Hello everyone, I'm a big brother! Recently, parents have left messages in the background to communicate with the big brother, their children have been living in their hometown and grandparents, the child's personality is more introverted, in addition to talking to grandparents, usually rarely communicate with others. Recently, after being with my parents, I watched TV at home every day, played with toys, and didn't want to go out to play with children at all.
In kindergarten, it is also difficult to play with children, always sullen alone, not active in participating in activities, and the performance in all aspects is unremarkable. When I had to speak, I didn't dare to look up, and my voice was small.
According to the experience of the big brother, the child has some inferiority psychology, if not corrected in time, it is likely to be more serious.
In real life, many people will have inferiority complex, especially some children have insufficient self-awareness, which is more likely to occur in this situation.
In order to eliminate the child's inferiority complex, parents can start from contact and communication, take their children to more lively places, and may not necessarily improve the situation that children do not like to go out to communicate.
Because children play alone for a long time, have a sense of isolation for everyone, and have a very strong defense against external things, it is an effective way to let children contact the outside world and strangers.
First of all, according to the child's interests, choose to go to the zoo, amusement park and other children's more acceptable environment, and gradually let the child accept the noise and prosperity of the outside world. After the child is no longer in an unfamiliar environment that resists many people, he can take the child to participate in some more challenging and team-oriented games to help the child integrate into the group and break the barrier to communicate with strangers.
Big Brother also communicates with parents here in several ways to help children regain their confidence. The first is to encourage more and criticize less. The most important embodiment of inferiority psychology is not self-confidence, then parents must pay attention to, even if the child fails or does not do well, but also to encourage, so that the child can actively face difficulties; the second is to let the child show themselves, find the child's advantages, let the child have the confidence to show their strengths; and finally do not compare with others. Every child is unique, if parents compare and hit, where does the child's self-confidence come from?
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