Many people want to go long with the object of interaction, helpless sometimes the other party did not put you into the future planning, just to fill the loneliness, only reluctantly with the people who do not like so much, wait until they meet a better object, and then fiercely abandon you, leaving you in vain to waste your youth in the same place. Forrest Gump today to share with you, the following ten points are signs of not loving you:
After leaving the society, the circle of life has become very fixed, many people will meet new friends through dating software, and now we can also see that many couples are together through dating software. However, because the motivation for the use of dating software is very clear, few people will "simply make friends" on it, so if you still insist on not deleting dating software after the exchange, or even playing behind your partner's back, it is easy to be associated with "still want to find others to engage in ambiguity".
Netizens believe that even if the other half does not have an ambiguous dialogue with the object of the dating software, it is difficult to rebuild trust, "after finding out that my boyfriend is playing with the dating software, I become suspicious."
Although each couple uses money differently, as long as the two sides have a tacit agreement, but the cost between couples is difficult to divide so carefully, if each consumption has to be actuarially calculated to the first decimal place, in front of the checkout counter a dollar a dollar, is really talking about money hurt feelings.
Many netizens feel that the feelings are mutual, not to mention that the future may also live together, facing the purchase of daily necessities, etc., if even a few sips of drinks, chicken steaks to eat a few bites, to calculate who pays half, who pays a third, will make the two get along very tired, over time it is difficult to maintain.
When you like a person, you will intuitively miss each other and want to chat with each other, although some people are indeed more introverted and shy, and dare not take the initiative to contact the other half, but if only you take the initiative to open the topic every time, propose the next date content, or buy a supper to go to his house, etc., he will take it for granted, let you "hot face paste cold ass", and it is easy to become an unequal relationship in the long run.
Netizens with similar experience expressed their tiredness, "it seems that only I am paying", "I feel that the other half is not bad with me".
Many people have long working hours, weekdays to be busy until very late to leave work, holidays may also go to the company to work overtime, there is really no time to date with the other half, but netizens believe that if the other party has put you in the long-term planning, or will find a way to squeeze out time with you, do not let the feelings fade, even if you really refuse this date, you will immediately take the initiative to propose the next date date.
But if the other party refuses to meet every time without giving a reason, or only asks you out at a very sudden moment, it may be that the person he originally wanted to meet is temporarily out of time, just a temporary spare tire.
"Have you eaten?" Sometimes it's just a very simple message, but the other half is dead and refuses to respond, and has to wait until the next day to receive a "hmm", sometimes waiting until they suspect that the two are really lovers?
Netizens shared their views on "waiting for the message", pointing out that in fact, it only takes a few seconds to reply to a sentence and a sticker, which is basically a question of whether the other party has a heart, even if the work is busy, there will always be time to take time to return the message, and some netizens who are not good at using words also say that if they do not want to type too many words, they will directly talk on the phone, and use actions to show their concern for the other half.
Although not everyone likes to flash high-profile on social networking sites, if the other half deliberately "pretends to be single" on social networking sites, then you have to be careful.
Netizens exposed several manifestations of "pretending to be single", such as deliberately not letting you mark his photos, posting tags He will be loudly reprimanded, and even write words such as "single" and "recruiting companions" in particular, which may mean that he has not put your partner in the eyes at all, and also wants to engage in ambiguity with others, which is a rather selfish behavior.
After many couples reach the marriageable age, they will begin to consider the issue of marriage and children, enter the next stage of life, even if they do not want to get married, both parties will share their plans for the future and incorporate each other into the blueprint of life.
However, some netizens have encountered that as long as the word "marriage" is mentioned, the other half will begin to change the topic, pretend not to hear, and knock on the side to find that the other party does not want to go for a long time. Most netizens have suggested that couples can take some time to discuss future plans, and if they find that they have no consensus and are difficult to run into, it is not a bad thing to leave early.
Everyone is an independent individual, and it is a matter of course that couples occasionally quarrel and rub, but some people always like to hang up the "breakup", whether it is a big thing or a small thing.
Netizens said that even if the quarrel did not really break up at the end, but every time you hear the word "break up", you will have a heartache, and over time you will also have the idea of "good, you want to break up and break up", and you have less and less confidence in this relationship, and people who really love you will not let you experience this feeling.
"You are this virtue, so you will make me angry on a certain day in a certain month of a certain year!" When some people quarrel, they will take out the unpleasant things that have happened before and talk about it again, count what you have done to apologize for him, the things that were originally argued have not yet been discussed, and you have to distract yourself from the previous things, which makes people feel quite tired.
Netizens pointed out that in the face of partners who love to turn over old accounts, they will become more and more cautious, for fear of accidentally angering each other, it is difficult to imagine that they will get along with such partners for a long time in the future.
According to the habit of Chinese, after a period of dating, couples usually face the link of meeting their parents and friends, hoping to let relatives and friends recognize their partners and give blessings.
Although some situations are more strict at home, can not open the relationship to parents, but netizens believe that if even in his circle of friends, you are like an "invisible person", you proposed to know his friends, but also met with fierce opposition, then you should pay special attention to the other party may not think that you are the object of going down, "deliberately dodge feels very weird", "even if you don't love to flash, but friends know that I have a boyfriend, deliberately do not introduce very strange."
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Author: Teacher Forrest Gump