The probability of quadruplets is only one in ten million.
Today's twin families are no stranger to us. There are also many real cases around us, even if there is no precedent in the family, the possibility of occurrence is still very large.
But triplets or quadruplets are still rare species. Being able to give birth to three or four children in one child is something that many women dream of!
Shandong quadruplet "Bing Qing Yu Jie": 12 years old left home to learn art
Having multiple births in one litter is exciting for most families. It can reduce the pain of maternity and the children have a companion, which is definitely a good thing to kill two birds with one stone.
But in addition to being happy, it is still necessary to return to reality. That is, the cost of raising four children to grow up is very large. Especially for Yang Ping and his wife, who are not rich in family.
In order to provide a more superior material environment for the quadruplet daughter, Yang Ping and his wife work day and night, and even one person has to play 3 divisions of labor, although it is very tired, but when they return home to see the faces of their daughters, they are still very pleased.
Yang Ping named these four daughters "Ice Qing Yujie", the growth of the four daughters really does not need Yang Ping to bother much, when the daughters were 12 years old, the children showed their obsession with dance, so Yang Ping bit her teeth and enrolled all four children in interest classes.
Fortunately, the daughters did not disappoint Yang Ping, each had their own strengths on the road of dancing, and finally after unremitting efforts and mutual help, they got the admission letter of Shanyi.
Waiting for the daughters to prepare for the university life, Yang Ping sighed: The most regrettable thing in her mother's life is to give birth to four good daughters, and you accompany each other, and her mother is really pleased.
The deep sisterhood has moved many netizens
The Pain of An Only Child: Dreaming of a sibling
It is said that what cannot be obtained is always in turmoil, and the only child longs for his brothers and sisters to be with him, and the other children in the family will long to be the only child.
Because the only child's understanding of brothers and sisters is very one-sided. Through film and television dramas or dictations from other families in the family, they will automatically block the existing drawbacks and only see what they want to see.
Moreover, after seeing the four sisters' mode of getting along, they will strengthen their own ideas, dream of wanting a brother and sister to accompany themselves, and sharing secrets with themselves that cannot be told to their parents, even if they are in trouble, there are people who carry mines for themselves.
Why is my sister and I incompatible?
In fact, there are really not many sisters who can live in harmony like these four sisters. Most identical multiple-child families are chicken-flying dog-jumping versions.
As the saying goes, where there are more women, there are not more. Girls get along differently from boys, and a small thing can cause war between them, sometimes not their intentions, but their biology.
Therefore, it is normal for us to feel envious. After all, such immortal feelings are not something that everyone is fortunate enough to have. Even if they are brothers and sisters, they also need to settle accounts.
Alpaca mom has something to say:
As the saying goes, home and everything is happy, all family members live in harmony, parents can have the energy to struggle in their jobs, and children can study with peace of mind.
But the harmony of family members is not enough by the efforts of one person alone. The whole family has to work together. After all, home is our harbor.
However, adults consciously adjust their emotions and mindsets, knowing to suppress their emotions and consider the big picture. Children's performance in this regard is very poor, and many times they need to rely on the guidance of parents.
How can parents properly handle problems between multiple children?
A bowl of water flat is a prerequisite
Whether it is facing children of the same age or children with age differences, we must uphold this principle. They are essentially eager for the care and attention of parents, and encouraging education is more popular than repressive education.
So, even if parents like one of the children in the family, don't act too much. Because one of your small actions, a word, will cause great harm to the other child.
Don't expect too much from your child
As an older child, the responsibility is greater. When there is a little brother or little sister in the family, you must take the initiative to help your mother bear it, so as to show your maturity and understanding.
But the elderly child takes the initiative to bear it, and if they are really unwilling to reach out, the parents cannot say anything. They are also children, and Ben is not obliged to do this.
Today's Topic:
How are the children getting along in your family? Can you level a bowl of water? Do you think a bowl of water is flat or not?