It's the end of the year, and many friends should be planning to get together with the people they like. Just a friend in the background had a private message to me saying:
"On this day of imminent reunion, he was broken up. People who are about to reach the end of two years together, who have not gone through the third year, are separated in the days when the second year is coming to an end. ”
He said: "Actually, he already had the induction, just thinking that if he tried harder, there might be a turnaround, but he didn't wait for the turnaround." Finally proposed a breakup the other day".
Like many couples who broke up, he also did it, but in the end it was her sentence: "You don't want to be like this, this can only make me hate."
So he said, "Let's delete each other!" Otherwise they always want to find you. ”
Indeed, when it came time to say this, I think it was the saddest decision he had ever made! It wasn't that he didn't love it anymore, it was just that he knew that the only way he could not disturb him. It would be impolite to bother again. So choose this simplest and most thorough method.
This way you won't bother anymore, and you'll slowly lose touch. People are actually very strange, and after there is no deliberate connection, they will never meet again.
Yeah, to ask everyone this question, have you ever seen the person after the person who deleted each other?
I don't think most people have seen it again! So have you ever wondered whether feelings are one person's business or two people's affairs. Most people will say that feelings should be a matter of two people. It's true that feelings are a matter of two people, but the feeling of liking you is my own.
When there is no feeling of liking, it is followed by the collapse of feelings. This is also the inevitable end of a relationship. It's just that most people, the one who loves deeply, is deleted.
The reason is very simple, because the party who was broken up with, because he still loves you, will want to save, and in order to prevent you from repeatedly disturbing, asking for compounding, etc., the direct way to break is to block and delete, so that he can no longer accept your information.
It's just that for the person you love deeply, the reason for saying each other's deletion is actually that he sees your determination. Because you know that this is what you want, how can you not be complete.
It's like watching a topic like: "How painful is it to take the initiative and delete each other with people you like?" ”
One of them is a praiseworthy answer: "It hurts."
Yeah, with someone you like, completely out of touch, it's going to hurt. But this has become inevitable, and what we can do is accept it. After all, not everyone can go to the end together. Gathering and scattering is the norm of life.
Maybe in the beginning, you really can't accept it and it will be painful. However, time will tell you that you will only hurt for a while but not for a lifetime. Everyone may have such a person in their hearts. That person is your initial love, your favorite, only to not come together in the end.
Maybe that's why things you can't get are always hard to forget. Because you once had it, but in the end you lost it. So, let it go when it's time to let go.
After a relationship ends, it is impossible to go back to the beginning. Everything has changed. It's not that you can't be friends after a breakup, it's just that you can't be friends after a breakup.
Because there is always one party who sees you and thinks about getting back together, and finally it becomes a disturbance. Instead of that, choose to end it completely. And the way to end it is to start with mutual deletion.
You know, love or not love, there is no right or wrong, only love does not love. The more entangled, the more unable to let go, and finally can only indulge in memories and cannot extricate themselves.
But this is not an attitude of responsibility for oneself and others. When you are experiencing such a situation, the most important thing you should do is two things, and when you are sure that this thing is irretrievable, you must learn to say goodbye. Then set aside an "empty window period". When you meet someone you like again, you must also boldly chase after it.
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