"If it is for the purpose of 'passing on the generations', or 'raising children to prevent the elderly', maybe we can not have children."
In the variety show "We Are True Friends", Big S told his own concept of fertility, which can't help but think of a niche Japanese drama "Cradle of Life".
This Japanese drama with the theme of "fertility" tells the hardships and hardships of pregnant mothers from the perspective of a "trainee nurse".
Every pregnant mother has her own different story. There are only a few hundred Douban comments, but in Japan, it has aroused public discussion and many replays on TV stations.
In fact, in our lives, these 3 real moments in the delivery room also reflect the hidden pain of millions of women.
Moment one: Pregnant women drag their tired bodies waiting to give birth
The delivery room is a sentimental place. Big-bellied mothers are here to prepare for childbirth, who can imagine what kind of torture the mothers have experienced after months of pregnancy.
The first three months of morning sickness, dark, dead and alive, hard scalp to feed their own meals.
All kinds of discomfort in the second trimester, can't eat, but always feel hungry. The baby gradually grows up and compresses the mother's stomach, bladder and other parts, making the mother feel uncomfortable.
I don't dare to drink more water before going to bed, afraid that I always want to go to the toilet in the middle of the night. Some pregnant mothers, during pregnancy, will also be puffy, suddenly fat, constipation, oral odor and other symptoms that are difficult to overcome. In order to conceive life, the mothers sacrificed too much.
Moment two: the company from different families
"Marriage is like a person drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge", it is not unreasonable. How husbands and mothers-in-law are, you can see it thoroughly when you have children.
In the obstetrics and gynecology department, all women are about to give birth. Some husbands and mothers-in-law rush to accompany and ask for warmth; some pregnant mothers are accompanied by their own mothers; and some are alone.
Having a child is a big thing in a woman's life. She was about to become a mother, and there was some joy in her heart, but also some fear.
Therefore, at this time, what she needs most is companionship and care. The encouragement of her husband and relatives will give her more confidence, and do not let her chill.
Moment Three: The Story Behind Every Pregnant Mother
In the delivery room, some mothers are frowning, some are urging their husbands to hurry up from the work unit; some are chatting with their mother-in-law and looking forward to new life together;
Others snuggled in their mother's arms, eager for more encouragement and comfort from their mother.
These mothers are waiting for the arrival of new life, some of them are newly married firstborn, some are giving birth to a second child, some want a boy, and some are unmarried and pregnant.
Because of the birth of life, these girls of different ages were gathered together.
Each of them has their own story, but no matter what kind of tribulations they have experienced, they finally choose to risk their lives to give birth to a child and give the baby in their belly a chance to come to this wonderful world.
From the beginning of conceiving the baby, the mothers have already taken on this "responsibility". For the sake of their baby's health, mothers should supplement nutrition every day and even eat foods they don't like.
Although morning sickness is serious, but for the sake of the baby, you still have to endure, this is a sacrifice, is a selfless dedication, but also a sense of responsibility for life.
When the child is born, the mothers take on the responsibility of parenting, pull the child up little by little, and give the child the warmest companionship, and it is really not easy for women.
However, this is not the responsibility of the mothers alone, and in the growth of the child, the fathers must not be absent.
Everyone has a different concept of fertility, some people are to "inherit the family property", some are to "raise children and prevent aging", and some are to experience the beauty of pregnancy.
In any case, what kind of purpose to give birth to a child, not only for a moment, but more importantly, to be responsible for the growth of the child!