Compared with the flower appearance of the stepmother's two daughters, You Second Sister, You Third Sister, you's appearance, you's appearance, which is rarely mentioned in "Dream of the Red Chamber". However, with the status of Jia Zhen, the head of the Jia family, Jia Zhen, as the lady of the Three Pins Commandment, You Shi must be a beautiful woman without compromise.
Youshi is the stepmother. Jia Zhenfa's wife died and she remarried Youshi. Without a prominent family to rely on, marrying into the Jia family and having no children, You Shi undoubtedly lost a powerful arm. In the Jia family of the Hao clan, the You clan seems to have a noble status, but behind the prominent scenery is the only promise and blind obedience to Jia Zhen all the time.
Sister Feng made a big fuss about the Ningguo Mansion, and Jia Zhen saw Sister Feng come to the door and slipped away, leaving You Shi helpless to deal with it. And no talent, and no mouth, sawed the mouth of the gourd, blindly and carefully pretended to be virtuous, the wife and husband were less troublesome, Sister Feng grabbed You's sentence after sentence, without the slightest mercy, and even more took a few bites of You's mouth.
Jia Zhen Jia Lian made a mistake, but poor You Shi became an air bag, and was wantonly humiliated by Sister Feng, and even the servants could not look past it, and knelt down to beg for forgiveness. Sister Feng's attitude towards her sister-in-law is due to her fierce personality and her noble birth. From the bottom of her heart, she despised Youshi.
You're virtuous. What is the sin of the wife when the misfortune arises from the husband? No verbalism is due to You's inner xiu shou clumsy personality, no talent and no reason, and later Jia Jing's funeral You's handling was handled properly and thoughtfully. Sister Feng prides herself on her outstanding ability, and Ping Su does not pay attention to You's family, and this time because the second sister came to Ningguo Mansion to look for things, her speech and behavior are even more brash.
Youshi has his own grievances. If the matter of the second sister Jia Lian becoming a relative is quietly spread to Sister Feng, although Sister Feng appreciates it, she will be angry that she did not take care of her sister. Jia Zhen knew afterwards that she would definitely scold, and the second sister Jia Lian would also resent in her heart. Instead of attracting everyone's suspicion, if mo offends Feng Jie alone, Ren Feng Jie will be angry. After all, how Jia Zhen could not offend and offend, he was the only one that Youshi relied on.
How dazzling the golden honor and jade of the Lady of the Commandments were, how bleak the days when YouShi endured humiliation and burdens were. Come to think of it, although YouShi enjoys honor, his heart is very bitter. Jia Zhen has an affair with her daughter-in-law Keqing, and her sister-in-law, Second Sister You, is not clean. As the patriarch of the family, Ning Guo Mansion was dirty, and people said that only a pair of stone lions at the door were clean.
If You Shi has a powerful mother's family, Jia Zhen may be jealous and can restrain a little. You's father, who was a minor official, had passed away, and his stepmother, You Laoniang, and two sisters who were not related by blood relied on Jia Zhen for help. The mother's family relies on her husband's help, dooming You Shi to have no right to speak and the right to preside, only Ren Jiazhen is repeatedly absurd.
You shi has no biological children, and his stepson Jia Rong is incompetent and obeys his father in everything. At the beginning of May, Jia Rong hid in the cool downstairs of the bell tower, and was reprimanded by Jia Zhen, causing the servants to take a few bites. With the two little aunts, they teased and flirted with each other, and encouraged Jia Lian to secretly marry Second Sister You, and Jia Rong, like her father, was a wandering disciple.
But The matter of Qing Qing, Jia Rongxu knew, but he dared to be angry and did not dare to speak. Such a father and son, what can Youshi do? Jia Zhen was saying one thing and the same in Ning Guo Mansion, she was powerless to change anything, only silence.
However, Youshi is not blindly cowardly, she also has edges, principles, and her own way of resisting. But during the funeral, she was sick and bedridden. Jia Zhen sprinkled heavy money to do funerals, bought expensive wooden coffins, and donated officials to Jia Rong. Let him go, you shi did not come forward to assist in the funeral to maintain his dignity.
Feng Jie brushes the sense of existence everywhere, and You Shi has almost no sense of existence. But Yousch's talent is hidden behind her low profile. She does not show her talents easily, but she is alone in the funeral of Jin, and you's management talent is not under Sister Feng. The people of Jia Fu went to the palace to mourn the national funeral, Cha Jia Jing was killed, You Shi was not flustered when things happened, sent people to block the Taoist Temple, asked the tai doctor, reported Jia Zhen, the same was done properly, Jia Zhen also praised it.
You's personality is kind and gentle. Sister Feng's birthday only knows how to accumulate wealth, and Aunt Zhou, who is often not waiting to see, has been told to share the money. You Shi turned his back on Sister Feng, and Yin Liang returned the two of them, saying, "You poor people, where is all this spare money?" The phoenix lady knew that I should have it. These words are not only kind, but also responsible. You Shi sympathized with two poor people with humble identities, she had compassion and kindness to people, and Sister Feng did not have such a cultivation behavior. You Shi was actually far wiser than Sister Feng.
You Shi looked weak, but she was not confused at all, and she knew people clearly in her heart. In the section on the Inspection of the Grand View Garden, she said to Li Feng, "People of our family size will only talk about fake etiquette and decency outside, and what they have done is enough." For the little girl to enter the painting to intercede with Xi Chun was rejected, Xi Chun simply said something that was taboo about the bad reputation of the Ningguo Mansion, claiming that he would not go to the East Mansion again, and You Shi angrily said bluntly, "I know that you are really a cold-hearted and cold-hearted person."
Among the noble ladies in the dream of the Red Chamber, You Shi was the one with the best character. She is calm as water, humble, generous to others, gentle and silent in temperament. You's family is from an ordinary origin, after marrying into the clan, she has not lost her pure and good nature, still has a normal heart, has a wide range of good relations, and gets along well with everyone.
It is not You's fault that she is not shu, and fate arranges for her to spend her days with Jia Zhen, who spends days and wine. Kind and peaceful as her, grateful for Jia Zhen's character is no longer unbearable, but also gave her the honor of the lady of the commandment, a rich and noble life. Only Xian Shuyin could swallow all the pain and tolerate all the bad deeds of Jia Zhen.
You Shi is indifferent, she doesn't want much, she just wants to find a stability. Even though she was helpless in life and could not make decisions for herself, she still lived as a warm light and a beautiful glow.
May her life be safe.
Author: Fairy tales. Northern woman. This article is an original work of the Red Chamber for less reading.