On the question of the child's return, why did Sun Haiyang succeed and Guo Gangtang fail? Everyone may have overlooked a detail, that is, Sun Haiyang is very majestic in front of Sun Zhuo, and Sun Haiyang mentioned many times in the live broadcast, as my son, you should... Similar words, he said many times. Such details can make people feel that Sun Haiyang has requirements for Sun Zhuo. In front of Sun Zhuo, in addition to all kinds of caution, he was also a very majestic father.
Two things can prove it. The first time was to recognize relatives in Shenzhen, originally Sun Zhuo's train tickets back to Shandong were bought, and he was ready to go back on the same day. (Some netizens said that the buyer's adoptive mother and Sun Zhuo did the plane to Shenzhen) But Sun Haiyang strongly demanded that Sun Zhuo must return to his hometown in Hubei Province. Of course, Sun Zhuo is also more sensible, but this is inseparable from Sun Haiyang's persistence. Sun Haiyang said in the interview that he saw that Sun Zhuo was going back to Shandong, and he reacted strongly. After seeing Sun Haiyang's reaction, Sun Zhuocai told Shandong that he should go back to Hubei to see his grandparents and give them an explanation!
The second thing was to take Sun Zhuo back to Shenzhen from Yanggu, and Sun Zhuo himself was unaware. At that time, her mother also told reporters that Sun Haiyang was engaged in this matter (not telling Sun Zhuo to pick him up), and if Sun Zhuo did not agree, it would be a complete loss. Mother Peng Siying told him halfway, Sun Zhuo was very surprised at that time, how could it be so sudden. Later, Sun Zhuo agreed to return to Shenzhen with them.
Both of these things can explain Sun Haiyang's decisiveness and majesty. These two events show that Sun Haiyang is very fatherly in his treatment of Sun Zhuo. Sun Zhuo from the beginning of the choice of buyers, to the end of the resolute return to the birth of his parents, can not help but with Sun Haiyang's majesty and love, has a lot to do.
Chinese pay the most attention to the middle way, the father's love and majesty, both of which are indispensable. Sun Haiyang did both, so his wisdom contributed to Sun Zhuo's final return.
Looking at Guo Gangtang again, he actually agreed to let his son return to the buyer, agreed to the two families to move around as relatives, and even issued a letter of understanding to the buyer! Is this what he really thinks? Definitely not. If not, why would he agree?
To his son, he was left with only love, doting to the point where there was no principle and no father's dignity! On New Year's Day, he also took the initiative to visit his son in Henan!
Good guys without principles, I personally don't think are really good guys. Because in order to please his son, he can disregard his own heart. In order to please his son, he disregarded the legal sentiments and issued a letter of understanding to the buyer. In order to please his son, he even disregarded other comrades-in-arms who fought together and set a bad example for everyone!
So when many people praise Guo Gangtang's greatness, I don't think so. I just thought it was selfish and the pattern was small. In order to please his son, he disregarded all the principles of majesty!
So look at what Sun Haiyang did, and then look at how Guo Gangtang did it, the results are different, there are reasons!
Guo Gangtang recently expressed his wish that his son could go home for the New Year.
No matter what, I still hope that Guo Zhen still has some conscience, and I hope that Guo Dad can do what he wants! If Guo Zhen can turn a blind eye to his own father's wishes, he really feels that this son still doesn't want it!