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Many women always lose their minds when they are deeply in love, and they often can't tell what is true love, what is hypocrisy and drama. Because of this, they are more likely to be hurt in love than the average person.
But if you think about it, the reason for the injury is not only men, but also because you don't know how to discern people's hearts. If you weren't so naïve at first, you wouldn't have been frustrated in love.
Many times, men are good at disguise in love.
He makes you mistakenly think you have met true love, but in fact has another purpose. Whether a man is affectionate or thin, in fact, it can be seen that there are three differences that are very obvious.
In the process of interpersonal communication, if a man frequently has the following three performances, then he just pretends to love you very much, in fact, the thin feelings are to the bone, please be sure to see it early.
One: Trying to change you on the grounds of love does not support you in being your true self
In this world, there are no two identical leaves, and no two identical people. Everyone is an independent individual, a unique existence, if a person really loves you, he will inevitably love the real you, undisguised and maskless you. Otherwise, it can only show that his love is very superficial, or even not loved at all.
In love, if a man is always looking for ways to change you and doesn't support you to be your true self, then be sure to be vigilant. His love for you is domineering and arbitrary, and domineering and arbitrary, in another sense, is selfishness.
Really good love should make people feel comfortable and comfortable, if you always keep doubting yourself, then this is not the best love.
The person who loves you will not deny you or suppress you, but will only trust you and support you. Only by keeping this in mind can you not be hurt in love.
Two: Controlling you on the grounds of love has never been able to maintain equality with you, and has great disrespect for you
The desire to control is a mental illness from a psychological point of view.
Such a person always imposes his own ideas and desires on others, forcibly requires others to live according to his own wishes, and if the other party refuses, he will be furious, and even control them by any means.
Such a person is not so much about loving you as hurting you in the name of love. He will never be able to be equal with you or have true respect for you.
Because in his heart, you are not an independent individual, but an appendage of him.
So in the process of intersex intercourse, if you find that a man always controls you in the name of love and makes you force you to live according to his ideas, then please be sure to keep an extra eye, he may not really love you.
Three: Kidnapping you in the name of love makes you gradually lose your principles, bottom line, and confidence in love
The most helpless and powerless thing in this world is this kind of emotional kidnapping in the name of love.
Men stand on the moral high ground and interfere in your choices in the name of being good for you. The foundation of love is equality and respect, and if it is really for the good of a person, it should be accepted for her choice, not to replace her will with her own will.
The man who declares "good for you" is ultimately for himself.
He is keenly aware of the possible risks of the decision you will make, and does not want to understand the reason for your decision, but uses a simple and rough way to avoid risks, and does not even give you the opportunity to try.
Men who like to say "good for you" have neither respect for your temperament nor the courage to face risks with you. A pale sentence for your own good can only reflect his selfishness and thin feelings.
To truly love someone, it should not be to help her make decisions, but to give her the right to choose. It is more reassuring than the strong fatherly saying of "I am all for your own good", it is better to say "I am all in".
You can make your own choices, and whatever the outcome, I'll be behind you.
Love is not about changing each other, but about growing together. I let you do what you want to do, and I am your strongest backing. This is equal love.
True love and false love are often fundamentally different.
In order to avoid being hurt in love, please determine the character of the other party before entering a relationship, and determine whether the way you get along between you is what you want, whether you feel comfortable and comfortable.
Don't waste time and consume yourself in the wrong love, this is the real gain is not worth the loss.
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