"When our children get naughty, no one can control them." Being caught by teachers all day long to educate, probably because of boys, this age is always less obedient than other people's little girls. "When discussing the education of children, parents of boys always complain to us that their children are not as obedient as other people's little girls.
Girls generally develop earlier than boys during development, so girls are generally more sensible, which is something that most parents already know. Therefore, boys when they were young, whether it was their naughtiness or their learning situation, were very worrying to their parents.
But the naughty age stage of the child is also the critical period of their rapid development and shaping cognition, is it that at this stage parents can only wait for the child to develop freely? No, parents must not sit still, the wrong child's optimal stage of development you can only regret it! These two golden stages, parents must pay attention!
1. Around 10 years old: The first semester begins
Generally speaking, girls develop faster than boys in both physical and mental cognition. Therefore, in the primary school stage of the first and second grades, their academic performance will also be better than that of boys of the same age.
But after two years, almost in the fourth and fifth grades, boys' perception of learning will also improve greatly. They gradually begin to know how to learn more intently, so before this stage, parents should establish good rules and habits for their children, so that they can develop certain learning methods and self-discipline habits before stepping into this critical period. In this way, they can be more focused and self-disciplined in learning after they have officially entered the learning atmosphere.
The good foundation of the primary school period can lay a good foundation for learning and habit formation after growing up. If the parents' management methods are effective enough, the child will also exceed the same age and sex at this stage, and even the opposite sex is even larger.
2. Around 13 years old: The second semester begins
After children officially enter puberty, through years of study and school life, they have learned the importance of learning and what their attitude towards learning should be done. And this age stage is the stage when their thinking ability and physical and mental development are most intense.
Especially in the development of boys' thinking, the relevant thinking logic and abstract thinking methods have also been greatly improved, so their science courses such as biochemistry, physics, and mathematics courses will also be greatly improved;
And from another aspect, this age of children's competitiveness and challenge ability is also very strong, if parents can give children timely guidance, then children will be more active and active to explore and think about related problems and research, if children can have a strong interest in the study of these subjects, I believe that in the future learning and life, they will take these as their own strengths, which is very conducive to their subsequent course learning and professional choices.
These two golden periods are very important, so parents must guide their children to move in the right direction, which is not only the golden stage of improving themselves, but also the fork in the road that is easy to be confused and misguided, especially at this time, the child's rebellious heart is more abundant, and parents should prevent it in advance and intervene as soon as possible.
Parents with boys, what do you usually educate your children? What is called parenting can be discussed since the comments section.
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