When Yang Dai is mentioned, everyone will think of many praises: the most virtuous wife, the most talented woman, the best friend, the most loving mother... Fate has given her the role, and she has almost played the best style. She is gentle and compassionate, can see the warmth and coldness of human feelings, and her words are warm and restrained, and can penetrate life with one eye.
Reading Yang Chen's words is like listening to a philosopher tell the story of smoke and dust. Simple and clean, elegant and light, not deliberately sensational, but can touch people's hearts, is a kind of ideological enjoyment. In the midst of the chaos and dust, we also have anxiety, impetuousness, confusion, may wish to read Mr. Yang Dai's eight sentences, may be for you to clear the clouds, sweep away the haze.
Love is not a dinner party, it is two people who understand each other and fit each other.
—— Yang Dai's "Invisibility Cloak"
There is a line in "Glass Bottle": "When people are born, they are only half, and they walk in the world in order to find the other half." Some people are lucky and find it quickly, while others have to find it for a lifetime. ”
Therefore, when Qian Zhongshu met Yang Dai, he put away his sharp edge, clasped Yang Dai's hand and said, "Before I met you, I didn't think about getting married; after meeting you, I didn't think about getting married and didn't think about marrying someone else." "It began with love at first sight, fell into understanding and fit, and finally grew up in love."
Love is not a beautiful vow of sea dry stone, but a tacit understanding. The best tacit understanding is that someone understands your desire to stop and stop, and understands your unspoken meaning. Therefore, the best form of love is: death and life, with the son into the word; holding the hand of the son, with the son with the old age.
Feelings outside of marriage, you think you encounter medicine, in fact, may cost you life!
When people reach middle age, there is a disaster, not to eat coarse tea and light rice, but to love and not to love. You think that when you encounter an elixir, it is actually an anesthetic, maybe it is still crane top red, which may kill you. You know, you're not his exception, nor is it his preference. For if He is single-minded, how can he have you, and if He is affectionate, he will not be alone with you.
Marriage is a lifelong practice, just once. Love is a lifetime of persistence, hand in hand to the old is the most complete.
The world is human, can be read as a book, can be watched as a play.
—— Yang Dai, "Will Drink Tea"
The depictions in the books and the plays in the play, even if they are vivid, are only literary and artistic works; and the human condition is the expression of innocence and nature, and the existence of novelty and reality.
The world is hot and cold, people's hearts are fickle, all kinds of human feelings, a thousand emotions. Some people smile at you on the surface and stab you in the back; some people call you brothers and brothers in front of you, and in the blink of an eye, they talk about right and wrong. In this materialistic world, life is really hard enough. You have no quarrel with the world, honest and duty, people may laugh at and bully you; you are beautiful and charming, outstanding, people may be jealous and exclude you. You have to deal with them, and you have to be prepared to suffer losses at any time.
When we see the truth of human nature, please remain naïve, let nature take its course, and immerse yourself in being yourself. And whisk away the distractions of the world like a spider's web. And I am in the heart of the moon, the autumn water boils tea, and I love the fireworks of the world, which can be read as a book, and can be watched as a play. If you bloom, the breeze will come.
The quiet years are a moment, and a place of chicken feathers is daily.
—— Yang Dai, "The Two of Us"
We all hope that the days will be painless, painless, complaining, and quiet. And the real life, most of it is chai rice oil and salt and a place of chicken feathers. Life is the norm. The scenery is always proud, and the ups and downs are life.
When you see the impermanence, you will find that everything is just ordinary. When you understand the impermanence of life, you can cherish and treat well, every place chicken feather daily.
Let us practice a body of kung fu in the daily life of a chicken feather, so that we can learn to be indifferent in the panic situation. Even if the world seems thin and cool, the heart must be prosperous.
May the years be unharmed in this life, only warm words, no sadness. Isn't it for the sake of the moment when the years are quiet?
Take the path of good choice, don't choose the path of good walking.
Life is long, in fact, choice is often more important than hard work. What matters is not where you stand, but the direction you are heading. Sometimes, leaving doesn't mean failure, but rather a better start. Stick to the right, turn around and make the wrong. Fall on the right path, and don't run on the wrong road.
Whatever the heart desires, the past is followed; life is like a reverse brigade, and a reed is a voyage.
Those so-called bottomless abysses are also miles away. Take the path of good choice, don't choose the path of good walking, you can have your true self.
The world is its own and has nothing to do with anyone else.
—— Yang Dai's "One Hundred Years Testimonial"
Life is like a drama, we all have our own scripts, such as people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge. Some people tend to copy the lives of others, some people bend over backwards to please others, and some people plead bitterly and still cannot be saved.
You have to understand that standing up on your own is not the same thing as standing up on your own. You have to get used to it, anyone's hot and cold, but also look down, anyone's gradual drift away.
And what we have to do is to start from this moment: not to be confused in the heart, not to be trapped in feelings, not to fear the future, not to read the past. For, to live here, not elsewhere; in your heart, not in the eyes of others.
Don't live in the eyes of others, there are a thousand kinds of appearances in the world, and none of them are as good as your faithfulness to yourself.
May your inner mountains and rivers be magnificent, and always believe that the world is worth it.
In the past two years, the epidemic has not ended. Nucleic acids, green codes, restrictions, isolation, the cycle continues, and there seems to be no end. But we must believe that over the mountains, through the thorns, one day, the winter is gone, the galaxy is long.
This mountain and river is beautiful, the world is worth it, may you grow wings and see the tenderness of this world.
The books you have read, the people you have met, and the things you have carried make up your own life pattern.
Guan Yang Chen's life is full of ups and downs and twists and turns. In the first half of her life, she experienced the plight of war and famine; in the second half of her life, she was full of the loneliness of life and death. Life has dealt her a series of heavy blows, but she has always calmly fought back. Her open-mindedness is inseparable from the books she has read, the people she has met, and the things she has carried.
If you read a book, you can experience a thousand kinds of life. Without reading, there is and only one life. Walking with good people, working with reliable people, and getting along with people who understand you will go further.
The paths you have traveled, the people you have met, and the things you have experienced have increased your horizons and strengthened your faith.
Life is alive, no one is smooth sailing. Some words are good to hear, and there is no need to take them seriously; some things are good to know, and there is no need to say them; some people see them clearly and do not have to be debunked.
Wind and rain life, learn to hold an umbrella for yourself; in a difficult situation, insist on planting flowers for yourself. May everyone, in the midst of the complexity of the world, have a big picture in mind and live a good little life. May everyone live a steaming and sparkling life in the ups and downs of the world.
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Source: Nanzan Qi qinuo
Author: Ten O'Clock Invited Author
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