In the past two days, major social media platforms, a sunny girl, and various good news have dominated the screen: "Champion! China's Gu Ailing won the gold medal in the final of the freestyle ski jump at the Beijing Winter Olympics, "historic breakthrough! Gu Ailing's gold medal is the first women's snow sports winter Olympic gold medal of Chinese athletes".......
Seeing this scene makes people cry with joy!
I was surprised by this Chinese girl named Gu Ailing, brushed the screen, brushed very surprised, what about you?
First, "genius girl" Gu Ailing
Chinese freestyle skier Gu Ailing, alias Frog Princess, was born in 2003 in San Francisco. On June 6, 2019, at the age of 15, she announced her official conversion to Chinese nationality through social platforms.
Gu Ailing, 18 years old, has a tall figure, sunny skin, and a bright smile! I believe that all the audience, all of them are infected by her smile.
It is reported that Gu Ailing began to learn to ski at the age of 3, and at the age of 9, he participated in ski competitions and won the championship of skiing events.
Since then, he has won many ski events in his ski career, winning as many as 50 gold medals at the age of 14 (the events he participated in are not listed here).
In particular, the cool skiing posture in the 2022 Beijing Winter Olympics Freestyle Skiing Women's Big Jumping Competition won the championship, which surprised all the spectators and the Chinese people cheered and boiled.
Gu Ailing's professional characteristics are: slope obstacles, U-shaped pools, Rail jam.
This girl is simply amazing!
With Gu Ailing's repeated domination of the screen, her strong family genes have also been exposed one by one.
Let the netizens marvel.
Excellent as Gu Ailing, obviously can rely on appearance and family strength, but it depends on hard work!
Second, strong family genes
Everyone knows that Gu Ailing is a mixed-race Chinese-American girl, her father is American, and her mother is from Beijing. Then let's see how strong Gu Ailing's original family genes are from the three generations closest to them.
Grandfather: Gu Zhengguang, Peking University;
Grandma: Feng Guozhen, Peking University, retired cadre of the Ministry of Transport, former senior engineer of the Department of Structural Reform of the Ministry of Transport;
Mother: Gu Yan, a high-achieving student at Peking University and Stanford University, and a former ski instructor;
Grandpa: Stanford University;
Dad: Harvard.
A child like Gu Ailing, who is excellent and has three positive views, his growth is inseparable from the influence of his original family.
In summary, it can be seen that its excellent family genes, family education is naturally not bad.
One personality psychologist said: "The ability of the family to shape people is the cornerstone of our view of personality development today. The family is the cell of society, with not only natural genetic factors, but also social "genetic" factors. This kind of social genetic factor is mainly manifested in the role of the family in the education of children, and it is not unreasonable to say that "if there is a father, there must be a son, and if there is a mother, there must be a daughter". Parents educate their children according to their own wishes and in their own way, so that they gradually form certain personality traits.
3. Family education
As mentioned above, Gu Ailing began to learn to ski when she was 3 years old, because her mother liked skiing, but because she skated too slowly, dragging her mother's hind legs, so 3-year-old Gu Ailing was thrown into the ski school. That's how her skiing career began.
At the age of 8, her mother found that her skiing skills were advancing too fast and it was too dangerous, so she was thrown into the freestyle ski team by her mother, which would be slower and safer! But at that time she didn't know what "freestyle" really was.
Gu Ailing's mother said in an interview with media reporters: "For children's education, words are not as good as teaching by example. She likes poetry, chess, and painting, and she does it herself, mainly to create an atmosphere for her, and if the child wants to, she will naturally join, and if she does not want to, do not force her. When I was young, if I thought I couldn't score a hundred, I made a big mistake. ”
But for Gu Ailing's request, she was: "As long as you master this knowledge." ”
As the saying goes: "Hope the son becomes a dragon, and the girl becomes a phoenix." "Children carry the expectations of their parents.
But Gu Ailing's mother believes that the child's education is not as good as teaching by example, parents are the child's role models, as long as the parents take the lead, if the child is interested, she will naturally participate in it, and the things she likes will be happy and enthusiastic.
If the child doesn't like something, it's useless to force her. Therefore, the child does not like things, support her, do not like things, do not force her to do.
This mother is demanding herself, leading by example to influence the child, and giving the child enough freedom and respect.
Looking at Gu Ailing's mother's family education ideology, in contrast, many parents have thoughts on their children's family education, especially in modern society, children are arranged by their parents in a variety of interest classes, whether the child is willing to learn or not, they must follow the parents' wishes to do it, the child is tired and breathless, but even say "no" is my qualification, parents have not given. They want to mold their children into what they expect.
As everyone knows, children prefer to grow up happily in a free, relaxed, respectful and supportive family environment.
Judging from Gu Ailing's super high evaluation of her mother, her way of educating her mother is happy. "My mum is the most open-minded person I know, she always gives her all to everyone around her, she drives 8 hours every weekend to take me skiing," she says. ”
In terms of learning, Gu Ailing feels that the elders in the family, grandmas, grandfathers, and parents have graduated from prestigious universities, and she must also go to Stanford University.
Every time Gu Ailing had such a thought, her mother would advise her that you don't need to go to Stanford, you can go to the school you particularly like. But it's even more important that you don't give up on learning for the rest of your life.
Speaking of which, what do you think?
Gu Ailing's mother, in the child's growth education, gives the child enough respect and support, seemingly loose family education, but it is to lead by example, little by little to guide, discover the child's interests, hobbies and advantages, and then encourage and support the child to participate in it, so that the child is enthusiastically engaged in learning.
Remembering that a psychologist once said about the various reactions of parents to children (such as rejection, coddling, overprotectiveness, over-strictness) and the consequences of personality, he finally concluded: "The child's personality is closely related to his or her relationship with his or her parents, which is the most important conclusion, which means that when we consider parent-child relationships, we must pay attention not only to their impact on causing psycho-emotional disorders and psychopathological conditions, but also to their relationship with normal, leadership and genius development." ”
Gu Ailing said that no matter what she did, she was 100% enthusiastic and attentive to do it.
For Gu Ailing's words, I also believe 100%! What about you?
Because of love, so focused!