My girlfriend was always on the phone with other men in the middle of the night, and I took advantage of her absence and rummaged through her phone

My name is Yi Yang, I am 32 years old, and I live separately from my girlfriend, who works in Shanghai while I work in Anhui.

Her name is Zhang Yuling, she is two years younger than me, she is a very beautiful girl, because she has a warm and generous personality, and I love her very much.

After we were together, I offered to let her come and work on my side, after all, my company is also a private enterprise income, there will be a trend of growth.

Although she is a sales officer in Shanghai, her income is often tied to performance and is often unstable. Later, under my repeated requests. Yuling agreed to come to my side and came to me with a large bag and a small bag.

I vacated the large room I was in for her and moved myself to the smaller room next door. Because she said she wasn't used to living together all at once, I planned to take her time.

The month she started to come was a particularly beautiful time, she took the initiative to cook and wash clothes in addition to looking for a job, I was really deeply moved by her, I think such a beautiful girl will also do housework. It was so rare that I swore to treat her well for the rest of my life. But then a phone call shattered my seemingly beautiful dream.

One day, at three o'clock in the middle of the night, her phone rang because the room was not very soundproof. I crept up, just to hear what kind of person was calling her at this time, she might hear me next door talking very quietly, and the call was quickly hung up in a few minutes. I had the feeling that the guy on the phone must be a man. I went into the room and asked her, and I said to her, "Don't tell me, it was a woman who just called you," and she swore that it was a woman who called her, and I asked her what was wrong, and she didn't say.

The next day, I secretly took advantage of my girlfriend to go to the bathroom, and the phone was not locked, so I quickly checked the midnight call. Later I called over, and the other party was a very magnetic old man's voice. I asked him what his relationship was with my girlfriend and he said it was just a general friend relationship. I said you're a regular friend, do you have to contact you several times a week and still call at three in the morning? Infuriatingly, the man actually said very calmly, "It is very common to call in the middle of the night, we often discuss problems together, and I will teach her something." "Then we had a big fight over it.

Yuling explained, "He is my friend in Shanghai, he is in his 40s, his children are so big, he took good care of me when he was in Shanghai, and gave me a lot of help during my low period. "I asked her what important things had happened to her before. What is her low, she still does not say, then this time the matter is so over. Then I don't want to deny her because of a phone call, I want to continue to observe and observe, this is the shadow buried in my heart.

Since then, I will pay special attention to Yuling's phone calls and text messages, and what makes me even more helpless is that she often contacts several men at the same time.

Since then, we have fallen into endless quarrels, but there have been some other things in the middle, that is, I did not tell Yuling about my actual economic situation, cheated Yuling, this is my wrong, I said that buying a house before marriage may not work, I have not earned enough down payment, and when I quarreled, I also said something that seriously injured her.

Yuling began to completely despair of me and wanted to break up with me. I am a person with very single feelings, once invested, I can't extricate myself, and I can't bear the pain of losing her. In desperation, I called her mother. Wanting to seek her mother's help, Yuling's mother persuaded her to promise me another chance, but asked me to write a letter of guarantee that she would never spy on her again and never deceive him again.

After that, I still wrote ah, I don't want her to leave so pessimistically, I am not willing to this feeling. She's with me, never spends randomly, and is a very good family girl, so I'm willing to change myself.

People say what should I do? Will our relationship last?