Xiao Shu has a good friend named Xiao Fei.
Remember that after the high school class, Xiao Shu wanted to be at the same table with her, she not only studied hard, but also had a good personality, Xiao Shu told her this idea, and the two of them really became the same table.
How long the time at the same table was, Xiao Shu couldn't remember clearly now, only remembering that the friendship in high school was very simple. Girls' friendship is more simple, often starting from the bathroom together, over time, you can talk to each other, talk about everything, they have become each other's companion on the road to the college entrance examination, and have become each other's light on the long road of life.
After the college entrance examination, that summer was Xiao Shu's birthday, and Xiao Fei and several other classmates celebrated her birthday and bought her a big cake. The first time someone bought a birthday cake for Xiao Shu, she was very touched and a little confused. To this day, Xiao Shu still remembers that picture, in the ice rink, several of their classmates skated, fell on their butts and blossomed, but had a good time.
During that long vacation, they signed up for an aunt group to learn Latin dance, and every night they went to practice the basics, sweating profusely, and Xiao Shu lost more than a dozen pounds in less than two months, which was particularly beautiful that summer.
When the college entrance examination results came out, they filled in their own volunteers, and then went to college in different cities, and from then on they could see each other once a year, sometimes not once a year.
In college, although they are not in the same place, they are also the spiritual pillars of each other. As long as there is a person who suffers a major blow in life or a major setback in his feelings, they always cry to each other, and then comfort each other and support each other. As long as they encounter major problems in life, they will always stand behind each other in time and lend a helping hand at any time.
After work, Xiao Shu fell into the influence of his original family and was sullen. Xiao Shu's mother gave birth to her sister in her sophomore year of high school, and two years later her sister was diagnosed with gene-deficient severe intellectual disability, and as her sister grew up day by day, she could not live on her own when she reached the age of ten, and her intelligence level was not even as good as that of a one-year-old baby.
Their family lived a very hard life, relying on her father to earn two thousand yuan to support the family, and her mother could not go out to work because she had to take care of her sister, not only that, but also endured the torture of her sister's lack of mental strength. Seeing that the family was so hard, Xiao Shu's heart could not say that he was uncomfortable, and he could not do anything to hear his mother's complaints, and the pain in his heart could not be alleviated.
Xiao Shu's sister's situation is getting more and more serious, she can't eat by herself, she can't go to the toilet by herself, she only has the baby's language ability, and only the baby's thoughts.
The country has begun a new round of disability ratings, but the doctor said that it can only be rated as a third-level intellectual disability, and the students in the special school who are better than Xiao Shu's sister have been rated second-level, so why can't they be rated second-level according to the real severity, mainly because there is no "relationship". For a person who has no ability to take care of himself at all, what to do in the future? If only I could enjoy a little state subsidy, at least a little source of livelihood, a little hope.
Xiao Shu found a classmate in the hospital to help but could not do anything, Xiao Shu was desperate.
In desperation, Xiao Shu found Xiao Fei to tell her that she was powerless and could not help the family, and the whole person was very depressed. As a result, Xiao Fei did not say a word to go to one of her relatives for help, and went several times to help Xiao Shu's sister evaluate a second-degree intellectual disability.
Xiao Shu was very grateful to Xiao Fei, there was really nothing to get his hands on at home, Xiao Shu's mother personally gave Xiao Fei's relatives two pairs of wool slippers to express their most sincere gratitude.
Xiao Shu's sister still hasn't gotten a little better, but Xiao Shu's mother can now receive a little subsidy from the state every month, and she finally feels a little comfort in life, a little hope, and no complaints. All this, Xiao Shu was grateful to Xiao Fei for a lifetime.
Xiao Shu and Xiao Fei live in different cities, and they are still good friends. Xiao Fei worked on the railway after graduation, and later quit her railway job despite her parents' objections, returned to her husband's hometown, and went to Foxconn, but she never liked the job there. So, after taking maternity leave, she didn't work much, and she planned to take the first-level registered firefighter and change her profession.
In the first year, Xiao Fei concentrated on reviewing and preparing for the exam, but there was one subject that had not been tested. So the next year I redoubled my efforts, and the pressure was doubled, and I was afraid that I would not be able to get by again. After she resigned, she did not dare to tell her parents to stay unemployed at home, nor did she dare to return to her mother's home, for fear of exposing the fact that she did not have a job, and concealed her parents for two years, so the pressure in her heart was particularly great.
For a while, Xiao Fei told Xiao Shu that she had not worked for two years, could not see self-worth, was depressed from reading books, and people were going to collapse. Frightened, Xiao Shu quickly gave him guidance and decompression, advising her to relax her heart and give him everything to obey the fate of heaven, saying that she studied so hard and would definitely pass the exam. He also recommended the exercise decompression method to her, so that she could combine work and leisure and properly decompress.
Her husband and in-laws supported her and cheered her up. In order to let her concentrate on reviewing, the in-laws took the child back to her hometown, and she was always grateful to meet good people.
After the exam last year, Xiao Fei has been anxiously waiting for the results, and I often pray to her to pass the exam. Now that the results are out, she told me for the first time that she passed. Xiao Shu was really happy for her, and after passing the exam, she finally got out of her self-doubt.
Xiao Shu admired her in his heart, exactly the same as when Xiao Shu first saw her, hard work, self-motivated, good personality, and nothing had changed.
Such a warm girl, Xiao Shu hopes that she has a good life, hopes that she can realize her self-worth, and live a peaceful and joyful life!