Introduction: There is such a saying in the general population - let the child win at the starting line, which is the dream of many parents. In the eyes of most parents, if the child wins at the starting line, it means that the starting point is higher than that of the average child, and the future development is naturally promising. So I reported a lot of cram classes and tutoring classes to my children, the purpose of which was to keep my children ahead of other children.
Today's kindergartens also have their own series of practices for children to win at the starting line, such as allowing children to receive advanced education. What is advanced education? Today's kindergarten is nothing more than what people used to call preschool, and the so-called advanced education is to let the children in kindergarten accept the primary school curriculum and instill some knowledge that should not be instilled at the current age. Coupled with the industry's internal volume, more and more kindergartens have kept up with the pace, the purpose is to attract more parents to send their children to the kindergarten to receive learning, and what is more, when the children are only in kindergarten, let the children learn the knowledge of the fourth and fifth grades.
Does this really make the child win at the starting line? A kindergarten teacher friend told me that the disadvantages far outweighed the benefits, and the defects were gradually exposed when the child was in the second and third grades.
As the saying goes, three years old to see small, eight years old to see old, in the child's three-year-old age stage, it is a stage of ignorance, but also a best stage to develop children's intelligence. Many parents will seize this most important stage to exercise their children's spatial imagination and thinking ability, but some parents chase the trend and feel that the main basis for their children to win on the starting line is to understand the knowledge of primary school in kindergarten, but ignore that only three-year-old children may not even be able to speak, how to understand such profound knowledge? Children go to kindergarten mainly to play, to exercise concentration and attention, mandatory to let children learn is not good.
After the child goes to primary school, he may feel that the advanced education is really good, because when the child is in the first and second grades, their receptivity is still stronger than that of the average child, and they know more, but this does not mean that the advanced education is good. After children are in the second and third grades, they may have developed a habit that even if they do not listen too carefully to the class, the knowledge taught by the teacher will be too serious, and naturally they will not be too serious in the classroom. The final drawbacks are also obvious, other children are learning step by step, and children who have received advanced education have secretly developed a learning attitude that does not have to be too serious.
Therefore, the practice of advanced education is not advisable, and if you want your child to win at the starting line, it is not the practice of advanced education, such as the following:
1. Don't disturb your child's boredom
For children aged 0 to 6, most of their boredom is to cultivate concentration, and the boredom that adults look like is actually the process of developing their logical thinking. Sometimes children may be able to play with a toy for two hours, and they seem to be indifferent to everything in the outside world, and their parents can't hear it. At this time, don't always feel that the child is disobedient, just know how to play, and will only do some boring things to disturb them. Because at this time, the child's concentration is slowly growing, once disturbed, it may affect the child's concentration, and it is very difficult to cultivate it.
2. Read picture books and bedtime stories to your child
Instead of coaxing children to watch TV and play mobile phones, it is better to read picture books and tell bedtime stories to children. Of course, whether it is a picture book or a bedtime story, parents need to read it out in a colorful way, rather than blindly reading it without emotion. Once experts have done statistics, often listen to bedtime stories and picture books of children, their spatial imagination ability is particularly strong, logical ability will not be bad, and in the process of parents telling stories to their children, but also to enhance the feelings of new time, in one fell swoop.
3. Let your child move more
Many parents will cite their busy work as an excuse, rarely take their children out to play, and always lock their children at home to do their own things. But in fact, locking the child in the home will only limit the child's imagination, let the child go outside to move, look at the outside world, not only can recognize nature, but also strengthen the body, enhance the child's physical immunity, and also have a great use for intellectual development. So don't always shut the child in the house, let the child always breathe the same kind of air, it is not much good for the child's body.
Conclusion: Advanced education is not the standard to win at the starting line, on the contrary, advanced education may lead to a great change in children's learning attitudes, which is extremely detrimental to children's growth. Therefore, it is not necessary to go with the flow, and it is crucial not to force the child to grow at the age when the child should play, so that the child has a complete childhood. In addition, advanced education is not advisable, and the current Education Bureau has long banned this behavior, parents do not have to feel sorry for this, I don't know how you think about advanced education?