Hello everyone, I'm a big brother! With the Beijing Winter Olympics, Gu Ailing and a group of skiers will become the favorites of fans. Her success has been summed up by netizens as the result of the combined effects of the opportunities of the times, family conditions, personal talents and acquired efforts. As Gu Ailing's body exudes the characteristics of independence, self-confidence, and assertiveness, it is inseparable from a person - Gu Ailing's mother. So, from Gu Ailing's mother's educational philosophy, what enlightenment can we get?
You have to try it again, and the worst result is that you don't like it, but if you particularly like it, then you earn it.
The final choice is yours, it's your game and I hope you enjoy it.
In the process of education, Gu's mother gave Gu Ailing the greatest respect and choice opportunity, and never took care of and made decisions for Gu Ailing.
The educator Mr. Chen Heqin once said: "Whatever a child can do on his own, let him do it himself."
But in today's society, more and more children are called "giant babies", big things and small things are decided by parents, children do not have their own consciousness, do not have their own opinions, and do not have the ability to do things independently. The more you do for your child, the more you will do nothing, which not only deprives the child of the opportunity to develop his ability, but also leads to the child's future entry into society, facing setbacks, and not having the courage to accept failure.
Parents who do everything in a big way, the child can not cultivate the ability to be independent, but like The mother of the valley, come up with ideas and suggestions, let the child try, in order to let the child learn to be independent early.
But the big brother wants to say that the child "let go" rather than "let go", some parents think that the child wants to be free-range, they give the decision to the child, the child often does not understand what consequences their decisions will have. In fact, respect for the child, let the child make their own choices is a process and steps, starting from learning tasks, life skills, children's hobbies, etc., once the child encounters problems, we must give help, and from the experience at home, tell the child what the consequences are, and then weigh and decide by the child.
Finally, the big brother wants to say that the family should be the "hiking pole" in the child's growth, and use his wisdom and ability to support the child's growth path.
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