The most important thing about a person's moral character is to see whether the person is self-aware. People who do not have self-knowledge seem to be proud in their daily lives, but in fact they are very sad, because they do not know themselves, they will offend many people for no reason, and they will also be hated by the people around them. And more importantly, even if you are hated by others, you still think that it is someone else's fault.
Imagine that a person who can't even manage himself well will bring out a little clever ghost? Or will it gradually become a bear child and thus be disgusting? The answer is already obvious, there are no small things in children's affairs, and if you do not form a concept of right and wrong in early childhood, then sooner or later someone will teach them in a more decisive way for you.
Recently, a child in Shanghai was educated by passers-by, and netizens shouted after reading it: Really relieved, aunt education is right! Support auntie's approach.
Here's the thing, a woman took the subway with her daughter, maybe at first there were not so many people on the subway, and there were a few empty seats, so the child occupied two seats alone, and the people around him did not say anything.
But after a few stops, many people came up one after another, and there were no seats at this time, and most of them were standing. The woman saw this situation but did not react at all, still allowing her daughter to play in two seats.
If only the little girl occupies this seat, it is more disgusting that the little girl is still wearing shoes to step on the seat and play back and forth, which should be used to sit but is stepped on without scruples, dirty and not dirty, this behavior itself should not happen.
It didn't take long to see the woman and an aunt arguing, according to the words of the two arguing, the aunt wanted the child to give up a seat, maybe the tone was not very good at the time, the woman was a little angry after hearing it. Although angry, he let the child give up his seat.
The aunt looked at the seat that had been stepped on, and the anger in her heart did not come out, and then she pointed to the little girl and asked the woman: "Is she polite", the woman thought that she had been beaten for no reason, and her heart was not happy, so she replied to the aunt: "You lack of education", and the aunt heard more angry, angrily rebuked the woman: "You lack of education!" ”
But the woman was still defending her child: "On the side, you can see that she occupies a seat, right, I have given up my seat to you, why don't you sit?"
At this time, the eyes around the carriage are focused on the woman and the aunt, all see the little girl is still wearing shoes standing on the seat at this time, visually there is also a 4 or 5-year-old look, to say that such a large child should have understood things, you can clearly know that such behavior is not right, maybe the woman is neglecting to discipline the child on weekdays, which causes the consequences of being educated by others.
The aunt was also very helpless about the woman's unreasonable teasing, and said to the woman: "It is not a matter of occupying a position", but the woman still does not forgive, and still looks unconvinced: "You said that my child is right, my seat has been given to you." At this time, it was obvious that the aunt was talking about the child taking the place and stepping on it was impolite, while the woman only struggled to let the child sit, not realizing the problem of the child stepping on the seat.
The aunt also replied to the woman: "I said that your children can't say it, if you don't educate, I will educate." I have to say that the aunt's reply is very domineering, and the woman who is directly intimidated cannot speak.
Lao Yu wanted to say
In general, children will inherit the majority of adult problems, because children grow up under the influence of their parents from an early age, and whatever their parents are, the children will unconsciously imitate the behaviors of their parents. Just like the woman in the text, she herself does not realize that this behavior is wrong, and how can she teach her children what is right and wrong?
This is also a well-meaning person who reminds women to educate their children in a timely manner, and what your children are like has nothing to do with others. However, when the child enters the society in the future, receives education from the society, and suffers hardships, he may complain in turn why his parents did not tell him what was right and what was wrong.
Therefore, if you want to educate children well, you should start from yourself, first improve your own cognition, and then lead by example, use actions to teach children the truth of being a person, and slowly, set a correct example for children, so as to tell your children: Everything starts from the heart!
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