The reason is true, but the husband and wife can not only let a person unconditionally unilaterally pay, or even blindly pay, and when doing things must take into account each other's feelings, if you accidentally do something to hurt each other, in the end I am afraid that the most hurt is yourself.
Seeing a similar thing on the post is arguably the best explanation for this truth. A woman who has been married for many years actually went out to drink with her husband and a number of strange men behind her back, and in order to deceive her husband, she made up lies such as going out to a party with her friends and accompanying her friends to fool her husband. At first, the husband did not think much about it, but just asked the wife to pay attention to personal safety.
But as the wife went out for more and more time, near midnight, the husband could no longer sit still, anxious to call his wife to know if there was an accident, it happened that at this time his wife actually took the initiative to call over, and said that he had arrived at "home".
Hearing what his wife said, her husband was momentarily confused, he was obviously at home waiting for her to return, why did she say that she had arrived home? Did she have any trouble? With this question, the husband dialed the phone of his wife's girlfriend, but the answer of the wife's girlfriend made the husband more confused.
The more he thought about it, the more confused the husband obviously began to get a little angry, thinking that the wife must have something to hide from him, so the husband could only hurry out to find his wife, and finally found his wife in front of a hotel.
When the husband saw his wife, she was already drunk and surrounded by four opposite sexes he did not know at all, at this time the wife was lying at the gate of the hotel like a pool of mud, surrounded by a circle of people watching the liveliness.
Seeing his wife lying on the ground unconscious, the husband was angry and annoyed, constantly pushing his wife, and kept scolding her. Seeing that his wife did not react at all, the husband was afraid that he was drugged by a strange man, so he directly took out his mobile phone and began to record: "The four of you men are my wife's 'girlfriends'?" Since you say it's her 'girlfriend', I'll send it online to show you if it's or not! ”
At this time, the four strange men saw the woman's husband scolding while recording, and ran far away without turning his head, afraid that his appearance would be exposed to the Internet. Seeing that the four men were running faster than rabbits, the woman's husband scolded even more vigorously: "There is a kind of don't run, you are so embarrassed to do it, are you embarrassed to admit it?" ”
In the end, the husband looked at his wife lying on the ground and really lost his temper, so he had to call his mother-in-law. The first is to let her give herself a witness, so that her wife will not wake up drunk and say that she has wronged her. The second is to let the mother-in-law see what the "good daughter" she taught with one hand looks like.
Trust between people is actually very fragile, especially between husband and wife, once a serious crisis of trust occurs, it is very difficult to save it. As long as it is the person who has failed the other party, it is difficult to gain the trust of the other party.
The woman in the text uses her husband's trust in herself, cheats on her husband at will, and casually wastes her husband's trust in her, and even hides her husband from going out to drink with four men, and also drinks herself drunk, without any regard for her identity as a wife, which is really undeserved.
As for whether the woman is really just ordinary friends with the four men, or whether the woman does have something to be sorry for her husband, we certainly can't guess without understanding it. However, her behavior of taking the trust given by her husband as a child's play is a very humiliating thing for her husband, not to mention the appearance of a few strange opposite sexes in front of the hotel at night, which makes things more unclear.
Although the old saying goes, "the ugliness of the family should not be publicized", but we think about it in reverse, "the depth of love, the responsibility" is not the best performance of the husband to the wife? If the husband is indifferent to his wife, or even ignores her, who will run out to find her at night?
Moreover, we put aside the problem of husband's practice, a married woman must pay attention to the balance between the two sexes when dealing with strange men, after all, she has been married to a woman, if the other party takes advantage of his own drunkenness, he has a misbehaving psychology towards himself, the most likely to suffer losses is himself, not only to face the accusations of the family, but also to be talked about by his neighbors, what is so bitter?
If the husband and wife really encounter any problems, the best way is to communicate frankly, "after all, ten years of repair to the same boat, a hundred years to repair the same pillow sleep", two strange men and women can come together is also a hard-won fate.
Summary: In the end, we still have to remind the majority of women that the heart of prevention is indispensable, you do not intend to harm people, but people's attitudes towards you, you may not all understand. If you really need to interact with some of the opposite sex regularly, remember to keep a good distance to avoid getting hurt yourself.