The wife was born infertile but miraculously gave birth, all of which the husband did not know! When breaking through the wife's obstruction and getting the identification results, the husband cried, and the strange wife comforted the husband: you have to face it calmly.
What's going on here?
It turned out that Chen Jianmin of Hunan, a truck driver, ran a car to a foreign country, and it took four or five days to go home to take a look, but found that there was a child who had just been born a few days ago lying on the bed at home.
This scene blinded him, whose child was this?
The wife said, of course, was their children.
Chen Jianmin was even more surprised. The wife never mentioned that she was pregnant, and he didn't know that he didn't know when she had a baby, was the wife joking? The wife said she wasn't joking, that it was their child.
From the bottom of his heart, Chen Jianmin did not believe it, because his wife was born infertile, and five years ago they tried to do IVF before they had their first son. How could his wife possibly be pregnant without his involvement?
But looking at his wife's determined and sworn appearance, Chen Jianmin was also helpless. In this case, if it is placed on other men, at this time, the temper will come up, and the wife will already be questioned. But Chen Jianmin was too honest to show his dissatisfaction in front of his wife.
According to his wife Yu Chunmei, although Chen Jianmin is a good person, he is not a man and has a lot of pockets. She looked down on this man from the bottom of her heart. If it weren't for his own congenital infertility, how could he possibly marry such a nest man?
Chen Jianmin's childhood
In fact, Chen Jianmin's nest comes from his experience as a child. He has been an orphan since he was a child, and he grew up eating a hundred meals, so naturally he is indispensable to the cold eyes and bullying of others. In order to survive, he could only endure, and over time, he developed a rebellious and obedient character. Any injustice he inflicts on himself by others, he manages to bear it himself. His philosophy of survival taught him that he could not resist, because the more he resisted, the more troublesome he became. He once gave an example, originally others just made fun of him, but if he contradicted him, others were bound to punch and kick each other, and if he also threw his fists to meet him, maybe the children would cut him with bricks.
Therefore, it is precisely this mentality that more is better than less, and he has developed the personality of swallowing his breath and breaking his teeth to swallow. People like him, when they come to society, will naturally be bullied in every way. If it were not for his wife Yu Chunmei, who was born infertile at that time, he would not have been able to find his in-laws. How could he possibly look up to such an air bag?
He also felt that it was his honor to find his wife Yu Chunmei, after all, he was a fatherless and motherless child who had no family since childhood, and it was not easy to become a family. Therefore, no matter what kind of reprimand his wife gave him, he chose to endure.
Over time, Yu Chunmei didn't worry about anything at home. Chen Jianmin travels long distances, sometimes sleeping for a few hours in a row, sleepy, rushing home to clean up the hygiene of the family, cooking for his wife, taking the children to write homework, washing the children's clothes, and so on.
Yu Chunmei is sloppy and lazy. When she got married, because she would not have children and was still a little inferior, she did not dare to shout at Chen Jianmin.
But after a few years of marriage, medical technology developed and ivory babies could be used to have children. Yu Chunmei was on her toes, and when she was finally able to have a child, her temper changed drastically and she began to dictate to Chen Jianmin. Chen Jianmin came home from work, tired to death, and still had to watch his children, while Yu Chunmei lay on the bed and slept soundly.
Especially when the child was just born, Chen Jianmin almost did not close his eyes. Because he was running a long distance, he also had to run the night train, and he couldn't sleep at night, and when he came home, he had to see the children, and he couldn't sleep, and he quickly broke his body.
Yu Chunmei scolded him for being useless, lifting his feet and kicking him to death. He couldn't help it, so he took the medicine from the hospital and coaxed the child over and over again while taking a drip at home.
It can be said that since having a child, Yu Chunmei basically did not care about him, she either held a mobile phone to brush TV series every day, or sat at the door to chat with the mothers who retired at home.
Chen Jianmin, because Yu Chunmei bore him a son, he took her as a baby, and no matter what he did, he was resigned to it.
