Spring Festival high-quality baby guide! Excellent children, are "accompanied" out!

The education community often says a sentence: excellent children are "accompanied" out. Deeply.

The child's growth is only once, only full companionship, parents can have the opportunity to observe, understand the child, help the child to cultivate good habits; only full companionship, in order to enhance the communication and interaction between parents and children, and establish a good parent-child relationship.

During the Spring Festival, parents should cherish the complete time of the holiday and give their children correct and high-quality companionship.

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Increase engagement and engagement

Some time ago, a post-80s father in Zhengzhou, Henan Province, became popular for a video of his 5-year-old daughter making toys by hand. In today's father's general absence from the education of children's growth, this father has won the unanimous praise of netizens.

Since 2018, Zhang Shuai has made hundreds of toys for his daughter using plastic bottles, waste cartons and other materials. From design to production, the process of each toy is cumbersome, and it takes two or three days to a week, but in order to interact with children more, Zhang Shuai is happy in it.

In an interview, her daughter's face was filled with a happy and contented smile, saying, "Playing with mom and dad, I have fun playing anything." ”

In the process of making carton toys with her father, her imagination and problem-solving skills are also constantly improving.

Yes, for children, what they eat and play may not matter, what matters is the sense of happiness that is accompanied by mom and dad, enough to nourish them throughout their childhood.

The measure of effective companionship is the involvement of parents. Simply put, it is whether you are fully committed to this time with your child, and are in the same channel with his thoughts and emotions.

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If you don't have enough time, you can also give effective companionship

Some time ago, hundreds of notes of interaction between a boy and his father touched countless people.

The boy is 11 years old and is in sixth grade.

Dad is a high school class teacher, the daily work is heavy, when he goes out, his son has not yet gotten up, when he comes home, his son is already asleep, and there is little time to accompany his son.

The son always fails to see his father, and he has a lot to say to his father, and as a teacher, his father also knows the importance of "companionship" for the growth of children.

So, the father and son began a "note communication".

Every day, the boy writes down the words he wants to say, the happy unhappy, the fresh and interesting, and even the math problems he can't do, on small notes, pasted on the door or left on the coffee table.

In the evening, the father returned home, carefully read his son's message, and then replied seriously.

A few thin pieces of paper strung together the father-son relationship between the two people.

Although dad can't often accompany boys, he learns the joys, worries, doubts, and confusions in life, and dad can participate in them.

Boys also mature and grow up healthily in such exchanges.

For most parents, there is a need to juggle family and work. Busy is the norm of life.

However, forward-thinking parents will understand how to make good use of every detail and fragment of time in life, pay more attention to the bits and pieces of their children's lives, and communicate in a warmer and more effective way.

Parents and things, have a "validity period", the child is the most precious gift given by God to the parents, once you do not cherish, miss this expiration date, God will take back this sweet gift.

Therefore, in the time when the role of "parent" is still valid, we must give them the most attentive companionship.

The child's growth process,

It's like the growth process of a tree,

The most honest, the most explicit,

What is watered, what grows.

Declaration of ingenuity

"I'm fully engaged in teaching my kids because I know,

In these short years, I will have a lifelong impact on my children.

I don't waste a minute or a second, I treat them like my own children,

And see yourself as a teacher and a parent, not just a teacher! ”