I haven't seen Ma Tianyu's figure for a long time, and everyone's impression of him may still be stuck in "Damn Gentleness", but what many people don't know is that there are still many unknown pains in this big boy.
In the recently broadcast variety show, Ma Tianyu denied the rumors of quitting the circle, and also talked about the death of his father in the previous two years, as well as his little-known life, which made the guests cry...
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Because of his mother, he never met the Mid-Autumn Festival
When Ma Tianyu was mentioned, the first thing that came to mind was words such as modesty and gentleness, and he always had a smile, the appearance of a boy next door.
Although he debuted in "Come On Good Boy" in 2006, he was still not very famous until a song "Damn Gentle" broke the situation.
At that time, one of his "Damn Gentle" was popular all over the country, from lonely and nameless to well-known, even walking in the streets and alleys, passers-by would sing a few words.
But at this most popular time, the original brokerage company terminated his contract with him because of repeated defaults, and banned him from singing "Damn Gentleness" for the next ten years.
Although the song has been closely associated with him, he has not made a penny of profit.
Finally, in 2014, with excellent acting skills, he starred in the explosive "Ancient Sword Qitan" and returned to the public's attention.
In the continuous efforts, he came up with more works to face the audience's doubts, from a supporting actor to a male protagonist, gentle and tenacious to face all grievances and injustices.
It was gradually discovered that this treasure boy could not only sing but also act, but also do his part to participate in charity from time to time. Since his debut, he has almost no negative news, which can be called a clear stream in the entertainment industry.
In an interview in his early years, he said bitterly: "I don't know why, all the fortunate and unfortunate things in the family have happened to me." ”
Ma Tianyu was born in 1986 in an ordinary family in Wucheng County, Dezhou, Shandong Province, and poverty ran through his entire childhood, which was a factor of uneasiness that accompanied him throughout his life.
In the show, he talked about the most unforgettable thing in his memory, the death of his mother, and once blamed himself for thinking that it was his fault, and he really couldn't help but feel sad.
There are 4 children in the family, he is the third in line, and there is a younger brother below. Because his father gambled, was in debt, and went out to hide from debts for many years, he only left himself and his mother, sisters and brothers to suffer together, and finally even his brother was taken away to pay off the debt.
In an interview, he revealed that he also entered the circle to help his family live, and never tried to live for himself.
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The world kissed him with pain, but in return it with a song
August 15, 1991, which was supposed to be a family reunion day, became the pain of his life. On this day, his mother suddenly gave him some money to help buy medicine, and the extra allowed him to buy chocolate.
Five-year-old Ma Tianyu did not realize anything, very obediently bought the medicine back, did not expect that his mother bought sleeping pills, but also gave him a piece of chocolate containing sleeping pills.
The next day, a relative came to the door to deliver mooncakes, only to find that no one in the house answered, and under the loud slamming, Ma Tianyu was woken up, but the mother next to him was already cold.
It wasn't until a handful of dirt covered his mother's body that he found himself losing his mother.
When others are happy with the family, they will take a shovel alone to remove weeds from their mother's grave. After my mother died, my father never came back, or even heard from him.
There are only themselves and two sisters left in the family, and going to school has become a luxury, except for the uncle who occasionally gives some subsidies, but it is not a long-term livelihood, so the sisters give up the only opportunity to go to school to Ma Tianyu.
Grandma learned that he had participated in the vaccination organized by the school, and felt that spending 2.5 yuan on the vaccine was not worth it, so she beat him.
It may be hard to imagine that a bright star would have such an experience, but he is very real and has a reason why he can succeed.
The learning materials used for school have to pay money, grandparents pieced together, and finally there was a difference of three dollars, some teachers and classmates proposed to help him make up, but under the pressure of self-esteem, in the end he still refused to help and chose to drop out.
In addition, there are often people building new houses in the village, and Grandpa will often instill in him the concept that "if your father can't build a house, you have to build it yourself".
After dropping out of secondary school, he tried to wash dishes and wash dishes at a relative's restaurant, and finally lost his job because he was too honest.
Penniless, he finally decided to follow his second uncle to Beijing and embarked on the northbound train with the 25 yuan that his sister had given him.
No one expected that this decision to go to Beijing really made him what he is now.
In the show, when he recalled the loss of his mother, everyone couldn't help but feel sorry for him, but Wang Sutaki also warmly comforted him:
People say that children are the epitome of family happiness, but sometimes they are also affected by unfortunate childhoods for a lifetime, and Ma Tianyu uses his whole life to heal unhappy childhoods.
If the world kisses me bitterly, do I want to sing in return?
It varies from person to person, but it would be happier if you lived with a relaxed and grateful attitude, and you can be relieved.
Therefore, as a parent, it is important to create material conditions for children, but a good and harmonious family atmosphere is also indispensable.
We all want our children to live a healthy and happy life, and we can also temper the child's will and guide him to be grateful for what he has.