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Milk tea Liu Ruoying: The failure to remarry divorced parents, the death of her father hurt her and her mother's heart 010203

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Milk tea Liu Ruoying: The failure to remarry divorced parents, the death of her father hurt her and her mother's heart 010203

Rene Liu

Rene Liu is a famous singer, actress, director, writer, and can be called an all-round talent. Songs such as "Crazy for Love", "Later", and "A Lifetime of Loneliness" sung by her have been widely sung. She has also starred in many film and television works such as "Pink Girl", "No Thief in the World", "Little Girl Fishing", "Sunset Forbidden City", "April Day on Earth", "Mother Living in the Cross" and many other film and television works, and won the Best Actress Award of the 28th Popular Film "Hundred Flowers Award" and the Best Supporting Actress Award of the 22nd Hong Kong Film "Academy Awards".

Rene Liu's parents divorced when she was two years old, and her parents remarried separately. A few years later, their parents were both divorced and single, and now their parents are old, because of Rene Liu, they have become lonely relatives. The years that Rene Liu and her divorced parents have gone through are soaked with love and tears...

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Milk tea Liu Ruoying: The failure to remarry divorced parents, the death of her father hurt her and her mother's heart 010203

Rene Liu and Grandpa

Liu Ruoying's ancestral home is Liling County, Hunan Province (later changed to Liling City), and his grandfather Liu Yongyao was born in Liling, Hunan in 1909, graduated from Yueyun Middle School, and was later admitted to the first phase of the Whampoa Military Academy. In 1925, Liu Yongyao went to Moscow to study at Sun Yat-sen University, participated in the Eastern Crusade and the War of Resistance Against Japan, and was a four-star general in the Army of the Republic of China, enjoying the reputation of "Confucian General". In 1998, Liu Yongyao died of illness in Taiwan.

Rene Liu was born in 1969 in Taipei, Taiwan Province, China, to a former military father and two daughters to Shulan, a South Korean overseas Chinese mother. Liu Ruoying has an older sister named Liu Ruoyu. Rene Liu's father is humorous and romantic, a literary and artistic youth, and his mother has a habit of cleanliness and pursues perfection in everything.

The life story of my parents is a book, thick and a little bitter. They are free love and have written hundreds of love letters. The mother Chinese badly, and every time there is a typo in the love letter, the father will correct it with a red pen, and then send the love letter back to the mother.

Milk tea Liu Ruoying: The failure to remarry divorced parents, the death of her father hurt her and her mother's heart 010203

Childhood Rene Liu

At that time, my father's office was not far from home, and it was only a 5-minute walk. At noon, my father went home to eat and rest, and my mother wanted to help Liu Ruoyu and her sister take a bath. In order not to let the sound of the rushing water affect my father, my mother first put a towel in the bathtub and then wrapped the faucet with a towel.

After giving Rene Liu and her sister a bath, her mother would take the sisters to a nearby park for an hour or two, until their father woke up from a nap and went to work.

The mother has a cleaning habit, the father comes home from work and is reluctant to take off his shoes, so she did not let her husband change the habits he had developed over the years, so she spread a towel along the floor of the husband from the door to the room to avoid the shoes from staining the floor.

When Rene Liu was not yet born, her father retired from the army and opened a writer's café in Taipei with the resettlement fee. His father loved literature, often did not accept money from friends, and the coffee house closed down after only half a year.

Milk tea Liu Ruoying: The failure to remarry divorced parents, the death of her father hurt her and her mother's heart 010203

Early years of Rene Liu

Milk tea Liu Ruoying: The failure to remarry divorced parents, the death of her father hurt her and her mother's heart 010203

Rene Liu , left , 13 , with her sister

Immediately after, my father opened a film company, wrote his own script, raised his own financing to shoot the film "Don't Dare to Tell You", starring the famous actress Gui Yalei. At that time, her mother was already pregnant with Rene Liu, and she ran for her father with a big belly. However, for various reasons, the film was not released, and the money invested by my father was lost.

Fathers and mothers have very different personalities, and their hobbies, pursuits, and life concepts are also very different, but they have never quarreled after marriage, and they have not even said anything serious to each other. Their respect for each other is like a guest being talked about by the people around them, in fact, the couple who really love each other will quarrel and vent their dissatisfaction with each other.

