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In 2019, on the occasion of the celebration of the 70th anniversary of the National Day, a young woman after the 90s in Suzhou City, Anhui Province, gave birth to three boys and a female quadruplet, which was also named as a grand ceremony to celebrate the motherland.
Before this, the risk of quadruplets was extremely large, and the doctor had suggested that she reduce the fetus, but she refused, risking to give birth to quadruplets, and now the scene of the whole family helping to bring the baby is enviable.
The advent of quadruplets
Li Xiaowan was born into a farming family in Chulan Town, Wanqiao District, Suzhou City, Anhui Province, and in 2015, she entered the palace of marriage with the local Wang Zheng.
After marriage, forced to make a living, the couple packed their bags, left their hometown, and went to coastal cities to work and earn money, although life is not rich, the younger two are also very satisfied.
This kind of joint work lasted until 2019, when In March, Li Xiaowan found herself pregnant, so after consulting with her husband Wang Zheng, Li Xiaowan quit her job to concentrate on preparing for pregnancy at home.
At that time, Li Xiaowan did not know that her stomach was actually a "quadruplet".
At home to prepare for pregnancy days, boring and tedious, Li Xiaowan is at home alone, and her husband is still working in the field, every day Li Xiaowan in addition to doing some trivial things, is to contact her husband through video.
Soon, Li Xiaowan ushered in the hospital's routine examination, on this day, Early Li Xiaowan packed up some basic things, took the case and went directly to the hospital.
Registration, queuing, and when she finished the examination and sat down in front of the doctor, Li Xiaowan looked at the doctor's serious expression and felt a little worried in her heart.
The doctor first looked at the results of the examination, then at Li Xiaowan, and asked, "Do you have any genetic history of multiple births in your family?" ”
Li Xiaowan shook her head in doubt, and then the doctor told Li Xiaowan the fact that she was pregnant with quadruplets, and then nagged incessantly, "Generally multiple births are related to heredity." ”
Li Xiaowan was shocked by the doctor's statement that she was pregnant with quadruplets, and she heard the genetic factors between the doctors.
"Our family doesn't have multiple children, not even twins, my husband and their family are the same."
The doctor nodded, considering the suggestion, "The risk of quadruplets is too great, for your health, there are four children's growth and development considerations, this side suggests that you reduce the fetus here is better." ”
"Tire reduction?" Li Xiaowan raised her voice, and looked at the doctor's affirmative eyes, Li Xiaowan seemed to be blocked in her throat and could not make a sound.
The doctor sighed, "Go back and talk to your family." ”
Li Xiaowan nodded, and walked toward the house in a daze, and when she got home, her family gathered around and asked, "How's it going?" What do doctors say? Kids are healthy, right? ”
A lot of voices penetrated Li Xiaowan's ears, and she looked at her family helplessly, "The doctor said that I was pregnant with 4 twins. ”
Hearing this news, the family members were quiet for half a moment, and then, a warm laughter broke out, "Quadruplets? ”
There was an irrepressible smile on his face, and when he was happily planning to share the good news with other relatives, Li Xiaowan's lonely voice came from his ear again- "The doctor suggested that I have a reduced fetus." ”
As soon as these words came out, everyone was stunned, and then they cried out with dissatisfaction, "This big happy event, how can I still reduce the fetus?" ”
Li Xiaowan shook her head, walked into the room, picked up her mobile phone, and gave a phone call to her husband Wang Zheng, who was working in the field, to inform her of her pregnancy with quadruplets and the doctor's advice.
After listening to Li Xiaowan's words, Wang Zheng showed great opposition, saying that it was not easy for him, and then asked Li Xiaowan what she thought, and Li Xiaowan groaned for a moment.
"I don't want to, it's all my own flesh and blood, minus any of them."
The husband and wife fell into a brief silence, although they could understand the doctor's good intentions and the risks of the quadruplets, but the life that was being conceived in the body was so precious and beautiful that the two were reluctant to deprive any of them of the opportunity to come to this world.
The matter concerned the whole family, and in the end, the couple decided that the whole family would discuss the matter and reach an agreement, that is, to keep the four children.
Fertility is difficult, early delivery
4 babies, Li Xiaowan is happy with the child in her belly, it is four new hopes, but the pregnancy of "quadruplets" is not an easy thing after all.
At the beginning, Li Xiaowan just felt as if her body was more bulky than the average pregnant woman, and some reactions to morning sickness were also available.
However, when it was five months, the pressure of the "quadruplets" struck, and Li Xiaowan began to have difficulty walking, and when she waited for six months, Li Xiaowan could not even walk.
