Recently fell in love with a sentence, don't have a red eye, you feel that the world is not worth it, everyone is working hard, and it is not only you who is full of grievances.
It seems that in the hearts of many people, they feel that they are the most "unfortunate" beings in the world, and they have worked so hard, but they still change everything and cannot become what they want.
But in fact, such things happen all the time, even more than the effort, some people even work harder than you, but the results are still not satisfactory.
So thinking about it this way, there seems to be nothing to be sad about, after all, hard work is a common phenomenon, and when a thing changes from a minority to a majority, it loses its value of being carried out alone.
And if you pay attention to observation, you will find that the more expensive the woman, the more unsociable, this phenomenon may exceed your imagination, but it is real.
1, people who do not fit in do not like to talk about right and wrong
Women's social fit often starts with gossip news, and unlike men, women are very interested in many things, not only the gossip news of star artists, but also the various complaints of people around them.
It seems that no matter how old a woman is, she will have her own small circle, and the division of their small circle is often not only based on similar interests between each other, but also includes whether there are people who like and hate together.
Because of these special "habits", everyone will find common topics after tea and dinner, and then discuss, and gradually deepen their feelings for each other.
But for unsociable women, they generally disdain this kind of gossip and right and wrong behavior, in their view, such behavior is not only not "bright and upright", but also has a feeling of having eaten enough.
Because other people's lives are good or bad, they have nothing to do with you, when you meet people you like, talk more about it, and people who don't like it will stay away, there is no need to play right and wrong behind your back, and you seem to be very tasteless.
Compared with those women who like to play small circles and say that people are right and wrong, this kind of unsociable woman is actually more popular with everyone, especially the company leaders.
2, people who do not fit in have more energy to work hard
Sometimes, women are unsociable because they put more energy into their careers, just as many women take advantage of their free time at work to chat and paddle with people.
They rarely chat with others, and although it may seem very unsociable, it is a good thing for themselves.
On the one hand, they can keep themselves out of it and not get involved in any storms, on the other hand, they also have more energy to work.
While other women are gossiping about the news, they're trying to find a breakthrough, thinking about how to make the job better, and while other women are talking about cosmetics, they're learning a new skill.
The world is sometimes very fair, how much you give, there will be how much return, may not be the same, but hard work will definitely be rewarded.
Especially for the boss, who has done how much, who has the ability, they are very clear, so most of the people who can be reused in the future are unsociable women who put their energy into work.
3, people who do not fit in are stronger at heart
Although many people know that the beast often goes alone, only cattle and sheep will be in herds, but it is very difficult to really do it, and the pressure to bear in the hearts of the parties will only be known by themselves.
Watching others sit in pairs to eat and chat, if there is no feeling is false, no one will really like this feeling of isolation, and everyone hopes to be a popular person in the crowd.
But they still choose a solitary and unsociable life, which is enough to prove that their hearts are very strong, even stronger than the average person.
Many women, in order to make themselves seem sociable, even if they are not like-minded, they must try to pretend to be very interested, that is, they are afraid of being isolated.
For women who don't fit in, they are not afraid of such a situation, because they have a very strong will in their hearts, they know what they want, they will try to run in this direction, and they will be more likely to reap successes than others in the future.
Regarding social and unsociable, in the end, it lies in the psychology of everyone who longs to have friends, even if they can't become a beautiful person, they don't want to have not even a friend.
But in fact, not all people can be called friends, and many times, those so-called friends are just general friends.
Don't get acquainted with anyone too quickly, don't think that the topic is the same at the beginning, there are many common points, you are the acquaintances who see each other and hate late, the language is often false, and what you experience together is true.
Just as the so-called Ning Que is not excessive, if everyone does not have the same hobbies and interests, there is no need to force themselves to become friends, there are many kinds of interpersonal relationships, and everyone should focus on people who are truly worthwhile.