Marrying into a rich family was once the dream of many girls, but the difference in the growth environment and cultural background also made the looking beautiful luxury marriage not as comfortable as the outside world imagined.
Zhang Qingfang, who is extremely popular in the Chinese music scene, is known for her clear singing voice and super explosive power, especially when interpreting love songs, giving the songs a strong rigid beauty, which also makes her unique in the music world, very personal characteristics.
In 2005, the lucky Zhang Qingfang married the rich man Song Xueren and became the envy of everyone.
Song Xueren
Song Xueren, graduated from Taiwan Jiaotong University, received a master's degree from National Chengchi University and Harvard University in the United States, and has served as vice president, managing director and partner of Goldman Sachs, and is now the vice chairman of Goldman Sachs Group Asia.
It is quite famous in the investment industry and is known as the "godfather of investment banking", which is quite similar to Lin Qingkun, played by Wang Yaoqing in the recent hit drama "Perfect Partner", but the rank is higher than him.
Talented
Song Xueren looks dignified, giving people a very elegant feeling, compared to Zhang Qingfang's appearance is not outstanding, but the man is her fan, but also quite appreciative of her personality, the combination of the two can be called a model of talent.
Zhang Qingfang revealed in his early years that he was a very practical person, his personality was also very direct, he would not hide it, and not long after knowing Song Xueren, he took the initiative to propose to the other party.
It is also the cheerful personality that finally won the recognition of Song Xueren, but the character that seems to be very attractive when in love may become an obstacle in marriage.
The reality version of Lin Qingkun vs Wu Min
The life after the marriage of the two is some beyond Zhang Qingfang's imagination, and even some cannot be accepted, which makes her very similar to Wu Min in "Perfect Partner".
In the play, Wu Min's husband Lin Qingkun is almost unable to stay at home all year round, and everything is taken care of by Wu Min, which makes her feel lonely, and at the same time, she is not willing to be only a housewife at the mercy of others, and wants to have her own career and space.
Zhang Qingfang may face more problems, first of all, she must get up on time every day to eat with her husband, which makes it difficult for Zhang Qingfang, who has irregular work and rest rules and needs to sleep lazily from time to time.
After her husband went out, she also had to do housework, deal with large and small things in the house, and often needed to be busy until 11 o'clock in the evening to rest. And the husband is also like Lin Qingkun in the play, he can't see people all day, sometimes Zhang Qingfang wakes up, the other party has not yet returned home, and Zhang Qingfang is very lonely for a long time.
I thought that after getting married, I could have someone to rely on, but in fact everything needed to be faced by myself.
The two had two children after marriage, and there were also differences in parenting philosophy.
Song Xueren pays attention to elite education, is very strict with children, usually writes with rules and regulations, must also use spoons for meals, and often treats children with a straight face. Zhang Qingfang is just the opposite, casually she believes that children grow up happily is the most important, should not be too constrained, for this reason the two often quarrel in this regard.
After 15 years of hand-in-hand, the children have also grown up a little, and Zhang Qingfang bravely filed for divorce and wanted to be herself completely.
At that time, the two announced that the two sides were separated due to insurmountable differences, but they were still the parents of the children and would not reduce their love for the children.
It is reported that Zhang Qingfang received about NT$1.6 billion (about 400 million yuan) in property after the divorce, and Zhang Qingfang announced that she would make a comeback in the year of divorce, looking forward to getting a new life in her career.
In fact, people are very complex, and if you have not experienced what others have experienced, it is difficult to evaluate them.
Just like Wu Min in "Perfect Partner", many people think that she does it, but in her environment, you may be able to truly understand what she wants. Zhang Qingfang is the same, the difference in personality, sometimes rely on wealth can not make up, when you no longer worry about livelihood, the inner spiritual needs, will be particularly strong.