"The wounded in love is always the deepest love"

Married for so many years, along the way found that whether it is a couple or a lover, more serious than the quarrel, in fact, after the quarrel, the mood difference between men and women, and the moment of the quarrel on each other's love examination, questioning, or a moment of cold heart, each other can clearly see through each other, recall all the unpleasantness between the two people, the picture in the mind continues to repeat the stage again and again, all the girls quarrel at night, nothing more than a mental and physical collision, emotions will experience a fall together, Like the eve of the storm, first angry, then sad, followed by inexplicable crying, not letting go of yourself all night, repeating words, nagging, a topic in their own mouths back and forth, a laugh and a cry, and do not have any communication with you, and many girls will have two extremes the next day, two performances, the first will be more angry and disappointed the next day, look at each other will feel nauseous and want to vomit, the second or experience a night of emotional venting, the next day may meet with a smile , bear the anger, suppress the emotions, in fact, two people can calmly face the love between the two people, regress each other, or say nothing, let the other party say first, the feelings will be more noisy as possible, each other can more clearly understand each other's ideas, and do not compromise on the language of the sneer, do not give in, stronger than each other, will make both people hurt, like a sentence, and women quarrel never lose the man, he must be a single dog, in fact, there is nothing respectful in love, very loving, harmonious, not noisy, not noisy, not noisy, In fact, life is chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, people eat grains, eat up to find something to do, will look at each other is not pleasing to the eye, but different things, some people can not control their emotions when quarrelling, violent, specially pick each other's weak ribs poke, specifically pick each other's words that do not like to hear, language violence and even beyond the flesh of the wound, such a quarrel is precisely the fatal wound of love, can not be healed, even if it is calm in the future, laughter, emotions are calm, which once quarreled when the words said, will also be like thorns, Continue to sting the depths of each other's hearts, but there are also people, he will be angry, will be angry, will run away, will have the impulse to beat you, will also have the idea of saying harsh words, but because they love you, afraid of losing you, they are afraid that you will be sad and sad, and they are more afraid that their evil words will make you discouraged, question their own vision, and follow the wrong person, so he is reluctant to say even a bad word to you, because he hurts more than you, and there will be many small things in love, or the few days when women come to do things, or the other party is wronged outside , nowhere to vent, have to be angry with the people you love the most, those innocuous quarrels, at best just a small fragment of life, people who love you will choose to forgive, tolerate you, do not exaggerate its existence, will not let the quarrel become a weapon to hurt you, people who really love you, have their own temper, have their own personality, their own life path, but only for you but there is nothing to do, try their best to give you a road, for this road he will not hesitate to give up a lot, just to walk with you all the way, Because everything is less important than you are in his heart, he cares more about you than quarrels, whether he eats, whether he is uncomfortable, whether he is drenched in rain, whether he wears a coat in the cold, because he can't see you hurt, he wants to protect you all the time, because he loves you, even if his mouth is full of blame, but his heart has always been gentle