In ancient society, it was generally polygamous, at that time it was generally like one will marry home, although it is more married back, but their status is not like the main room, in our impression, the main room in the TV is generally not favored, generally some of the concubines are more favored, but there is a person, even if his own main room did not give birth to children for himself, he has always loved his own main room wife, he is Yan Xishan.
Yan Xishan was a relatively famous figure at that time, and her position in the Republic of China was relatively high status, she was born in a local landlord family that was still relatively wealthy, he began to study in the academy at the age of nine, when his study was relatively good, and then he was sent to Japan to study, but although he went to Japan to study, it still did not change his more traditional psychology.
Although Yan Xishan went abroad to study, but his marriage was chosen for him by his parents, that is, his wife Xu Zhuqing, at that time the two of them were two families who were right at the door, but Xu Zhuqing's age was six years older than him, but it seemed that the marriage of the eldest six years old was not very good, at that time they all felt that Yan Xishan would not agree to marry a wife who was six years older than yourself, and many people at that time felt that he would not agree, but Yan Xishan actually agreed, and the major officials at that time had their own concubines. However, Yan Xishan did not want to marry a concubine, and he and his wife had always been very affectionate, and the two had always been polite.
But the two of them became relatives for a long time could not give birth to a child, when his parents looked at the two of them have not had children, very anxious for them, his parents wanted Yan Xishan to find another concubine, so that they could give birth to children for themselves, continue to offspring, at that time Yan Xishan did not want to marry again, but at that time the parents' ideas he could not disobey, only to be able to remarry another, the name of this concubine is Xu Lansen.
Xu Lansen is more than ten years younger than Yan Xishan, she married him and gave birth to five sons, it is said that at this time Xu Lansen should be very pampered, but there is no such thing, Xu Lansen's children can not call themselves mothers, can only call themselves aunts, call his eldest wife is a mother, at that time Xu Lanqing's heart is also very painful, she just gave birth to him a child, now there is no status, his children can not call themselves mothers, every day in pain.
One day, his eldest wife and concubine were at home, Yan Xishan took the children out to play, when she came back, her son accidentally called a mother, Xu Lansen agreed, when Yan Xishan's eldest wife raised her hand to beat Xu Lansen, but Yan Xishan did not stop, did not say anything, Xu Lansen was very sad after seeing it, and instantly felt that he was really superfluous, completely sad.
Xu Lansen was bullied by them, even her own in-laws bullied her, so Xu Lansen was very depressed, often crying in the house, and eventually died of depression.
I have been paying all my life, even if I have a child, I have not been able to live a little better, which is really very tragic.
In the society at that time, it was like this, going to someone else's home may be a good life, it may also be miserable, it is really to see their own life, not the era when we want to separate now, and leave when we want to go.