38-year-old aunt cheated on 26-year-old guy: We said good cooperation and win-win, why do you want to violate the law
Should I forgive my cheating? Can you accept that your significant other is mentally CG or physically CG?
1.
Ms. Tang, 38, is a successful female entrepreneur who has been married for 8 years and has a child of 7 years.
Mr. Zhou, 26 years old, architect, single.
Ms. Tang and Mr. Zhou met at a cocktail party for a collaborative project. After the cocktail party, the two had an affair....
Ms. Tang did this in large part because of her 48-year-old husband. She found that her husband gradually lost his enthusiasm for her, so that she was only 38 years old, and she still had the charm to find compensation elsewhere.
Mr. Zhou was a representative of the collaborators, and when he negotiated with Ms. Tang's assistant at the cocktail party, Ms. Tang had been watching him from the sidelines.
His suit is straight, sunny and energetic, and his body exudes male hormones, which just meets all of Ms. Tang's imagination.
Just when Ms. Tang was thinking about it, Mr. Zhou took the initiative to approach her and offered great hospitality to her.
Ms. Tang naturally knows his needs, he is in place of the enterprise to talk about the project, whether it is successful or not depends on her decision. He was so young that he also wanted to seek opportunities in society.
2.
Mr. Zhou is a man who does not hesitate to talk a lot in order to get an opportunity.
"I grew up fascinated by mature women, wrote love letters to teachers, had a crush on a neighbor's aunt, and mature women always made me feel warm." 」
"Mr. Tang, you are really beautiful, your hands and feet are full of charm, like a queen, I am really impressed by your temperament and willing to surrender to your feet."
"Tang Zong, don't be frightened by my words like this, I just can't help but want to say my heartfelt words, you are a fledgling hairy boy who doesn't know the height of the sky, don't worry about me."
Afterwards, Ms. Tang forgot about him, not even his contact information, she just suppressed it for too long and wanted to vent.
She is a more enterprising woman, for the sake of career and children, she has been ignoring the desire of the body and the feelings of her husband. When she realized she needed her husband, her husband ignored her.
She was also a proud person, never allowing herself to become a pathetic woman. Even though she loved her husband, she did the wrong thing.
3.
After she and Mr. Zhou maintained this delicate relationship for half a year, Mr. Zhou suddenly confessed to her, hoping that she could divorce and be with him, anyway, they were not happy together.
Ms. Tang has long reached a consensus with him that the two can only be "cooperative" and will not bring any other feelings.
Mr. Zhou's sudden confession disrupted her plans, and she had always known clearly that she would not fall in love with a man with a lower level of thought than his husband, let alone give up her husband for any man.
Ms. Tang felt it was time to leave him and return to her family.
However, Mr. Zhou took a step ahead of her and told Ms. Tang's husband about the two cheating. He thought he would wait for Madam Tang's resentment and rant at him, but Ms. Tang never contacted him again.
After the couple communicated, her husband chose to forgive and understand, feeling that she was only physical CG, not spiritual CG.
"Do you want to forgive the other party for cheating?"
There seems to be no standard answer to this question!
Some people say that if it is only a physical infidelity, it is forgivable, as long as it is not committed again; others say that the flesh must be absolutely loyal, and the spiritual infidelity can be forgiven.
I personally think it depends on the communication between the husband and wife, because each couple gets along differently.
But mutual fidelity is respect for marriage, and no reason can be an excuse for cheating and betraying each other.
