Children with different personalities, different educational methods, do you use it correctly?

Guide:

Some parents always blindly follow some "expert" parenting methods, as everyone knows, different children, have different personality characteristics, different personality characteristics, should use different education methods, rather than drawing gourds in the same way.

Lively type of child

Born smart and active, enthusiastic and cheerful, full of creativity, curiosity is also strong, not afraid of the stage, easy to talk and laugh. They are positive by nature, but their attention is easily distracted, it is always difficult to start and end well, and their academic performance is relatively poor.

They prefer campus performances and entertainment, and they excel. Suitable for acting, hosting, dancing, singing, marketing and other occupations. They need constant encouragement, encouragement and stimulation, and they want attention and recognition. It can best keep up with the trend of the times.

As a parent, teach your child to be disciplined, tidy, and use money, hug and kiss them often, and encourage them to do what they love to do, but never condone it, even if it is good for you (such as taking your money to buy you a gift). Lively children's every move is for fun and attention, and they must have a team environment to constrain.

Strength type children

Strong-willed, energetic, brave and decisive, good at commanding, adventurous, pursuing challenges and changes, a strong desire to control, and a talent for leadership from an early age. He will gain control by throwing a tantrum, vowing not to give up until he reaches his goal, suitable for sports competitions, adventure careers and personal entrepreneurship. The greatest desire of power children is to be the "boss", and when things backfire, they will quarrel and fight out of impatience.

As a parent, we must resolutely stop the child's domineering and arbitrary, and it is worth paying no matter how much price, so as not to lose authority, or even be dominated and controlled by the child in turn. They are very good at exploiting their parents' loopholes to achieve the purpose of controlling the whole family. Parents should respect their strong need for fairness and justice, and provide them with an environment in which they can realize their potential. Keep them busy and take on some responsibilities to satisfy their desire for achievement.

Perfect type of kid

Wise and intelligent, as soon as he is born, his face is written seriously, lying on the crib, he will analyze and think. Adults would say, "He looks so smart, like a little adult." They are the most creative and artistically gifted, generally interested in careers in music, art design, literature, philosophy, photography, architecture, etc. They are good students with high standards of self-discipline, do not need to be supervised and urged by others, can do homework quietly, and study and live in an orderly manner. But he is not good at expressing his inner feelings, and sometimes has pessimism.

Parents should encourage their children to develop specialties and hobbies, let them know how to be grateful and face failure, confess their emotions and needs, and try to contact tragic books, television or music as little as possible, so as not to add serious injuries and depression. The perfect child pays attention to details, pursues perfection, and hopes that others will be able to perceive his inner needs.

Peaceful type of child

Calm and easy-going, entertain yourself, and don't have to be deliberately caring. After feeding him every day, he went to sleep, the most docile of all the babies. Growing up, he was just a bystander and a good listener, but indecisive and unintended. The peaceful child does not openly resist, but in the silence hides his iron will. Is a good worker, good friend, suitable for office work and administrative affairs.

As a parent, we must discover his special intelligence in everything and guide him, read more books to him from an early age, and play more psychological challenge games to stimulate his enthusiasm. Encourage him to participate in outdoor sports activities such as wrestling and running. Communicate with your child calmly, try your best to dispel conflict and fear, and let them make more choices and ideas on their own.

The peaceful child craves peace and tranquility, he expects respect and recognition, you want to let him know that you cherish him. Relieve children's stress and emotions According to children's interests and preferences, choose special learning in a targeted manner to avoid the pressure of children's growth. At the same time, according to the child's personality characteristics, choose the appropriate way for the child to enjoy the spirit and soothe the emotions.

Strength-type children need to consume physical energy to relax themselves. Parents can accompany them to run, kick and other sports games.

Lively children need to be relieved by talking incessantly, and parents should chat with them more and listen to their stories.

Peaceful children like to enjoy the "idle" time, parents should encourage them to read, and it is also a good way to accompany them for walks and chats.

The perfect type of child, like to be alone, quietly reading a book and listening to music alone is enjoyment. Parents should create conditions for them and provide convenience.

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