Fathers and mothers must have grievances in their hearts, and there must be words that they want to say but do not say. Negative emotions accumulate to a certain extent, and divorce becomes the only ending.

In 1971, when Rene Liu was two years old, her parents divorced peacefully and amicably. Everyone around them was puzzled: they had never quarreled, they had never had a conflict, why did they get divorced? It's just that they don't know that without quarrels and frictions, the two hearts will become colder and farther away.

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Milk tea Liu Ruoying: The failure to remarry divorced parents, the death of her father hurt her and her mother's heart 010203

After the divorce, Rene Liu lived with her mother, and her sister sentenced her father. Because her mother went out to work, Rene Liu grew up with her grandparents. Grandma is everyone's bridesmaid, knowledgeable, very educated, she does not wear stockings, do not go out, attend important parties, Grandma must wear a cheongsam.

When Rene Liu was very young, her grandmother taught her to read, practice calligraphy, play the piano, and cultivate her elegant ladylike temperament. When Rene Liu was 5 years old, her father remarried, and soon her mother had a new family. Rene Liu lives with her grandparents, rarely intervenes in her parents' new family, and only meets with the other half of the other party once during the New Year's Holiday.

The stepmother once quietly told Rene Liu: "Your mother thinks that you are a nemesis, because of your birth, she divorced your father." "This is a huge harm to Rene Liu's young heart, and it is a shadow in her growing years."

Milk tea Liu Ruoying: The failure to remarry divorced parents, the death of her father hurt her and her mother's heart 010203

Rene Liu's "April Day on Earth" stills

But until she became an adult, Rene Liu did not confirm this sentence to her mother. Having had emotional experiences, she understood that this was just a struggle between women. It's just that her parents' respective remarriage lives are not complete, when she went to middle school, her father divorced again, and then her mother also divorced, and her parents both became single.

Because of the involvement of Liu Ruoying and her sister, her parents often meet, talk and laugh, and there is no half a trace of disgust. So Rene Liu had the idea of matching her parents' remarriage.

Rene Liu first asked her mother, "Would you like to live with your father again?" The mother said, "It depends on your father's attitude." Rene Liu asked her father the same question, and his father's answer was basically the same.

Rene Liu created an opportunity to pinch her parents together: the three of them went out to watch movies, went to the restaurant to eat together, and let their parents accompany them to record songs in the recording studio.

Milk tea Liu Ruoying: The failure to remarry divorced parents, the death of her father hurt her and her mother's heart 010203
Milk tea Liu Ruoying: The failure to remarry divorced parents, the death of her father hurt her and her mother's heart 010203

Stills from Rene Liu and Wang Baoqiang's "No Thief in the World"

The parents got along very well, but there was no progress in the relationship. In 1987, when Rene Liu was in high school, her mother said to her: "Your father and I are not suitable for being husband and wife, it is better to be friends, and now this mode of getting along is the most comfortable." ”

With a father and a mother, Liu Reuying always felt fragmented and unspeakable sadness welled up in her heart. Years later, Rene Liu got married and realized that marriage is not simply one plus one equals two. Parents may have been a beautiful mistake in the first union, they are not suitable for being husband and wife, only suitable for being relatives and friends.

Although the parents do not remarry, because they have two daughters as a bond, they also frequently intersect in life. The father's ability to take care of himself is not strong, and it is very difficult to live alone.

Once, when Rene Liu was filming in Guangzhou, her father said that the faucet was broken, and he couldn't get it right. Her mother had strong hands-on ability, so Rene Liu called her mother. The mother, wearing shorts, rushed to her father's house with a kit. She put on her reading glasses, took the wrench pliers, and without saying a word, fixed the faucet.

Milk tea Liu Ruoying: The failure to remarry divorced parents, the death of her father hurt her and her mother's heart 010203
Milk tea Liu Ruoying: The failure to remarry divorced parents, the death of her father hurt her and her mother's heart 010203

Rene Liu with her father

Then she cleaned the tank and wiped the floor spotlessly. The father said movingly, "Shulan, thank you." The mother smiled lightly: "Nothing, we have a common daughter, I can't let my daughter worry about you." ”

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After Liu Reuying returned to Taipei after filming, she went to see her mother with her sister. Rene Liu called her father to come over to dinner, and her father rushed over, and after 4 people made meals at home, they ate together.

