Everyone has something on their mind.
As they grow up, some people get used to burying these things deep in their hearts.
Even if it is well hidden, everyone will have the desire to talk. After all, we all grew up eating grains and grains, we are all "sentient beings", and we will have the willingness to communicate and share.
For many people, everyone is busy during the day.
After finishing the business at hand, we returned to the family and faced many chores.
It is not until before going to sleep that friends have a moment of leisure to deal with emotional matters. And at this time, it is also the time when many people's thoughts are flying, and it is easy to open the conversation box.
Silent night.
Everyone's emotions are easily amplified.
Happy people will find more down-to-earth feelings in a comfortable atmosphere.
And people who are lonely in their hearts will have a single feeling in the silent night.
When many hearts quietly come to mind, what we most hope to do is often to find someone who can talk to, hoping that the other party can accompany them and pass the difficult time in front of us.
For single people, what kind of person is the right person to talk to?
Usually, those who are trustworthy, especially partners of the opposite sex, are more likely to attract everyone's attention. In front of these people, we often talk about everything, revealing our secrets little by little.
There is an old saying that goes:
The speaker has no intention, the listener intends.
In your opinion, you are just bored and just pass the time.
But in the other person's heart, it is not necessarily so. At a special time, you choose to talk to him about your heart, and this time period is often the time when everyone's thoughts are flying, and if you are not careful, you will think more.
The next day, you're up with ease, still like no one else.
And the other party is caught up in a long-term thought because of your words. In his opinion, you are implying something. If that person is of the opposite sex, it's easy to think that you're sending a signal of engagement.
Once there is this psychological change, imagine, can the relationship between you continue? What you will face may be the pursuit of the other party, ushering in the sublimation of feelings, or the rupture of each other's feelings, and never interact with each other.
Before falling asleep, some "messages" are not sent, and feelings or relationships will become tainted.
Lonely, let him talk to you.
There are many invisible bottom lines in people's relationships.
If you are friends, when you communicate, you often do not break through some principles, and some topics should be stopped in moderation.
Of course, in the time of communication, there should also be a distinction.
Before going to bed at night, it is often not suitable for communication between friends of the opposite sex, unless they are lovers of each other.
Because in this time period, everyone is prone to sentimentality, and if you are not careful, you will act impulsively. The relationship between ordinary friends, if it is broken by three words and two words, it will be really difficult to get along with in the future.
When you regain your sanity, it will become difficult to maintain a friendly relationship with that person. Once the seeds of love sprout in the depths of each other's hearts, you will face his insistence.
So, even if you feel lonely, pay attention to these.
Don't let yourself be caught in a dilemma because of a momentary impulse, which will also affect the relationship with the opposite sex.
He teased him, but said it was a joke.
There are many subtleties in gender interaction.
Sometimes, it only takes an opportunity for the relationship between them to usher in a qualitative breakthrough.
For example, when men and women communicate, if a girl casually says "We are actually quite a match", an unintentional joke, it is easy to make the opposite sex have a lot of associations.
In the eyes of the other party, this is a signal to encourage their own pursuit.
Especially in the dead of night, it is also a time when a person amplifies his emotions.
If a girl says something with a flirtatious taste, it is easy for the boy to think that this is a signal of love. Even if you really don't have the will to associate, you can't stop men from thinking like this.
As a result, it is conceivable that an untimely joke will change the relationship between two people, and as a result, they can no longer become ordinary friends.
Ask for help, tell yourself about your predicament.
Many times, misunderstandings are an important reason for influencing relationships between people.
In fact, in the interaction between men and women, there will also be such a phenomenon.
Usually, girls frequently ask a man for help, and it may be true that they encounter difficulties, but from this move, there will be a signal that they are not defensive against this man.
And frequent interruptions are often a way to convey love.
Because of falling in love with a certain boy, some girls will continue to ask each other for help, in order to win the attention of men, stimulate men's desire to protect, so that each other's fate can get the opportunity to sublimate.
If the girl still asks the man for help before falling asleep, it will further make the man think more.
For girls, if you don't have the idea of admiring a certain boy and don't want to change the taste of each other's relationship, don't ask him for help at night.
In this life, people will meet many people.
But there are often not many people who can really interact.
If you meet people who communicate frankly, the best way is to cherish each other's fate and not "go beyond the thunder pool". Otherwise, the feelings of two people will either usher in the opportunity to heat up, or they will fall into a stalemate.
Before falling asleep, even if you have the desire to talk.
Please carefully consider each other's relationship, and do not put yourself in an embarrassing situation because of a momentary impulse.
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.