But now, there was suddenly another child in the family, Yu Chunmei did not say that it was his, and Chen Jianmin finally couldn't stand it.
Because, From pregnancy to childbirth, Yu Chunmei did not know anything. Some people may say: You Chen Jianmin often go home, don't you know whether she is pregnant from his wife's posture?
This is really not to blame Chen Jianmin, because Yu Chunmei has always been fat, when pregnant with the first son, although she was fat, but outsiders looked at it, at most they would say that she was fat again, and decided not to suspect that she was pregnant. Yu Chunmei herself did not say, of course, Chen Jianmin had no way of knowing whether she was pregnant.
Then the problem is that Yu Chunmei was not born pregnant, and must use IVF to complete the pregnancy. It is reasonable to say that chen Jianmin must participate in order for Yu Chunmei to get pregnant.
But Chen Jianmin didn't know it. In the face of her husband's questioning, Yu Qingmei said impatiently: I can't talk to you. Help me take my kids.
Chen Jianmin skimmed his lips in grievance, took the child whose life was a mystery, and coaxed him to sleep.
Originally, Chen Jianmin also planned to nest in his heart. But suddenly one day, strange phone calls and text messages came up on his mobile phone, and he had to face up to this problem.
The stranger told Chen Jianmin that the child was his. If Chen Jianmin wants to take over, give him 5,000 yuan.
At this time, Chen Jianmin was confused, he took the text message and asked his wife, what is going on?
But his wife Yu Chunmei was dead faced: This is blackmail, you know? Do you also believe this kind of scam money SMS?
However, as soon as Yu Chunmei's voice fell, the stranger called, and he told Chen Jianmin that Chen Jianmin must come to Changsha for a visit, and the two of them came to talk.
Chen Jianmin panicked, he was worried that the other party was a hard stubble, and he tricked himself into cleaning up a meal. He had no choice but to turn to the local media.
The media also felt that his experience was strange enough, so they immediately sent someone to understand the situation.
Strange couple
Logically, regardless of whether what the stranger said was true or not, this child alone was enough to be unknown. Yu Chunmei also did not give him a reasonable explanation, there should be some loss of money.
But Yu Chunmei is a strange thing.
The first scene that the reporter saw when he came to their home was that Chen Jianmin was holding a child from an unknown source and coaxing him to sleep, while his wife Yu Chunmei was sitting on a chair with Erlang's legs crossed and playing a fan, which was very enjoyable.
Seeing the reporter's camera come in, Yu Chunmei took a towel to cover her face, and it was obvious that she knew that it was not a glorious thing to let the reporter ask about this matter.
The reporter asked Yu Chunmei: "Then who did this child go to the hospital with?" Your husband didn't follow you to IVF? ”
Yu Chunmei's answer surprised the reporter: "I want netizens to sign the letter, I have frozen embryos." ”
Then Yu Chunmei proudly explained that after giving birth to a child, she secretly saved her husband's jingzi, and this time she just used it, that's all.
But her explanation is obviously far-fetched, because even if it is a frozen embryo, it also needs to be signed by her husband, but why should she find a netizen to sign it?
At this time, Chen Jianmin could not recognize the interjection: "I don't know if the child was born, and she is also looking for netizens to sign." ”
Having a child actually found a netizen to sign in the name of her husband? Such an operation is really unheard of!
The reporter couldn't help but ask Yu Chunmei: "From giving birth to pregnancy, why don't you tell your husband?" ”
Yu Chunmei looked dismissive: "Is this a big deal?" It's not unusual to have a baby. Casually born. ”
The reporter was shocked again, in The mouth of Chunmei, giving birth to a child is as casual as buying a few pounds of fruit from the street.
So the reporter was also a little angry: "Your child is a life, but who his life belongs to, you have to make it clear, you can't let your husband raise him to adulthood without knowing it." ”
Yu Chunmei said impatiently, "I don't want him to raise him." I've told him..."
