Hangzhou: A 12-year-old girl spends more than 100,000 yuan a month, and she actually says it is "for revenge"! #杭州头条 #
It is said that today's children are not easy to manage, many times, it is true, with the development of information technology, children contact the world relatively early, so they have their own subjective opinions very early.
This subjective opinion is sometimes contrary to the parents' ideas, so it is easy to produce contradictions between parents and children.
However, as a parent, have you ever thought that many times, the child's rebellion is just to get your attention, just imagine, how long have you not paid attention to your child?
Of course, we can also understand that in modern society, the work pressure is relatively large, the pace of life is also very fast, and many parents are tired of running for their lives, so they neglect their children's discipline.
For example, this 12-year-old girl in Hangzhou actually consumed more than 100,000 yuan in a month and a half, you know, more than 100,000 is already the work income of many people in a year.
So, what's going on here? Where did the girls spend the money? Why should she retaliate? Who is it to retaliate?
Xiaoyu is a sixth-grade girl in Hangzhou, since the fourth grade, she has been fascinated by two games, and the popularity of these two games is very high, many students are playing, so this game also has social attributes.
However, Xiaoyu's mother, Ms. Yu, recently found an abnormality, and she found that her account frequently deducted fees, each time it was a few hundred yuan, but the number of consumptions was very large, adding up to tens of thousands of yuan.
After some inquiry, she learned that it was her daughter who consumed it, and the purpose was to recharge the game! This made her angry.
At the same time, she also found that on an e-commerce platform, Xiaoyu also has tens of thousands of yuan of consumption, and the use is also in the game, which is equivalent to spending more than 100,000 yuan on playing games in a month and a half.
Although It is said that Ms. Yu's family is doing business, the family is big, not bad money, but this kind of confusing consumption is also unacceptable to Ms. Yu, after communication and negotiation, the other party said that it will refund Ms. Yu.
At the same time, the reporter also communicated with the 12-year-old Xiaoyu, and after chatting, the two discovered the "secret" in Xiaoyu's heart.
It turned out that when Xiaoyu played this game before, although she also spent money, but the consumption was relatively rational, but Xiaoyu's mother did not like Xiaoyu to play the game, often let her stop playing, and even once smashed her mobile phone and pad.
And this extreme way of education has had a certain impact on Xiaoyu's soul, after all, this way of communication is too rough!
In addition, because Ms. Yu and her husband are in business, they are usually busy, and there is not a lot of time to accompany Xiaoyu, and Xiaoyu wants to get the attention of her parents more through this rebellious way.
Just like the child in the rebellious period will deliberately do something wrong, and then let the parents pay attention to themselves, send a signal to the parents to "come and see me", but once this method works, her children are bound to do the same, and the parents are very troubled by this, and the result is bound to be undesirable.
It is precisely because of these two reasons that Xiaoyu deliberately consumes this way, which is why she said "I am for revenge".
Through this small thing, it opened the heart of Xiaoyu, and also made Xiaoyu's parents understand their children better and know how to communicate with their children, if so, it is good for Xiaoyu and the whole family.
Therefore, I hope that the netizens I see can be alert, and when they have time, pay more attention to their children, and pay more attention to their mental health!
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