The world is full of wonders, and recently, Mr. Qi was hit by a big speechless event to soaring blood pressure.
In a small area in Fujian, someone actually played fireworks in the closed elevator? It is also the kind of long-barreled fireworks with extremely long range and full impact! It's unbelievable!
After all, as long as you know a little basic common sense, you can't do such a brainless thing.
Sure enough, as soon as I opened the video, I found that it was a tall and thin "bear child" who ignited the fireworks.
Under his noisiness, the elevator was instantly shrouded in fireworks, and the sparks that shot under the monitoring also made people can't help but look nervous.
This kid is simply "bear" overdone!
Fortunately, the situation, while precarious, did not have a worse impact.
However, the boy's insecure behavior still set off a terrifying wave on the Internet.
"Oh my God, there are two little girls next to me, it's too dangerous";
"You must eat some bitter skin and flesh in order to learn a long lesson";
"The police should be allowed to come to the door and educate them well!"
As netizens said, the boy must be made aware of the seriousness and harm of this incident!
Ignorance cannot be a shield to cover up wrong behavior, let alone become a talisman to ignore wrong behavior.
No, the front foot has a "bear child" who fires a cannon in the elevator, and the back foot follows a more fierce one.
A 10-year-old boy in Sichuan, in order to seek excitement, threw a firecracker into the sewer of the square, resulting in a series of 5 manhole covers under his feet being blown over!
The scene was thrilling, and he and his fellow mother were injured.
As soon as the news came out, many people expressed their puzzlement: parents are next to them, can't even a 10-year-old child look at it?
It's not that I can't stop it, but I didn't stop it at all!
When a passerby kindly reminds you not to throw it in, the child does not listen, and the parents are equally indifferent.
In other words, before the accident occurred, the injured mother was in a known state of information about the possibility of an explosion!
But she chose to ignore it.
If the child's ignorance is the direct cause of the accident, then the deliberate indulgence of parents who know the danger is more worthy of our vigilance!
Behind the "bear children", there are often hidden "bear parents" who have no bottom line and let go.
I remembered a few days ago a news story that "women's cosmetics were destroyed by relatives and children".
Just heard, only think that the protagonist is too unlucky, until click into the video, Mr. only to feel the tragic collapse!
The girl's boudoir is full of open bags of snacks and garbage, which is inevitably mixed with all kinds of graffiti "created" with cosmetics.
However, the most eye-catching thing is not the messed up and soiled floor, but the various high-value cosmetics lying on the floor.
Broken powder, broken lipstick, broken foundation... One can't bear to look at it directly than the other, just watching from the video, you can turn the inner trick into the river and the sea!
And all this came from the two precious sons of the girl's relatives.
But more infuriating is yet to come.
When the girl suppressed the anger in her heart and photographed the "crime scene" and sent it to the parents of the child, the other party only said vaguely: it has been seriously criticized.
There was no mention of the need for compensation!
It has developed to this point, for the girl, it has indeed caused irreparable damage. But for this parent who evaded responsibility, he did not lose a valuable opportunity to educate his children.
Every child is born with a blank sheet of paper, and they don't get better for no reason, and they don't get bad for no reason. Most of the things presented on the paper are the shadows cast by the parents.
Now, this parent can make things small for their children.
In the future, will it be possible to stand in their way and endure greater causes and effects?
Obviously, no one can "cover" anyone for a lifetime.
Just like the folk story of "stealing needles when hours, stealing gold when big".
In the story, a mother, after her son's petty theft, instead of stopping and criticizing, praised her child for his "ability".
Her acquiescence, affirmation and encouragement of her son's misbehavior eventually put him on a road of no return where he was beheaded.
Before the execution, the child used the excuse of wanting to see her mother, but when the mother came over and cried and thought that her son was going to leave a last word, the child bit down on her ear.
Yang Tian shouted: "If you didn't indulge me when I was a child, how could I have fallen to where I am today?" ”
Yes, this mother's laissez-faire not only did not give the child real protection, but indirectly destroyed the child's life!
"Bear children" are hateful, but they are "dangerous goods" created by parents.
"Bear children" are not inherently annoying, they reveal the educational failures of families.
Li Meijin once said:
6-year-old personality development, some problems have not been solved before, and parents can't manage it later.
Every opportunity to educate children is a race against the clock, and if it is simply criticized after making a mistake, it is still a symptom rather than a cure.
Only by paying attention to the subtle influence of daily life can it be possible to fundamentally solve the problem.
Remember the story that happened to a three-and-a-half-year-old boy:
One day, the boy went shopping with his father to the supermarket, and when he checked out, his father refused his request to buy chocolate, so the little guy secretly brought the chocolate home by himself.
Subsequently, the father, who found his son's hand-in-hand behavior, made a move that surprised everyone.
In the summer, in order to go to the supermarket to return the chocolate, the father and the child walked for forty minutes on foot!
When he arrived at the supermarket, although the little guy had blushed his ears, he bravely extended his little hand and expressed his apologies with the encouragement of his father.
When he got home afterwards, the father asked his child to stand for half an hour, but bought him the same chocolate the next day.
It is not something that he has obtained through formal channels that he cannot ask for, and the father taught the child such a truth in just two days.
This is the way to parenting!
I believe that with such parents, children will be able to grow into truly virtuous people.
The ancients often said that "darlings are like killing children", children do not understand things, making mistakes is common sense, but if parents ignore it again, they will only make children make mistakes again and again.
Maybe we can't do everything, but at least we can still lead by example.
There are no rules and no squares.
What is really good for the child is not to use his age as an excuse, let alone to use his ignorance as a reason.
Only by facing up to the attitude of making mistakes to children can we grasp every favorable educational opportunity!
Good children are managed, and bear children are used to it.
May there be less laissez-faire in the world, and may children get a truly "happy" education!