The lower the level of women, the more they love to send this circle of friends
In modern society, social development is getting faster and faster, and it is changing with each passing day.
In the ancient times, we used the form of diaries to record our daily lives and life feelings.
Later, I used the buckle to express the dynamic to commemorate the past and commemorate every day in our lives that made us deeply touched.
Nowadays, most people are accustomed to using WeChat, and they can usually send messages and contact feelings with friends. You can also post stories in the circle of friends and share your life.
Originally, the circle of friends was an important tool that could be used to share daily life and record the trajectory of life, but it was turned into an emotional recycling station, a vanity and a show-off field, and a secret base station by some people.
It is used by some women with strong vanity, strong negative energy, or unreasonable temperament to promote negative emotions and cause negative effects on society.
The lower the level of women, the more they love to send this circle of friends.
01. Show off your strengths
In everyone's heart, there will be some love for vanity, eager to be praised and admired. There was nothing wrong with that.
Moderate vanity can inspire people's fighting spirit and encourage people to make continuous progress. But excessive vanity will only lose people's minds and make people go to an extreme path.
In order to satisfy their inflated vanity, they show off themselves everywhere, trying to attract the envious eyes of others and gain praise from others.
Most of the women who are keen to "bask in happiness" in the circle of friends are mostly to satisfy their vanity and want to enjoy a sense of superiority that is highly anticipated.
They flaunt what they have, show off their wealthy families, show off their assets, show off their honors, in short, show off the capital or personal advantages that can be envied.
I don't know, their vain and high-profile behavior, not only will not get the sincere envy of others, but also attract some strange eyes for themselves, the disgust of others.
What really makes people envious and respected from the heart are often those women who are both powerful but low-key and humble, and those who are obviously extremely excellent but never high-profile and ostentatious.
If you are good enough, then you don't have to show off deliberately, deliberately flaunt, people will naturally see your dazzling light and admire your low-key character.
Truly excellent women never deliberately send circles of friends who show off their advantages.
Because, good women don't have time to show off themselves, they're busy getting better. They also have a higher level of thought, disdain for comparison with others, and do not care about the admiring eyes of others.
Women at a high level pay more attention to their own inner happiness, pay more attention to the improvement of their own abilities, and never care about the eyes and evaluation of others. Because, they know very well, people live for themselves, not for others.
02. Complain about life's encounters
Everyone's life cannot be smooth. Experiencing setbacks is the norm in life. Through the wind and rain, you can see the brilliant rainbow.
Those pessimistic women will always see only the bad side of life, either complaining about others or self-pity.
When you have an argument with someone, or suffer some grievances, you can't wait to send a circle of friends, restore the course of the incident, vent your dissatisfaction, and want to get the understanding and comfort of others.
As a result, you may not be able to get the comfort of sympathy from others, and you may also attract disdainful eyes for yourself and be ridiculed by some people with dark psychology.
In life, everyone will have a time of wrongs. But if we look at the problem from another angle, we will find that it is these sufferings and setbacks that stimulate our potential and make our hearts stronger.
If you don't experience wind and rain, where can you see a rainbow? If you have not experienced a tearful moment, who will know how to cherish the sweet time in the future?
Women at a high level, even if they encounter things that make themselves lost and sad, will only silently digest negative emotions, grow up cold and warm, show their sunny and positive side in front of everyone, and never express pessimistic circles of friends.
03. Divulge the secrets of others
In everyone's heart, there are some secrets that are not known. There are both their own secrets and the secrets of friends or loved ones.
Whether it is a friend or a relative, when conveying your secret to you, they will repeatedly tell you not to tell others.
Acquaintances are willing to share their secrets with you, in fact, out of trust in you, recognition of your character, feel that you are reliable, and will communicate with you.
Originally, in any case, we had to keep secrets for others, which was a kind of love and a commitment.
However, some low-level women will publish the circle of friends to reveal the secrets of acquaintances when they have disputes or conflicts with the owner of the secret.
Such behavior, first of all, betrays a friend, betrays the well-intentioned trust of others, and secondly breaks a promise and fails to keep the promise he made.
Such a misbehaving woman, the level is also low, only her own selfish desires in her eyes, only concerned about her own temporary happiness, and choose to divulge the secrets of her friends.
In the long run, it will only make friends more and more alienated from themselves, let their popularity become worse and worse, and finally end up with a rebellious end.
Those high-level women know how to keep their mouths shut, never easily divulge the secrets of acquaintances, never betray their friends at will, and never easily break their promises.
Such a high-level woman, reasonable, keep promises, good character, large pattern, no matter where you go, will be liked by the audience, and the popularity will not be bad.
Emotional Message:
A woman's behavior can reflect her cultivation, her level.
The lower the level of a woman, the more she loves to send these three kinds of circles of friends.
She loves to show off her advantages in the circle of friends, love to complain about life encounters, love to leak other people's secrets.
In fact, from these three circles of friends, you can clearly see her character and quality. Such a woman is too vain, pessimistic, and does not keep her feelings and commitments.
In the end, it will only slander their own reputation and ruin their popularity.
May you become a high-level woman, a circle of friends with positive energy, work hard to love life, love the world, and be an excellent woman who is full of praise and admiration.
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