There is a list that has been deeply rooted in the heart in the past six months. The fourteen children, like their own children, were always haunted by food, clothing, shelter, and clothing.
When I was a class teacher, as a "little parent", I was able to complete a home visit to all the staff every year. After becoming the principal of the new school at the end of April 2021, there were more children in my eyes, and the children I came into contact with in need of care became a major event in the heart of my "big parent".
On the fourth day of my appointment, the "May Day" holiday, I ran through 27 villages in the service area with dozens of lists reported by each class; in the new school year, the National Day once again visited a large area, and finally, the list of 14 people was deeply engraved in my heart.
In 2002, after a home visit, he wrote an article "Please go to a rural family" published in the magazine "Friends of the Class Teacher", twenty years later, in our rural areas, in addition to the poverty of individual families, some new problems have become "a thorn" in the hearts of children.
We can't change the changes in the family, but we can use love to warm the children, and use sincerity and hard work to drive a family out of the haze.
The list of 14 people (all pseudonyms) is not only the principal's concern, but also the common affair of every family. On January 26, with this list in mind, I and three school leaders once again stepped into the children's homes, sent flour and blessings to each family, brought books and school supplies to the children, and sent warmth, blessings, and hopes to the families.
Throughout the day, nearly 100 kilometers, 14 children, distributed in 12 villages. Rugged mountain roads, narrow laneways. I don't know how many times we have been to the village, everywhere we go, we know which open place to park our car in, and we know which road is more convenient.
Pick up the flour and gifts and walk to your home. Along the road, there are constantly parents or fellow villagers greeting: Teacher Wang is good, and he comes to visit... Talk to your fellow countrymen for a few words, especially kind! Say hello and say goodbye, and faintly hear the praise of the school and teachers behind you!
Every time I went to a household, I sat around the table, a pot of hot tea, and when we talked about it, everyone wiped away their tears, and everyone laughed again when they talked. Some children snuggle with their parents, some snuggle in the arms of the teacher, this is not only the children of the parents, but also the children of the teacher, the children of the school, all the children, we have seen the faint smiling face.
Every time you leave, just like the farewell of your relatives, the mountain road is far away, waving for a long time, whenever at this time, the eyes are always confused, sitting in the car, several people are silent for a long time, looking at the mountain in front of them, full of our children one after another.
Little Flower, 11 years old, girl. His parents divorced and he lived with his disabled dad. Severe inferiority complex makes her self-enclosed, isolated from the outside world, afraid of everything around her. In the face of the teacher's questioning, cover your ears lightly, and run away from the heavy. I gave her a hard-boiled egg every morning, the child began to have a smile, took the initiative to come closer to me, cut off the long hair that covered the eyes, the child's eyes were shining, so beautiful. Even if the child's father died suddenly in November, we held the child's hand, so that the child still had full of "father's love" and "mother's love" after suffering, and the volunteer director of the school's "Love Home" Yu and Xiao Ru had paired up to help.
Xiaohong, 9 years old, girl. The father is deaf, the mother has intellectual problems, the family of six is counting on grandpa to work to make ends meet, the family is poor, and even a few extracurricular books have become a problem. Children especially love to read, and every time they are a little embarrassed to borrow the "drifting books" of other classmates. The child's father and grandfather have been blaming themselves for not being able to earn money and not providing a good life for the child, and the grandmother is constantly wiping tears... We didn't know what to say, we could only do something for the children silently, contacted the Youth League County Committee to build a "love book house", and the teacher sent stacks of books to the children.
Xiao Jun, 10 years old, boy. Both parents are mentally retarded, my sister is sick and is hospitalized by my grandmother, and my elderly grandfather is working in the field on crutches and dragging a leg that does not listen to orders to survive. Although there are all kinds of assistance from the state, how can the poverty of the family, the lack of father's and mother's love, and the blow of family changes be able to bear by this nine-year-old boy? Contact help and assistance, "Love Home" volunteers pair up to care, so that children's childhood is no longer only gray.
Xiaoli, 8 years old, girl. Divorced family, father in prison, and dependent on grandma. Every time I see a child, my heart is sour, but the flower-like girl has endured so much suffering. A new piece of clothing, a pair of shoes, a toy... We can't be parents, but we try our best to make our children feel special love. The child smiled, at home is the grandmother's "warm treasure", in school is the pacesetter of labor, in order to clean the toilet water, ice water soaked shoes without complaint.
