Why do some graduate tutors like to ask students about their family situation? What are you trying to learn?
A friend who is a PhD student told me.
His mentor, a great cattle in a certain field, knows every student's family situation very well.
My friend's sister, the second generation of the rich, has a listed company at home, and she is not self-motivated, and the tutor is not very concerned. Later, the sister graduated normally, did not know how to stay in school as a teacher, and then got married and had a baby, most of the time took leave and did not come to work.
My friend's female classmate, the second generation of farmers, is particularly scheming and desperate, and my friend does not like her very much. But the mentor was still very important to her, and some important things were entrusted to her to do, and they were well done. The tutor intends to pay for sending female classmates abroad for joint training.
My friend, the first-line middle class, watching the second generation of female classmates in the laboratory sometimes playing with their wrists in the laboratory is particularly unhappy, very envious of the rich second generation of students' dashing, was scolded by the tutor several times: can you compare with others? I know that your family is not short of money, and I don't need you to work as hard as xx (female classmates), but you also have to plan for your future!
My friend's apprentice, the second generation of the school, my father was a classmate of the tutor many years ago, and he is far less mixed than the tutor but also a professor somewhere. The tutor took good care of the apprentice on the surface, and privately told my friend: xxx (the apprentice's) future has been paved by his father, and I don't have to worry about it.
A responsible mentor will teach with money.
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