At first, Li Xiaowan could still watch the crutches barely take two steps, but soon Li Xiaowan's body was too bulky to support her crutches.
No way, the family had to buy a wheelchair, usually let Li Xiaowan sit in a wheelchair, travel by the family to push away, the days passed day by day, Li Xiaowan's body load was serious day by day.
The family looks in the eyes, the pain is in the heart, can only keep praying, Li Xiaowan's pregnancy pain does not know who to complain to.
At 29 weeks, Li Xiaowan could no longer lie flat, and every day, she slept on the sofa.
Due to the fetal compression of the right limb, Li Xiaowan's thighs are very puffy, and she can only put her legs on the bench when sleeping.
It was really painful, but Li Xiaowan could only endure it.
Going to the hospital again for examination, looking at Li Xiaowan's state, the doctor frowned, "You are in a dangerous situation now, you are going to give birth early, you are ready." ”
In fact, Li Xiaowan originally wanted to persist until 32 weeks before giving birth, but she also knew her physical condition, and after some struggle, Li Xiaowan and her family agreed to the doctor's advice.
On October 1, 2019, with the efforts of doctors, Li Xiaowan successfully gave birth to three boys and one female quadruplet after caesarean section.
Of these children, the lightest weight is 1100 grams, the heaviest is only 1300 grams, because it is premature, the children's physical function is not very good.
After birth, all four children developed respiratory distress syndrome, and the largest child had the lowest score, and at one point there was apnea, but fortunately, after rescue, they all returned to normal.
Crowdfunding to save children
The four children were born on national day, referring to the suggestions of netizens, Wang Zheng named the four children Yu Guo, Tong Qing, Tong Yu and Nian An respectively, because the second and third were identical twins, which gave them similar names.
These children were admitted to the intensive care unit after birth due to premature birth, and the children's condition is getting better day by day, but the money is more and more owed.
Mr. and Mrs. Wang zheng are both farmers and rely only on odd jobs to survive.
Before the child was born, although Wang Zheng was a migrant worker, his salary was only a meager three or four thousand yuan, and Li Xiaowan could only find some work in the factory near her home due to her poor health, and the salary was probably more than a thousand.
But when they were born, the children's physical condition was very poor, and the treatment fee was like water.
The increase in the number obviously exceeded what Li Xiaowan and Wang Zheng could bear, and for the children's treatment fees, her father Wang Zheng chose crowdfunding.
As soon as "crowdfunding" came out, it caused a strong response in the society, some people said that "if you can't afford it, don't raise it", and some people cloud "crowdfunding is to circle money".
In this regard, Wang Zheng's eyes were red, "Can't you have children without money?" They are all life. ”
The rhetoric on the Internet is fierce and sharp, and Wang Zheng can only endure, in addition to trying to raise money, but also to prevent his wife who has just given birth from seeing these remarks.
Every morning, Wang Zheng rode an electric car to Tangzhang Town to catch the bus and go to the hospital to learn about the children's situation.
Although Li Xiaowan has given birth, the quadruplets are still extremely harmful to her body, and she still cannot walk independently, and can only wait at home for her husband to return every day.
Since the children are still in the intensive care unit, even if Wang Zheng goes day by day, Wang Zheng can't see anything except a thick door.
At that time, the only thing Wang Zheng could do was to ask the doctor about the child's situation, and then report to Li Xiaowan truthfully without omission.
After a period of treatment, the children returned home one after another, the eldest returned home on November 12, the third and fourth elders were on November 20, and the second was November 28.
After 59 days, the children finally waved to death and returned to the arms of their parents and families.
When he was first discharged from the hospital, the four children had to be monitored with a pulse oximeter, although the body was not completely better, but compared to the hospital, now the child was pregnant, and the smile on the faces of Li Xiaowan and Wang Zheng was more and more sincere.
Hospitalized for nearly two months, the medical expenses are like flowing water, nearly 500,000 yuan, fortunately, after the reimbursement, only need to pay more than 200,000 yuan.
Through crowdfunding, Wang Zheng got 120,000 yuan donated by well-meaning netizens, 25,000 yuan donated by Xuzhou Junior Chamber of Commerce, plus local civil affairs, and condolence money sent by the Women's Federation.
Bring a baby together
The four children's health gradually improved, followed by the problem of care, and it is very fortunate that Li Xiaowan and his wife have a group of good families.
In addition to Li Xiaowan and Wang Zheng, li Xiaowan's mother-in-law and sister-in-law came to help, and there were two large beds in the bedroom, and the four adults and four children slept in the same room.
