A big man actually wore a white gauze dress!
It turned out that when his daughter studied ballet on the first day, he saw that her daughter was somewhat restrained. In order to let her daughter go a little, after obtaining the consent of the dance teacher, she put on a white gauze dress as a "sparring partner".
The dance teacher walked in the front, and the little girl walked tiptoeing with a skirt, with elegant manners and light dance steps.
Dad followed close behind, doing the same thing.
The video caught fire, and the People's Daily WeChat public account also posted an article to praise him.
Although Dad's figure makes the picture look very discordant, netizens have praised him as a good dad in the comment area. One of the comments was notable:
Such a father gives his child a solid backing, and believes that his daughter will not have difficulties that cannot be overcome in the future!
Psychologist Gerdy said: Father is a unique existence, has a special power to cultivate children.
When my daughter learns to dance, her father will accompany her. It is not difficult to imagine that Dad's company is also full of daily life. Girls' sense of security and happiness is bursting, they will be optimistic and confident, and there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome.
As the famous British literary scholar Hubbard said, a good father is better than 100 teachers. In the process of growing up, many of the roles of dads are irreplaceable by moms. A father who can play, play and study with him will raise a better child.
The company of the father is the treasure of the child's life.
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Fathers who will play with each other and give their children a happy childhood
Yesterday I saw a video and was instantly circled by an Internet celebrity dad.
In the video, he takes his daughter to play the "traffic light" game. While reading the rules of the game, guide your daughter to play. When the father stretched his arms forward and ran forward with his hands together, the daughter did the same thing.
The sun was shining, her hair was flying, and her bright smile was like a delicate flower blooming on the little girl's face.
Beautiful, spilling out across the screen.
This father accompanied his daughter to play games, which not only allowed her daughter to master the basic traffic rules, but also conveyed a strong father's love.
I can't help but think of another father who was reported by CCTV some time ago. The father, from Zhengzhou, Henan Province, made more than a hundred toys for his daughter out of scrap items. Tetris, "colored balls home" and other toys have turned the home into an amusement park.
Whenever the father plays with his daughter, the house is full of laughter.
When the girl was interviewed by reporters, she proudly said: My father is invincible, my father is Superman.
Dad played with him, added honey to the parent-child relationship, and let them become shining stars in each other's eyes.
Dr. Laura Markham, a well-known parent-child communication expert, once said:
Establishing an ideal intimate relationship with your child is the only key to your peace and happiness of your child. The relationship problem is solved, many families have parenting conflicts, and even war will not happen.
And the best way to build an intimate relationship is to play with your children.
Some people say that every man has a little boy living in his heart. Compared to mom, dad is better at playing. When the child is a child, the father can play simple games such as peek-a-boo and riding a big horse. As your child grows up, you can play games that drag your legs and crawl, and play games that test your physical strength and intelligence. No matter when you play, no matter how long you play, Dad should devote himself to it and have fun and education.
The father who will accompany the play, let the child fully feel the happiness, and give the child an unforgettable childhood.
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Dad accompanies the exercise and gives the child a fertile soil for healthy growth
Don't play for 2 hours a day and don't do your homework!
Is it a fantasy for parents to make such a request to their children?
But in real life, there is a father who asks his child to do so.
This dad is from Hunan.
In order to protect his son's vision, he accompanied his son to carry out colorful outdoor sports.
Dad often accompanies sports, and his son's sports performance is always among the best, and his physical fitness is also very good. At the age of 8, he became the first child in Changsha to receive the ACA Kayak Association Skills Certification.
Some people say that when you exercise with your children, you not only exercise a strong physique, but also a sound personality.
truly. Life is a marathon. With a strong physique and a sound personality, children can ride the wind and waves and walk more steadily and farther. When I watched "Flexible Parenting" before, Liu Rulan, a doctor of literature, told a case that was impressive.
The girl's name is Liu Xin.
From childhood to adulthood, as long as dad has time, he will accompany her to play table tennis. They chatted happily and happily, while chatting in the sea and the sky. Such good times have always been with her growth.
Before the college entrance examination, the father found that his daughter had anxiety and nervousness. After playing table tennis with her daughter for two or three hours, her nervousness was swept away.
That year, Liu Xin scored more than 660 points and became the school's liberal arts champion.
Liu Xin said: "Although my father said that he only did one thing with me - playing table tennis, it was actually a particularly important thing. Strengthened my physique, cultivated my healthy lifestyle, and benefited me for life. ”
Oh, yes! Fathers accompany their children to exercise, which can make children appreciate the many benefits brought by sports, help children develop exercise habits, and benefit children for life.
In 2010, a scientific study conducted by several Finnish universities found that dads accompanying their children to exercise can not only affect their children's academic performance in school, but even affect their working income as adults.
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Dad accompanies the study and recharges the child's excellent "recharge"
Saw a video the other day that was enviable.
In the video, a dad is writing with his head down and four children sitting next to him. The eldest daughter is writing the Tao Te Ching, the second daughter is practicing the Thousand Character Scripture, the younger daughter is the Three Character Sutra, and the youngest son is practicing the control pen. No impetuousness, no hustle and bustle, and no electronics.
In this quiet moment, only Dad was fully by his side.
Not only that, after practicing words together, dad will continue to read with his children.
Even if you sleep late at night, you will still get up on time the next day to accompany your child to read in the morning.
In the company of dad, the children's academic performance has always been among the best.
It is not difficult to see from this father that the father accompanies the study, and it is more of a power to give the child the power to set an example.
A father in Fujian is usually very busy at work, but since his child can remember, he still insists on accompanying his child to study every day. The children's grades were good and the walls were plastered with awards.
A Shanxi father who accompanies his son to read in the morning every morning. In the company of his father, his son not only has self-discipline, but also takes the initiative to learn every day.
Netizens also said: I am not envious of getting up early, but I envy that he can have such a "father".
Oh, yes! It's nice to have such a dad who is willing to accompany his children to learn! In real life, most fathers would rather brush vibrato to play mobile games than accompany their children to learn.
The psychologist Fromm once said:
Mom represents nature, earth and sea, our homeland, and Dad represents the world of ideas: law, order and discipline.
Dads lead by example and are even more exemplary to their children than they are to moms.
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Psychologist Wu Zhihong once said:
Love and companionship are far more important than education, and a healthy, harmonious and intimate parent-child relationship is the cornerstone of a child's personality and the content of personality.
A father who will accompany him, give his child the warmest love, and pave the sunshine for his child's future.
No one is born a good dad. As the head of the family, as the father of the child, maybe you are very busy and tired, maybe you are under a lot of pressure, but please don't forget that the child's growth is only once, there is no chance to start again, there is no room for regret.
May every father and mother walk hand in hand, with love and companionship, to support a better future for their children.