Xiao Yong, 10 years old, boy. Two disabled sisters in their 20s became a burden on the family, with mom taking care of her sister and dad working outside the home. Although Xiao Yong is only 10 years old, we talk about ideals and the future with our children, and the children understand their heavy responsibilities, be the pillar of the family, and assume the responsibility of supporting their parents and taking care of their sisters in the future. The child understands things, we contact the caring families in the city to pair with the children, will help the children until the completion of college, so that the children are more confident and hopeful about the future.
Xiaoping, 6 years old, boy. Dad rescued in the ICU, medical expenses are in short supply, our teachers, students, parents immediately donated money to save the emergency, parents turned the crisis into safety, Xiaoping finally can shout a sentence "Daddy" after returning home from school.
In addition, there are Xiaowen, 6 years old, girl, whose parents are disabled, who have been raised by her grandmother since the age of three, and live in a dark cottage with her grandmother; Xiao Fei, 7 years old, girl, single parent, following her mother and grandmother in two simple farmhouse huts; Xiao Ying, 6 years old, girl, single parent, father is not in good health, live with her grandparents; Xiaofeng, 7 years old, boy, single parent, live with her grandmother; Xiao Hao, 11 years old, boy, single parent, live with her grandparents; Xiao Dan, 6 years old, girl, single parent, dad is not in good health, Live with her grandmother; Xiao Jia, 11 years old, girl, her parents divorced, her father works outside the home for many years and is adopted by her aunt; Xiao Feng, 11 years old, a girl, whose parents are divorced, lives in her grandmother's house.
Fourteen lists, fourteen families, each with a different situation, each child suffering from its own. As a family, all we can do is to do our best to give our children more warmth and more help to the family.
At present, we have contacted a number of children to help love volunteers, organized the "New Year's Dream" activity during the New Year's Day, led the children into the county, purchased books, visited the Science and Technology Museum, visited the martyrs' mausoleums, watched movies, shared the New Year reunion dinner, and purchased New Year gift packages...
"Love" makes us crazy, we set up the school's "Love Home" organization, and constantly attract caring people to join the team of caring for teenagers. We entered the village during the winter and summer vacations to "accompany the study", do live broadcasts, home visits, and go to the city on New Year's Day to realize our dreams... Someone cast a different eye, because we really know children, so we walk very firmly.
"Love" does not need to be advertised, and writing this article only counts as an appeal to more caring people to pay attention to children who need love.
Finally, let's end the article with a small essay released by the circle of friends!
January 28 circle of friends: to summarize the "warmth" of the past six months, the summary of the "love home" stage of Dongxiao:
2021.4.26 Into the new home of Dongxiao;
5.1 Visit the student for the first time;
5.1 Begin to continuously contact social assistance;
Uninterrupted "accompanying school" visits during the July-August holiday;
9.10 Teacher's Day, bring the director into the household pairing help;
9.19 Raised nearly 10,000 yuan for the parents of sick students;
10.1 Once again a large-scale visit;
10.5 Bring two groups of families, Mr. Zhang Dianma and Mr. An, to pair up to help two students;
10.9 Visit students at the School;
12.1 Visit the child in distress and the child's grandfather respectively;
12.13 Take Teacher Zhang Dian Ma to pair up to help a student;
From October to December, Teacher Zhang Dian'an mailed clothes, daily necessities and school supplies to the children many times; Teacher Ma's family went to the children's homes three times to fund a large number of living expenses and school supplies;
1.1 On New Year's Day, a number of caring units and a number of caring people, parents and students sponsored 14 students to enter the city to realize their dreams in the New Year (Teacher Zhang Dianma's whole family came to support 14 children);
1.26 Winter vacation New Year visits;
1.28 Mr. Zhangdian Ma and Ms. Lu took the initiative to apply for help some students to solve the school bus fare and part of the living expenses on the basis of paired assistance
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Along the way, full of touch, full of confidence and strength, because of you, lovely children, simple villagers, and more importantly, that is, the good deeds of every caring person in society! thank! thanksgiving! Greetings on behalf of children and folks!