Visitor, female, 13 years old, second year of junior high school
(First consultation) (status adjustment)
Today is the first time to meet the visitor, she is a very beautiful and lovely girl, in fact, the child was brought by the parents confused, at the beginning, the child is not very willing to communicate, with the deepening of the exchange, she began to slowly trust me on the basis of trust, according to the information she provided and the feedback of parents, we agreed on a consultation plan together, the whole consultation process progressed smoothly, achieved the expected effect.
In fact, every consultation, especially the first consultation in the face of not much cooperation with the client, I am very nervous, because I am facing a living life, and life is worthy of awe, when a life faces another life that needs support, is there the ability to support another life to become better, I am afraid that because of my limited ability, there is no better support to the client, living up to the expectations of the client and the family, so every consultation I treat with my heart, Sometimes I even forget the psychological counseling techniques used. I have always believed that above all counseling techniques is love, and when one life has enough care, love, warmth, compassion and support in the face of another life, it is believed that it will win the trust of another life, and trust is the golden key to open the door to counseling.
Psychological counseling is actually a kind of spiritual companionship of growth, in the company of love and warmth, with life to touch life, with life to warm life, with life to nourish life, with life to awaken life, with the hope of life to awaken the hope of another life, with a tree to shake another tree, with a cloud to wake up another cloud, the client's state of life adjusted to a better state, at the same time, in this state, in the life of the visitor, plant a seed of hope, maybe this seed will soon sprout Maybe it will take a long time for the seed to germinate, flower and bear fruit, but no matter what, as long as there is a seed, when it meets the right sunlight, air, water and soil, it is a natural phenomenon to blossom and bear fruit in the future.
Because a person can have nothing, but can not be without hope, a person can discard anything, but can not throw away the passion of chasing hope, hope is just a beginning, just the starting point of the road of struggle, in the process of hope into reality, the child will harvest passion and touch, self-confidence and pragmatism, let him have hope to be down-to-earth, work hard to pursue, believe that the child's future will be the result of his heart, live as he likes, this is the mission of each of our psychological counselors.
Mindfulness Import Guide:
From today on, I want to fly my dreams high and live and learn positively and optimistically.
Heaven has never prescribed what I will be like in this life, nor has the state prescribed me, nor has my parents prescribed me, nor have my teachers.
Nothing dictates what I can or cannot do, what kind of person I must be, what kind of person I cannot be.
Heaven gave me the initiative in everything, he never controlled me, never decided on me, he let me decide my own dreams, and then selflessly helped me and achieved me.
It's like heaven and earth never decide what will grow in a piece of land.
When a farmer sows the seed of an apple, heaven and earth will use all their strength to help it grow an apple;
When a farmer sows a seed of peppercorns, heaven and earth will use all their strength to help it grow peppercorns.
I know how important my dreams are. It is a seed. No matter what kind of dreams I have, God will come to help me and achieve me.
If I were the seed of a small grass, heaven and earth would help me to become a small grass; if I were the seed of a flower, heaven and earth would help me to blossom a flower; if I were the seed of a nanmu, heaven and earth would help me to become a towering tree.
I want to be the most beautiful seed in the world and make the world beautiful because of me!
I love this wonderful world! Good night!
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