#The most romantic thing I can think of#The year before the engagement is the most depressed time for the husband, in his words at that time, it is not a disaster.
His family ran out of all the savings he had saved after graduation, and then he ran to the far north of his country for a high salary, thousands of kilometers away from me, and promised me that he would come back and marry me in a year.
I didn't speak. He said please believe me, I will definitely come back and marry you. I was both expectant and worried that year. It's both heartbreaking and heart-wrenching. Yes, in addition to money, there are thousands of mountains and rivers between us.
At the end of the year, I was full of expectations, but he did not return, and the day before Chinese New Year's Eve, he told me tiredly that the project money had not arrived. My heart also seemed to be crushed by the wheel of fate.
My family is pressing, and at the age of 27, I have nowhere to escape. If he does not act, I will be forced to go on a blind date, my mother said, how many people with good conditions will introduce you, why did you pick such a person yourself, his family will drag you down.
The deadline my parents gave me had reached, I was exhausted for him, my mother only offered a dowry of 100,000 yuan, if this money could not be taken out, my mother firmly disagreed with me to marry. My mother said the money was the last guarantee for me. In addition to the bride price, people must have a house and a car, how many more years will you have to struggle with others?
Young and crazy, I said, I don't want to compare with others.
Mother said, you are so stupid, you have to cut off my heart to you, so that you can understand my heart as a mother.
I said, Mom, I understand, you're all for my good. But what others introduced to me, in addition to the good family conditions, I don't know anything else, if I regret getting married in the future, I will definitely blame you. If it was him, I regret that I only blamed myself, not you.
Mother thought for a long time and said, since you said so, give him another year. See if he can come up with 100,000 pieces, which can also prove his ability.
So, the moment he said the money wasn't getting it, I think God must have arranged something else. We have a shallow relationship, so let's do it!
I said with tears in my eyes, that's it!
He said for a long time, you wait for me...
Three days later, on the third day of the Chinese New Year, he appeared in front of me haggard, with a matchmaker, took sixty thousand yuan, and told my mother that he wanted to get engaged first. I didn't speak, I didn't dare speak.
He went to talk to his mother alone, and after the conversation, her mother told me for the first time that it was okay to get engaged first.
That year, he bought me a gold ring, I bought him a dress, and we got the results in everyone's sighs.
Forgot to say that the 60,000 pieces were all borrowed by him. He was cheeky, he was wronged, he saw all the warmth and coldness of human feelings, and all the people who could borrow it borrowed it and made up 60,000 yuan. The money contained his humiliation, his whole love for me. He tried his best.
That year, I understood his difficulties, and he understood my difficulties. We have all made sacrifices and compromises in order to go one step further.
After the engagement, I advised him to find a company, not to pay a high salary, as long as he could live a safe and stable life. He said, well, it's good to have you doing anything!
When we got married the next year, we had 100,000 yuan, and when my mother handed me the card, she cried very sadly. Mother said that this money should not be moved until it is a last resort. The road ahead, whether bitter or sweet, is chosen by oneself.
I didn't cry, I just thought of sweetness.
Years later, he was very successful in the original company, and he said that since he married me, his good fortune had not been broken, one big luck in three years, one small luck in two years.
I said, it's you who are self-motivated.
He said, no, no matter how hard I tried before, there were always some accidents in the end, and I was going to be depressed at one point. Marry you, everything is different. You are my lucky star.
I said, that's because, marry me, you'll never risk money again, and you can study technology safely.
He didn't fail me. Even if he had reached a position beyond my reach, even if he had met all kinds of people, as long as I had a look, he would come to me and give me a hug.
Mother was very happy and said that your vision was really good. Many things are fate, inseparable. So you don't blame me for being cruel in the first place, I just want to see if he has any responsibility.
At that time, my husband told his mother that he could not choose his birth, and if he could choose, he also wanted to choose a good family, but he did not have to choose. He had to be on his own, everything on himself, and if his mother trusted him, he would prove to her that he had not looked at the wrong person.
He was a trustworthy man, Mother said.
We are together because of love. Because love itself is the most romantic thing.
Valentine's Day is coming, and I wish all the daughters of the world a lover.