Rene Liu suddenly had a hint of sadness, how good it would be if her parents didn't divorce! However, she understands that her parents have come this far and cannot go back to the past.

After experiencing emotional setbacks, Rene Liu understood her father and mother more and more, and hurt them more and more, and she divided filial piety equally into two parts, so that parents could enjoy the same warmth and care.

Milk tea Liu Ruoying: The failure to remarry divorced parents, the death of her father hurt her and her mother's heart 010203
Milk tea Liu Ruoying: The failure to remarry divorced parents, the death of her father hurt her and her mother's heart 010203

Rene Liu and Zhong Xiaojiang

She gave her parents the same living expenses, bought them gifts of similar value, and took them on many trips. When her parents enjoyed Rene Liu's filial piety, they also kept their hearts on her personal problems.

In August 2011, Rene Liu started a family with Zhong Xiaojiang, a Beijing-based business elite, and left Taipei to settle in Beijing. Before getting married, her mother told her: "Run the marriage well, and don't let your parents' affairs affect you." His father also warned Liu Ruoying: "Women should not be too tough, or it is better to be soft." ”

The parents themselves are emotionally troubled and especially hope that their daughter will be happy. Liu Reuying kept in mind the teachings of her parents, and her marriage with Zhong Xiaojiang was always harmonious and stable.

Although she is far away from her parents, Rene Liu's concern for them has never stopped, and filial piety has never been absent. She wasn't around, and she wanted her parents to take care of each other.

Milk tea Liu Ruoying: The failure to remarry divorced parents, the death of her father hurt her and her mother's heart 010203

In order not to worry the daughter, the parents get along like relatives and like brothers and sisters. When my mother made vegetable salad, she would also make a portion for my father. When her mother was sick, her father would take her to the hospital. Every once in a while, my mother would go to my father's house to clean up and help him wash his clothes.

When Rene Liu returned to Taipei, she would invite her parents to reunite; when her parents came to Beijing, Rene Liu did not let them stagger the time, but let the two come together.

In January 2015, Rene Liu gave birth to her son by caesarean section in Taipei, and her parents accompanied her to confinement and helped her take care of the baby. When my father returned from purchasing from outside, my mother was busy cooking for Rene Liu to cook confinement meals. Watching her parents busy for themselves, Rene Liu has a feeling of going back in time. They are not husband and wife, but they have two daughters, married because they love each other, and broke up because they understand, but there is no resentment and hatred in their hearts, and some are just strong family affection. Unconsciously, Rene Liu's eyes were moist.

Milk tea Liu Ruoying: The failure to remarry divorced parents, the death of her father hurt her and her mother's heart 010203

Rene Liu with her mother

In August 2020, Rene Liu's father died in Taipei due to illness at the age of 92. Before leaving, the father tearfully said to his mother: "Shulan, I am sorry for you, but I want to thank you." Then the father said to Liu Ruoying with difficulty: "Your mother is not easy, and you still have to love her well after I leave." He said his father's eyes filled with tears. Rene Liu and her mother were also in tears.

Bidding farewell to her father, her mother suddenly looked old, she suffered from vertigo, and the skin on her hands and feet began to shrink. Liu Ruoying knows that the death of her father is still a great blow to her mother, although her parents have not remarried, but in the decades of life, they have long been precipitated into relatives.

After that, Rene Liu put down her work and focused her time and energy on her mother. When her father is gone, she wants to minimize the damage that grief and aging bring to her mother.

Milk tea Liu Ruoying: The failure to remarry divorced parents, the death of her father hurt her and her mother's heart 010203

In September 2021, when Rene Liu was frying Chinese medicine for her mother, her mother asked her: "I did not remarry your father, will you blame us?" Rene Liu said: "When I was young, I had entanglements, and later I understood you and my father. Over the years, I am content to see that you and your father have not become enemies like other divorced couples, and have not interacted with each other, but have loved each other like relatives! ”

Saying that Liu Ruoying choked up, two lines of tears also poured out of her mother's eyes...

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