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Back then, the 31-year-old billionaire Zhong Xiaojiang fell in love with 41-year-old Liu Ruoying at first sight. After the two were together, Liu Ruoying proposed to only get married in different rooms, but she didn't expect Zhong Xiaojiang to answer like this.
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When it comes to the name Rene Liu, we generally think of her songs, such as her masterpieces "Later", "Fulfillment", "Crazy for Love", etc., as soon as the concert starts, these classic tracks must be sung, which has caused many audiences to cry emotionally.
Fans who follow her will also notice that in fact, Liu Ruoying has multiple identities, she is not only a singer, but also an actor and songwriter, a standard literary young woman, she loves reading, writing, sports, and pursues inner peace and beauty.
Of course, she is also loved by a lot of idols, in addition to paying attention to her career, she is even more fascinated by Liu Ruoying's married life of "separated and not yet separated".
Born in 1970 in Taipei, Taiwan Province, in a wealthy family, Rene Liu lived with her grandparents after her parents divorced when she was 2 years old.
And his grandfather was a soldier, and for safety reasons, he rarely let Liu Ruoying go out alone.
Liu Ruoying, who has stayed at home for a long time, has developed the habit of whimsical writing creativity and solitude.
When she was a child, Liu Ruoying loved to hum a few songs, and unintentionally, her grandfather discovered her musical talent and sent her to a training center to learn music and piano.
This study is more than 10 years.
After becoming an adult, Liu Ruoying went to California State University in the United States to continue her studies, and returned to China after graduation and successfully entered the entertainment industry.
With the deepening of the work, the number of places to socialize increased, and at a friend's drinking party, Liu Ruoying met the wealthy Zhong Xiaojiang.
When they met for the first time, although Liu Ruoying was dressed plainly, Zhong Xiaojiang was deeply attracted by the literary and artistic atmosphere she exuded.
Zhong Xiaojiang's careful thinking was noticed by the director at the same table, and took the initiative to be a matchmaker for them.
Under the guidance of the director, the two gradually became acquainted.
Once, in the scorching heat, the two of them made an appointment to meet in a tea restaurant, and as soon as they sat down, Liu Ruoying ordered a glass of chilled lemonade, while Zhong Xiaojiang was unhurried, took out the thermos cup from his bag, opened the bottle cap, and a stream of heat lingered out.
Liu Ruoying asked puzzledly: On such a hot day, isn't it better to drink ice water to quench your thirst?
Zhong Xiaojiang replied that women who drink a lot of ice water are not only prone to gastrointestinal diseases, but also easy to induce and aggravate menstrual cramps.
In traditional Chinese medicine, boiled water is called Yang Shui, in which boiling water is poured into the cup while the lid is sealed, and then the water vapor rises and condenses into water droplets. It can be called Yang Returning Water, which has the function of protecting the kidney.
Liu Ruoying was skeptical, Zhong Xiaojiang suggested that Liu Ruoying go back and try it, find a thermos cup to pour boiling water into it and cover it before going to bed, and then pour a glass of water into an ordinary cup.
Wait until you wake up the next day and taste the two glasses of water to see if they're the same.
As Zhong Xiaojiang said, the taste of the two glasses of water is indeed different, and as the conversation deepened, Liu Ruoying gradually realized that she had adhered to the health regimen she had adhered to for many years, and there were many mistakes.
At the same time, he also realized that Zhong Xiaojiang was not only a successful businessman, but also a son from a family of traditional Chinese medicine with a strong interest in traditional medicine.
not only increased his affection for Zhong Xiaojiang by another point, but soon the two confirmed their relationship.
When the two made their relationship public, Zhong Xiaojiang was opposed by his friends, who advised him to consider it carefully, after all, the age difference between the two is 10 years old, there is a generation gap, and it is not suitable to live together.
And contrary to everyone's expectations, Zhong Xiaojiang not only firmly chose to hold Liu Ruoying's hand, but also married her.
Before getting married in 2011, Liu Ruoying put forward three unconventional conditions: not to engage in housework, not to become a full-time wife, and to sleep in separate rooms after marriage.
In the face of this harsh request, Zhong Xiaojiang not only had no doubts, but agreed without hesitation.
When Zhong's mother found out, she trembled with anger, and asked Zhong Xiaojiang sternly, even agreed to this condition, are you stupid, don't you want children?
And Zhong Xiaojiang said calmly: Liu Ruoying likes to be alone, loves freedom, I love her, I have to tolerate her needs, and the child can take his time.
After marriage, Rene Liu became busier.
Once when recording a song, due to long-term fatigue, he fainted with a fever, and his colleague hurriedly called Zhong Xiaojiang, and when Zhong Xiaojiang arrived, Liu Ruoying had already woken up, and in turn comforted Zhong Xiaojiang, don't worry, he is fine.
Another time, Liu Ruoying was sick, she was used to being alone, and she was afraid that it would affect Zhong Xiaojiang's work, so she went to the hospital by herself to see a doctor, and Zhong Xiaojiang learned about the situation through her assistant.
Hurried to the hospital and blamed Liu Ruoying distressedly: You are now a person with a husband, you can tell me if you have something, and I will help deal with it.
In this way, after seeing a doctor, the two people talked a lot openly and honestly, which further deepened the trust between each other, and the relationship between the two people also took a big step forward.
Fortunately, on the afternoon of September 9, 2014, Liu Ruoying uploaded a photo with Zhong Xiaojiang on Weibo and announced her pregnancy.
Liu Ruoying, who was 45 years old at the time, was already an advanced maternal age, to be precise, she risked her life to give birth to this son for Zhong Xiaojiang.
Now more than 10 years have passed, although the mode of getting along is different, but it has not affected the relationship between the two people.
Liu Ruoying once revealed the way two people get along in the book "I Dare to Be Lonely in Your Arms".
They went out together, but they each chose a different movie theater to enjoy their own movies.
After watching the movie, they returned home together, and then walked to their separate bedrooms and study rooms left and right.
Although they have their own spaces, the kitchen and dining room are their shared living spaces.
In fact, the same room is not the only criterion for measuring the relationship between husband and wife. Love and marriage, like the cycle of the four seasons, each has its own color and temperature.
Having sex is a melody in the life of a couple, but it is not all. Sometimes, the heart-to-heart touch the heart more than physical contact.
A way like Liu Ruoying and his wife get along independently and respect each other is not another kind of happiness.
Remember, true happiness is not in sharing the same room, but in whether we are willing to work for each other's happiness.
May every couple find their own way to happiness.
I also wish Liu Ruoying a smooth sailing and eternal love on the road of life in the future.
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Introduction: Zhang Ping, psychological counselor, marriage and family counselor, well-known emotional self-media person. I have wine, do you have a story?