Talk to your child, find negative emotions in time, and do one thing together on the weekend to increase the parent-child relationship.
3, do not skimp on hugging
Physical contact between parents and children is also a way of transmitting love, when he is happy, when he is depressed or when he encounters difficulties, the warm hugs of parents convey strength, companionship and security, and children feel loved and will overcome all problems.
4. Relaxed growth environment
Every parent attaches great importance to their children's studies, but do not forget that childhood should not be imprisoned, so that children can release their nature and grow up happily. There is a wide and strict education, giving the child a relaxed growth environment, so that he has enough time to do what he likes.
5. Proper labor
Children who grow up in doting environments don't understand others, are accustomed to being self-centered, and lack love. In the family, let the child participate in the work of the ability to do so, so that he feels that it is not easy for his parents to understand understanding and gratitude, and also cultivates the ability to take care of himself independently.
6. The sense of ritual of the festival
Prepare a small gift for the child during the festival, and under the influence of the parents, the child also learns to carefully prepare gifts to express love.
Gifts are not about how expensive they are, but about a sense of ceremony that impresses children and leaves a good memory in childhood, recalling love.
7, often use words to express love
Every child deserves to be loved, use more words to express love, let children feel loved and needed. Proper praise when done well, encouragement when he is lost, under such guidance, the child's heart is stronger.
Pillow Parenting Message:
Valentine's Day is a day to express love, and it is also the best opportunity to educate children about love, telling children not to forget to love and be loved in any festival that expresses love. Encourage them to bravely express their love to their loved relatives and friends on this Valentine's Day, send out warmth, feel happiness and touch, let children learn to cherish and respect, but also learn to pay.
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