The reporter asked: "Then are you equivalent to admitting that the child is not his?" ”
Yu Chunmei said warily: "I didn't admit it, I said it was his, it was his." ”
The reporter was helpless: "Is that his?" ”
Yu Chunmei was straight-forward: "It's his"
At this time, Chen Jianmin timidly interjected: "Why do I believe?" ”
Yu Chunmei glanced at Chen Jianmin and said impatiently, "Do you believe it or not?" ”
Chen Jianmin was too frightened to speak, but just stepped back to the side, teasing the infant child whose identity was a mystery, and at the same time gagging in grievance.
Obviously, Chen Jianmin is usually a rebellious person, and he does not dare to lose his temper in front of his wife. If there were no reporters, Presumably Chen Jianmin would not dare to further ask about the child's origins.
The reporter looked at it, and could not count on Chen Jianmin, had to personally go to the battle, layer by layer of persecution, Yu Chunmei had no way, and finally admitted that some time ago, she and netizens did make mistakes after drinking. But she turned sharp and insisted that the children belonged to her husband.
Chen Jianmin said grievously: "You have admitted that there are people outside of you." Also said that the child is mine! ”
Yu Chunmei grabbed the white: "That's all netizens, that's all fun, you know not?" ”
The reporter was angry and laughed: "Fun is not played like this, you are originally the wrong side of this matter." You meet with netizens, your behavior style, so improper? ”
Yu Chunmei skimmed her lips: "That's a good idea of drinking and getting drunk." It's not a big deal. ”
The reporter was very angry: "How can you just casually say that it's okay?" ”
Yu Chunmei said straightly, "That's also a bad mood, he's not good for me." ”
Unexpectedly, Yu Chunmei, instead of the slightest shame, beat a rake upside down and began to accuse Chen Jianmin, and she blamed herself and others for being bad to her.
This made Chen Jianmin a little unbearable, and he began to defend himself: "Why am I not good? We have a conflict, is it not the dirty things you have done? ”
It turned out that Yu Chunmei's so-called Chen Jianmin was not good because she and her neighbors got along well a few days ago. Just happened to be hit by Chen Jianmin, who was returning home.
Originally, this kind of thing was yu Chunmei's marital infidelity, and she was the wrong party. But she insisted that this kind of thing is very common in society now, what's the fuss?
Chen Jianmin is angry because of this, that is, he is not good for her, he is cold to her, and the family is cold and violent. So she was in a bad mood, so she made a mistake after drinking.
Yu Chunmei's routine of defending herself makes reporters can't help but lament what a shameless woman this is. His own style is not good, there is no trace of shame, but blame the husband for making a fuss?
Chen Jianmin was also very unhappy when he listened to it. So he immediately proposed to take the child for paternity testing.
As soon as this remark came out, Yu Chunmei immediately jumped like a thunderbolt, and she threatened that if her husband insisted on doing a paternity test, she would choose to divorce immediately.
Yu Chunmei's attitude made the reporter understand in his heart that 80% of this child was not Chen Jianmin's. So the reporter pulled Chen Jianmin out.
The reporter asked Chen Jianmin whether he still uses it for paternity testing? Isn't his wife's attitude very clear?
However, Chen Jianmin still insisted on doing a paternity test, and his words also made the reporter very speechless, Chen Jianmin said with a fluke: "Everything is subject to the results of the appraisal." ”
In his opinion, if the results of the appraisal showed that it was certain that it was his, he would forgive his wife for infidelity. He repeatedly told reporters that he was an orphan, it was not easy to become a family, and he did not want to give up.
Paternity test
It's at this time. Yu Chunmei called again. It should be that she had just thought about it at home and felt that she was not strict and too far-fetched.
So she defended herself: the child is not an IVF baby, but a natural pregnancy with her husband. Doctors say that if the bladder is pressed to the fallopian tubes, you may become pregnant naturally, or you will have this miracle after losing weight.
