If you want to say that marriage has two criteria, one is the basis of love, and the other is the stability of marriage, in fact, these two things are nothing more than determining the quality of marriage, but what really determines the quality of marriage is not just these two things.
I believe that married people should know that women after marriage want to get along with their own lifelong people, but I didn't expect that there are many men in real life who can't think of, they always make their marriage flat with time, and they are tired, always going outside to pick flowers and weeds.
You know how ridiculous it is, when your own wife, your own children are having fun at home, and you are spending a lot of time outside, when your wife has given all this, but you have always been very tired of him, in the end, this is why all men like to like the new and the old.
I have seen this before, a topic, if this person once reaches middle age, in the end is divorce, for men and women to compare, who is more miserable? If it comes to this topic, some people may feel that women are miserable, because after all, they have lost their youth, but also lost their marriage, if they choose to remarry, they do not have any advantage.
But for men, if they don't have any money on hand, no woman is willing to marry him, after they divorced at this age, in fact, in the end, it will make their burden particularly heavy, if you marry a young wife, do you think you can let her live a good life? In fact, you are very good, and a young wife cannot become a good wife and mother in your mind.
And you yourself are gradually entering middle age, and when you reach old age, your wife will enter middle age, do you think you can hold your wife? At the end of the day, you'll find out how ridiculous the choices you made were.
When Wang Hao was middle-aged, he felt that he could master everything, and he did not look up to his wife Li Min, no matter what Li Min did in this family, he was always unhappy with his wife, and from time to time he lost his temper with his wife.
Once when his wife asked him for money, he suddenly became angry: "All day long you know that you want money, most of the money I earn every month is given to you, you are really a loser, what good do you say I have to marry you?" ”
Li Min is particularly aggrieved, he does not know how big the family spends, he has two children, and every month he only asks his husband for 3,000 yuan, these two children have to go to school, and they have to go to cram school, and they still have to eat and live at home.
After the second child was admitted to college, she took the initiative to file a divorce with her husband, and Huang Hao pointed to his wife's nose and said, What qualifications do you have to file for divorce with me? You are almost 40 years old now, after you are divorced, do you think you can still find a man like me? You'll end up on the streets.
No matter what her husband says, Li Min still chooses to divorce, he has been with her husband for so many years, even if there is no merit, there will be a little hard work, after all, those properties after they get married are also the common property of their husbands and wives, for the issue of child custody, in fact, they are now adults, in the end the children should be with the father or with the mother? They have their own decisions.
Wang Hao did not expect that he himself would dump his wife so quickly, he went to the Civil Affairs Bureau on the morning of the 2nd day to go through the divorce procedures, and that afternoon Wang Hao led his little third son to get a marriage license.
The boss once asked Li Min: "Mom, you have been with your father for more than 20 years, in these 20 years, your daughter knows your hardships, and now after you divorce your father, you have not got anything, do you regret it?" ”
In fact, Li Min does not regret it at all, although he knows that her husband is not intimate enough, but even if she lives with her husband, then such a day has no meaning, her current marriage is imprisoned for too long, she herself has completely lost her own life, so he wants to find his own home, in this marriage he sees more clearly, he did not lose.
After Wang Hao married his third party, the first two years of marriage, he was proud of the spring breeze, and everyone around him was particularly envious of him for marrying a small wife, and he did realize his wish in life, and when he reached middle age, he hugged his wife home, which really made her feel particularly interesting, as if she herself was a few years younger.
But I didn't expect to get married, two years later, the wife was pregnant, the wife was not very good after she got pregnant, but this person to the middle-aged queen, how can he coax his wife all day long, he coaxed once, coaxed twice, and then the number of times, he himself was more bored, and gradually he remembered his ex-wife, she thought about how comfortable his previous life was, and he thought about his special fatigue now.
After only two years of marriage, their husband and wife have more and more conflicts, often they will quarrel, he began to miss his ex-wife, she was at least gentle in the early stages of pregnancy, at least for his work for her nagging will not quarrel with him.
In fact, many people in this man are like this, divorced and want to get married again, but after marriage, can your marriage really get the previous situation? Only the real loss knows to cherish, but will your lost ex-wife come back? At this time, people will suddenly realize.
Therefore, this person should do something at what age, and he should get married and have children in the first 7 years, but after this person reaches middle age, where do you have the energy to choose to remarry yourself, get married and have children again, and middle age will have to carry on from top to bottom, there are old and young.