Aunt Jin and her husband have three sons, all in a remote hometown.
The original good family, suddenly the husband cheated, not only refused to divorce her, but also gave birth to a daughter with Xiao San, the name is: like a daughter.
Although she is not divorced, her husband has long stopped taking money for the family, and she has to support her three sons alone in her hometown, and the degree of difficulty can be imagined.
Reluctantly, Aunt Jin came to work in a first-tier big city by herself, and later stabilized in an area as a worker at a garbage sorting station, dirty and tired, but with a good income.
I have been doing this for more than ten years, but people in their early fifties are like more than sixty, bent by life.
She bought a house for her three sons, and after the eldest son started a family, she opened a shop for them to make ends meet. The second son worked OK, so he only bought a house, and there were no other requirements after marriage. The third son is not small, does not marry and has no career, and Aunt Jin also opened a small shop for him at the request.
The eldest New Year's Day, the aunt returned home on the last day of the year, came back on the fourth day of the New Year, came back to work, and buried her head when she worked and did not want to look up.
Auntie is very popular, and friends who pass by will greet each other when they meet. Today's silence has naturally aroused the concern of the enthusiastic masses in the community.
People have been wronged and can endure, but without asking, a question will break the defense, Aunt Jin cried and told the matter.
It turned out that Aunt Jin's eldest daughter-in-law had given birth to a child, and Aunt Jin had originally planned to go home to serve the confinement, but the eldest daughter-in-law said no, disgusted aunt Jin for turning over garbage at work, which was dirty. Aunt Jin asked with concern, "Then don't let me take care of it, what will you and the child do?" "
The eldest daughter-in-law smiled with her eyes hanging and said, "I'll just ask for a babysitter, you can send me money every month." "
Aunt Jin looked at the eldest daughter-in-law for a long time, and then looked at her son who had not spoken next to her, shook her head and asked, "Don't you still make money in your shop?" "
Aunt Jin was unable to stay and returned to her mother's house.
The eldest son and the second son have their own families, and like the two daughters-in-law, they both dislike her for not letting her enter the house to eat, even if their house is bought by the old woman's money.
The younger son has not yet started a family, he guards a suite, all day long, Aunt Jin went to his house to cook, did not give her a place to sleep.
And her original home had long been taken back by her husband, and that place would not let her go back.
In the past few years, she can only go back to her mother's house to eat Chinese New Year's Eve meal, and her nephew is distressed by her, buys two new sets of clothes, and comforts her to spend a good year at home.
Even so, Aunt Jin left her hometown early and returned, and no one cared where she was, whether it was the husband who cheated but did not want to divorce, or the three sons who were inferior to nothing.
Aunt Zhang from the northeast shouted in a loud voice: "You will take back your house, see if the three of them dare to drag." "
Originally, only Aunt Zhang was listening to her, and then many people passed by and stopped.
"I also have a son, he and his daughter-in-law are here, don't you also take me to the pension, I tell you, as long as you have money in your hands, are you still afraid that others will not treat you well?"
Aunt Jin looked up with tears in her eyes and asked, "The real estate deeds have all been completed, can you come back?" "
"Why not, just prove that you paid for it."
"But they said they wouldn't give me a pension in the future."
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"Now I don't want you to come into the house to eat, when you are old, will you really give you a pension?"
A little brother stood up and said, "I am doing legal work, if you want, you can ask me to help you, I will definitely be able to help you get back." "
"I'm afraid I can't afford to pay for you."
The brother was very frank: "As long as you figure it out, you only need to pay some road fees, and it doesn't matter if I collect that little money." "
Others are also saying: "Yes, listen to the little brother, the most important thing is that you have figured it out." "
"I've figured it out a long time ago, otherwise I wouldn't have refused when they opened their mouths, but I don't know what to do." Aunt Jin had stopped her tears and sighed.
"Just like we said, the house is coming back, the shop is back, as long as you open this mouth, the other party is afraid."
Aunt Jin called her eldest son on the spot, and sure enough, it was still the same sentence: "You don't give me money now, and I won't give you a pension in the future." "
Hearing that Aunt Jin was not only unwilling to give up the family's nanny money, but also asked for the house to be taken back, the son and daughter-in-law scolded on the phone at the same time.
Aunt Kim was embarrassed and hung up the phone.
The crowd was even more indignant: "It's okay, you take back the house shop, turn back to your mother's house, see a few nephews and nieces who are good to you, guarantee that you can send you a good mountain after you are old, you will give money to whom, or your house shop will go to the bank to hold, there is money in hand and you are afraid of who is not good for you!" "
Aunt Kim nodded silently.
Within a few days, aunt Kim was heard saying that several of her sons had called her to please her, hoping that she would not take the house back.
How the follow-up is, I don't know for the time being, but I hope That Aunt Jin really figures out the key to it, and stick to it.
Those who become slaves to money can deal with them as long as you have money in your hands.
This story is not to show that the son must be useless, nor does it mean that the daughter must be good to the parents, let alone that the children are useless, because the many are also good examples of the filial piety and obedience of the children. Rather, I want to make it clear that it is better to live by the conscience of others than to rely on your own abilities and the money in your hands that matches your abilities.
Financial independence and freedom are one of the foundations of human life.
Having money does not mean happiness, and having love can solve many things, but without financial support, things are more difficult to solve.
Whether your children are complete or lonely, if you want to be happy, you must not only be a loving person, but also a person who can support your own life and have love.