I can only send you here, the rest of the way you have to go by yourself, don't look back. Hayao Miyazaki's "Spirited Away" - Today I met a neighbor in the neighborhood, an old lady in her 60s. Wear a mask

I can only send you here,

You have to walk the rest of the way on your own, don't look back.

Hayao Miyazaki, "Spirited Away"

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Today I met a neighbor in the neighborhood, an old lady in her 60s.

Wearing a mask, she still couldn't hide her gaunt face, and even the sound of her speech felt like it was squeezed out of her throat.

Because of her wife, she died on the first day of the Chinese New Year this year.

A month ago, her wife accidentally diagnosed with mid-stage stomach cancer. Because of the fear of spread, the original plan to go to treatment after the end of the year was advanced to the new year.

Originally, the recovery after the operation was quite OK, and if everything was normal, it was possible to be discharged from the hospital and go home for the New Year. However, on the 7th day after the operation, the indicators suddenly dropped, and after confirming the rescue with the family, they were urgently promoted to iCU.

The door of the icu cut off the family's reunion day from then on.

Her wife later died a few days after being rescued at the iCU.

The family did not see the last side, did not leave a word, and was separated forever.

The old lady was now alone in an empty house all day, with no one to fix the lights, and no fireworks until the meal was over. The room was surprisingly quiet, and even her cries seemed cold.

The bond between people and people is really unclear.

You say simple and simple, to put it bluntly, it is the four words of love and hate. You say that complexity is also complex, and it is entangled in it for a lifetime, and all lifetimes are entangled in it.

Every life in this world begins to die from the day it comes.

There is no pause, no repetition, no matter what experience life gives us, we can only choose to continue to move forward.

Therefore, we should meet each other every day, live well, and then say goodbye. You can miss it, but never look back.