Yu Chunmei also said to Chen Jianmin with a straight face: "If you don't believe it, you can ask the doctors of the three hospitals." ”
The third hospital is the hospital that does IVF for them. The reason why Yu Chunmei made such a play again is to divert Chen Jianmin's attention and no longer dwell on the matter of paternity testing.
However, Chen Jianmin had already paid attention to it this time, and he knew that his wife had lied a lot and opened his mouth, and he still insisted on taking the appraisal results as the standard, and the rest would wait for the results to come out.
Yu Chunmei saw that Chen Jianmin was so stubborn, and there was no way but to agree.
But on the way to the hospital, she began to play with moths again, she told reporters: "The identification can be done, but the results cannot be made public." ”
The reporter laughed at her proposal, and at the same time was shocked by Yu Chunmei's dirtiness, because from these words, we can already see that Yu Chunmei is also ambiguous about the child's life. She wasn't absolutely sure who the kid was, which meant she was out there all the time. Now she can only choose to gamble on the identification.
Chen Jianmin, on the other hand, was on the side, with a gloomy face: "If you don't mess around outside, such a thing will happen?" ”
Yu Chunmei straightened her chest and said, "It's so popular on the Internet, you think I want to go out." ”
Chen Jianmin stammered: "You are wrong and still say this?" ”
Yu Chunmei was straight-forward: "Which one doesn't make mistakes?" Who is as messy as you are? ”
The reporter couldn't help but interject: "Then why do you make mistakes repeatedly?" ”
I thought that in this way, I would block chunmei.
Unexpectedly, Yu Chunmei still gave herself a supplement: "When I first started playing WeChat, I may have a little bit of a feeling of fascination." I can't help myself. ”
The reporter was shocked: "You talk to others on WeChat?" ”
Yu Chunmei said triumphantly: "Yes, online chat." What shakes, shakes out. ”
I have to say that it is rare for a casual woman like Yu Chunmei to face herself so casually and so calmly, she seems to have no idea what shame is, other women cheat in marriage because of empathy, she is not, she is just playing, trying to be fresh.
Then she told reporters in a tone that saw through the red dust: "Playing and playing, later it was not interesting, and it was too hypocritical to these things on the Internet." ”
Listening to her say this, Chen Jianmin, who had a green light on his head, just sat on the side and did not say a word.
After the blood collection is completed, it is time to wait for the identification results.
Before the results of the appraisal came out, Chen Jianmin was still at home with the child, while Yu Chunmei was still sitting on the bed watching TV and playing with her mobile phone, and the paternity test had no impact on her at all.
When the appraisal results came out, the reporter asked Yu Chunmei if she was sure?
Yu Chunmei said indifferently: "I have come to this step, anyone's is casual, anyway, the child is mine." ”
After Chen Jianmin saw the appraisal results, he cried. He had been worried for so many days, and finally confirmed that the child was not his, which made him grief-stricken.
Yu Chunmei looked at him and cried for a while, and in turn comforted him: "No, no, no, you have to face it calmly, at least you still have a son." You just dreamed of waking up and living again. ”
The reporters on the side listened to Yu Chunmei's words and were shocked by the thickness of her face.
Later, Chen Jianmin still plucked up enough courage to divorce Yu Chunmei. But when going through the divorce procedures, Chen Jianmin still held the child and coaxed the child not to let him cry. The staff of the Civil Affairs Bureau wondered why they had to get a divorce just after giving birth to a child. Yu Chunmei also explained to the staff: "Check it out, the child is not his, can't stand it, he came to divorce me, what's the big deal." ”
In this way, Chen Jianmin, who had no father and no mother since he was a child, and who was abandoned by his wife in middle age, completed the divorce procedures, handed the child to Yu Chunmei, and went home with tears on his own. The reporter originally wanted to persuade him, let him have a backbone, be a grandfather, so that it is possible to reinvigorate and find a woman who can really live a life. But thinking about it, the truth, everyone understands, the key is to understand it thoroughly, dare to change it yourself, otherwise, it is still yourself who suffers losses and bad luck.