Last Saturday I went to my aunt's house for dinner and happened to meet my cousin who brought my girlfriend home.
As soon as I entered the door, I saw my cousin come out of his bedroom, then trotted to the kitchen and whispered to my aunt biting his ear.
When he walked away, I also went into the kitchen and asked my aunt what he had just said.
My aunt laughed and told me:
"He said that the little girl should not eat too spicy things, and asked me not to put too many peppers in the stir-fry dishes later."
I laughed after listening to it, because in my impression, my cousin had always been a big grinning person, and his carelessness was well known in our family.
But in front of my future cousin, I saw him completely different from before.
At dinner, each of us had only one bowl, but my cousin went to the kitchen to get an extra bowl for his girlfriend.
When the rice was served, he did not want his aunt to help him, he took his girlfriend's bowl, only a small half bowl, and explained that she usually had this amount of rice and could not eat a lot.
When picking vegetables, he would first clip the first chopsticks into his girlfriend's bowl for each dish. The girlfriend doesn't like to eat or can't finish eating, so he naturally clips it over and eats it himself.
After eating, we sat in the living room and ate fruit, the first piece of fruit, he also delivered to his girlfriend's mouth first.
The girlfriend muttered, he knew what she wanted, and then drew two tissues and handed them to her.
He was very familiar with these actions, as if he had operated them countless times in private, as if they usually got along like this.
Looking at them, I remembered a sentence:
"Sometimes, love doesn't require you to do something big that moves the world, but starts in the little details." 」
Compared with the sweet sugar-coated cannonballs, in fact, girls prefer the gentleness and thoughtfulness that naturally flow from the details.
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For example, he knows you're afraid of the dark, so he'll leave you a bedside lamp every night while you're sleeping.
For example, he knows that you will not eat on time as soon as you get busy, so he will not tell you to remember to eat on WeChat, but will directly deliver the meal to you.
This kind of inadvertent, not routine, but from the instinct, subconscious care and concern for a person, is the most sincere.
Not long ago, I watched one of the clips of a variety show "Parallel Time and Space Meet You".
Li Yitong and Wang Yanlin talked about Zhang Ruoyun and Tang Yixin during small talk.
Li Yitong asked Wang Yanlin if he recognized them, and Wang Yanlin said he knew.
Then Li Yitong said:
"When I saw the girl in his memo online, I thought it was so romantic. He remembered what cherries she loved to eat, her habits, her love to laugh, and those were all very detailed things. ”
Then she said that once she participated in the "Harper's Bazaar" event, Tang Yixin sat next to her, and Zhang Ruoyun also walked over.
At that time, there were many people around the scene, but he only had Tang Yixin in his eyes.
"To find out who likes whom, look at the eyes first, because the eyes don't lie."
He looked at her like that, watching her fiddle with her skirt from time to time, watching her talk to other people.
At the beginning of the event, when everyone walked to the venue, he also followed her and helped her carry her skirt.
She liked to eat cherries, so he planted a cherry tree at home.
The place where they first met was at a traffic light intersection. To commemorate this fate, he moved a mini traffic light sign home.
On his ankles, he wore the same couple tattoo as hers.
Every time he spoke of her, the corners of his mouth would rise involuntarily.
……
True love never needs to be deliberate, and if a person loves you, he will definitely let you feel his love in the small things of daily life.
There is always a moment that will make you feel that happiness is so simple.
The simplest happiness is often hidden in the most ordinary, real trivialities of life.
Life itself is very bitter, but having a good lover and a good love can heal and fill most of the bitterness of life.
True love is never a superficial vanity, but a sense of tenderness and security buried in the details.
Sometimes it only takes a subconscious action, a firm look, a warm embrace, and a word of self-respect to melt the hardness of the body and dispel the exhaustion of the body.
"What really drives love is not intense love, but trivial time. True love is also in the details, in his subconscious mind that raises his hands and feet to protect you. ”
The so-called happiness is probably when you want to tell someone about the bits and pieces of daily life, and the face of the lover can clearly appear in your mind.
Love has traces to follow, and those who love you can stand any test.
The rest of your life is so long, I sincerely hope that you can meet such a person, he will give you a full sense of security and tenderness in the details.
Pamper you just the right way you like and want.
Click "Watching" and wish you soon to meet someone who can give you enough security in that detail.
Author: Uncle Nan, 1 meter 82 warm uncle, well-known radio anchor, creator of heart-walking articles, sentiment analyst. Your uncle can understand your heart, your story uncle to listen, may a pot of wine be warm, accompany you for the rest of your life. Source: Mr. Nansu, wait until you find me.