My wife and I both graduated in 985, but the children's studies are not good, what should we do?

The main problem should be the way you teach your parents.

Since you and your lover are both 985 graduates, your children's genes must not be bad.

But it does not mean that children with good genes and talents will be able to become talented and successful.

It is very simple to say that the essence of a small seedling is good, it is relatively robust by nature, and the indicators in all aspects are relatively high, but if the agricultural technician fertilizes, waters, temperature, light, spraying, etc. in the process of maintenance, it is not suitable, it is not suitable, and this originally good seedling may also die.

Description: My child is a little girl, ten years old, in the fifth grade in September this year, but it is not enlightened, and it belongs to the kind of person who does things very slowly, which makes me very angry, I have to restrain, I am going crazy! Zhang let nature take its course, and I am afraid that I will regret it later, and I will only make the family atmosphere very tense! Ask the Great God for guidance!!!

It can be seen from the description of the subject that although the subject and his wife graduated from 985 university, they actually do not understand the growth law of the child, let alone understand that the child needs a suitable education method.

Every child has their own growth rhythm, and every child has their own set of passwords.

It's like flowers, each flower has its own flowering period, and you can't ask the trumpet flower and daffodil to bloom at the same time.

Only when parents understand the child's growth law, and can grasp the child's growth law, take the appropriate education method suitable for the child, can really activate the child's inner code, in order to make the child's talent and talent fully displayed.

We all know that there are actually many great people, including some scientists, engineers, and the social elite, some of whom did not look like smart children when they were young, and even many of them looked even a little stupid, but in the end they became excellent talents. This is the process of their growth and development, and they have found a suitable way to grow and develop.

What the subject should do most at the moment is not impatience, anxiety, and helplessness, but should calm down to think calmly, carefully observe, and patiently guide to find a rhythm suitable for their children's learning and growth, and an education method suitable for their own children.

Seriously and patiently to explore the advantages of their own children, in-depth study of how to activate their children's inner password, I believe that as long as the kung fu deep iron rod is sharpened into a needle, you will be able to find an education method suitable for your own children.