The opposite sex gets along, the other party does not pay attention to you, for your things, he is not concerned at all, rarely asks you about your life situation, your things, he is not willing to manage, nor do you want to worry about your things, so you have some inappropriate behavior, she will put out a "matter does not matter" attitude, repeatedly let you, appear to be somewhat generous.
Just as he read your love letters to other members of the opposite sex, saw that you had a close relationship with other members of the opposite sex, dated privately, and gave some gifts to other people of the opposite sex, his mood was very calm, and he did not bother with you, he released such a signal, indicating that there is no place for you in his heart.
On the contrary, a person really looks at you, treats you as his own person, wants to hold hands with you, at this time, he will expect you to have expectations, there are requirements, he expects you to do things, you do not do, he resents what you do, but you always do, at this time, he will feel lost, she may be calculating with you, unwilling to let you. You know, in these three things, people who don't want to let you really love you, do you understand?
1. Don't let you associate with other people of the opposite sex.
The opposite sex gets along, if the other party does not mind you flirting with other members of the opposite sex, Qingqing me and me, seeing you and other members of the opposite sex in private contact, he is not jealous at all, and even holds an encouraging attitude, introducing some friends of the opposite sex to you, the other party releases such a signal, obviously want to keep a distance from you.
However, when the other party treats you sincerely, you will expect you to love him wholeheartedly, regard him as the backbone of the lord, and be good to her for a lifetime.
If you can't love him without distraction, you can't do your best to be good to him, when you interact with him, you are too close to other people of the opposite sex, at this time, he is calculating with you, he will overturn the vinegar altar, make you a child, express dissatisfaction with you, and require you to consciously restrain your behavior, the other party has such an external performance, indicating that his heart really values you.
2. Don't let you indulge in vices and accompany you to grow.
When the opposite sex is together, if the other party does not care about you, he will not care about your affairs, how you live, how you develop, whether you have a good life, he can turn a blind eye.
After you indulge in vices and do things that are not conducive to your own development, he will not say a word, let you sink into self-destruction, and ignore your things.
On the contrary, when the other party really looks at you and takes you as his own person, at this time, the other party will naturally be extremely optimistic about you, he will not meet you addicted to vices, whenever you are left and right by bad living habits to do something that is not conducive to your own growth, he is not willing to give in, always urge you to improve yourself, make yourself better, he will grow with you, the other party releases such a signal, indicating that there is your place in his heart, he really attaches importance to you.
3. Don't let you be strong, will think for you, share your worries.
In life, you will inevitably encounter some headaches, which may be beyond your ability, you should find someone to help, and you are not willing to admit this, want to be strong, solve it yourself, the result is not only did not solve the problem, but also made things worse.
The other party already knows what you are experiencing, but does not interfere and has a bystander attitude, which shows that he is not concerned about your affairs.
The person who really loves you deeply, seeing that you are doing some strong things, he will interfere, he will consider for you, share worries for you, do not let you be strong, he will worry about you, will take the initiative to share worries for you, which shows that his heart really attaches importance to you, has to treat you as his own person, do not realize.