One person with one, because almost every four hours to feed once, twice a day, so this group of adults, a day to sleep may be three or four hours, of which the mother-in-law is the hardest, but fortunately the children are very well-behaved, rarely cry, which saves everyone a lot of trouble.
Although the children all returned to their homes for recuperation, they still had to go to the hospital for re-examinations on a regular basis, and each time the whole family went out to carry out the four children and became the object of a group of people watching.
Due to premature birth, the recovery of various physical functions is not very good, and in December 2019, Li Xiaowan's third baby was faintly coughing because of nasal congestion and choking milk.
Li Xiaowan and his wife could only take the child to the hospital for treatment overnight, and looking at the child who had just been discharged from the hospital and returned to the intensive care unit not long after, Li Xiaowan's heart was troubled.
As the doctor said at the beginning, quadruplets, the growth and development of children also have certain problems.
Coincidentally, in 2020, the most common thing Li Xiaowan and his wife do is to take their children to the hospital for examination, sometimes this, this end, the next problem.
Li Xiaowan and Wang Zheng also did not relax at all, their spirits were highly nervous, and every time there was a problem, they always sent the child to the hospital at the first time, and what they expected in their hearts was only the health of the child.
Now the four children are in the care of their families, and their health is getting better and better, but only Nian An, the only girl is weaker.
Xiao Nian'an suffers from "hemangioma", but the doctor's advice is that the child is still young and can only be treated if it is a little older, and the only thing Li Xiaowan and his wife can do is to observe.
When Xiao Nian'an was slightly older, Li Xiaowan took the child to the hospital for treatment, and after several isotope treatments, the effect was not very obvious.
There are some traces on the head and legs, Li Xiaowan is anxious in her heart, let her husband inquire about which hospitals are better for treating "hemangioma", and will also ask questions to netizens through social platforms.
In 2021, the four children are already 2 years old, although compared with children of the same age, due to various factors such as premature birth, their height and weight are not up to standard.
However, fortunately, after the careful care of the family, the children's physical condition has improved greatly, and as the children grow up a little, the personalities of several people are gradually revealed.
The eldest, the third is lively and loves to move, the second is thick, the fourth is quiet, in daily life, Li Xiaowan will always laugh at some of the children's actions, sometimes moved.
Xu is because everything is done by four people from an early age, and children have to be very sensible under the subtle influence of day after day.
Do something you can do to relieve the pressure of your parents, sweetly calling mom and dad.
Every time she heard the voice of the children's grandmother, the anger that Li Xiaowan had accumulated because of the child's crying suddenly disappeared without a trace.
This strong family of 6, every time they go out, no matter where they go, it is a huge team.
Li Xiaowan's relatives are always extraordinarily "doting" on these four children, which may be because of their physical condition.
For the only girl, Li Xiaowan always has to be extra pampered, and almost every day she publishes, what can be seen is the little Nian An who is held in her hand.
Wang Zheng looked at the four children, satisfied and relieved, thinking about the financial pressure that might be ushered in later, and even more helpless, "When the children are a little older, they will go out to work." ”
The children grow up day by day, and now they no longer need to hold it in their hands every day, and it is much easier to bring it up, "peace and health" is the only hope that Li Xiaowan and his wife have for the children at present.
"Quadruplets" are difficult and difficult, after all, compared to ordinary families, taking care of a child is already a mess, not to mention that these are four.
This is equivalent to the pressure that Li Xiaowan is under four times that of ordinary families, but fortunately, the "quadruplets" are left together after the family consults.
For these four children, whether it is Li Xiaowan's in-laws or Li Xiaowan's mother-in-law's family, they are really heartbroken and loved in the eyes of the heart, so now it is almost the scene of the whole family helping to bring the baby.
This scene of the whole family going out really made some young couples with babies alone envious.
The future is still very long, the road belonging to these four children is still far away, crossing the gate of life and death, crossing the ravages of disease, and what awaits them will be a better future.
"The palms of the hands and the backs of the hands are all meat", Li Xiaowan and Wang Zheng interpreted this very deeply, with the pain of pregnancy, the hardships after pregnancy, and the four babies ushered in, so that the husband and wife cherished more.
Children grow up together, play together, and plain companionship is happiness.
In the Chinese New Year's Eve of 2022, Li Xiaowan and Wang Zhengyi gathered together, they teased the children, watched them play and laugh, their eyes were full of relief and joy, for them, all the hard work was worth it, because the family was neat and tidy.
After Chinese New Year's Eve, Wang Zheng took his wife and children to his mother-in-law's house early, and his father-in-law and mother-in-law scrambled to hug and kiss the four children, and the rarity and liking in his eyes could not be hidden.
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