The most unpredictable thing in this world is the human heart.
No matter how good the surface is, the heart may not be good.
In addition to the parents and family,
There are a lot of people who can't see you well,
I don't want you to be happy.
The greatest evil of human nature,
It is not good to see others.
I have to admit,
I can't see you well, not an outsider,
It's often these four acquaintances!
1. Snobbish relatives
Snobby-eyed relatives,
The most important thing is that you can't live better than him.
If you are better than him,
He will be resentful in his heart.
Talking to your face, all holding guns with sticks,
Obviously praised, but the words were sarcastic.
especially
When he asks you for help or errands,
If you reject him,
What awaits you will be endless wind and cool words.
Even in front of others,
Preach that when you are rich, you forget your poor relatives,
Denigrate you, discredit you.
Similarly,
Such relatives also look down on those who are inferior to him,
Keep your distance when you meet!
2. Vain friends
There is a kind of friend hypocrisy,
To get along with you is to show off,
Satisfy your own vanity.
If you're better off than him,
He was uncomfortable, unbalanced,
It will hurt you secretly and cause you trouble.
Such a friend, ruthless and unrighteous,
Vanity is too strong, the most afraid of you is better than him.
On the surface, it is sincere to you, and in the heart it makes you jealous.
Stay away early, otherwise it will not be beneficial to yourself.
3. Hypocritical colleagues
Knowing the face of the person, knowing the heart,
Some people are the most inconsistent.
Smiling faces on the surface,
There is calculation in the heart.
In your mouth, you are called brother and brother,
Behind the scenes, there is intrigue and trickery.
Have you ever met a colleague like this?
sometimes
It's about your chances of promotion,
and your plans for the future,
Don't say it with a big grin.
Lest you sometimes be taken first,
Take your chance, steal your chance.
Colleagues are competitive,
If you are not a particularly good friend,
Don't be silly with people and pluck out your lungs,
Give people the opportunity to count you out.
4. Former classmates
Classmate affection, established when on campus,
At that time, I was young and naïve, and the feelings of my classmates were very simple.
But after graduation, I entered the society,
Different experiences, different careers,
Slowly, the feelings changed.
Especially some of my classmates,
I used to have a good relationship with you,
Once you know that you are better off than him,
He was unwilling and secretly jealous.
Such a classmate, the heart is not right,
Think of the same school, a starting point,
Why can you be better off than him?
If they are dissatisfied, they will be bad,
If you find out, cut off the contact as soon as possible.
The complex human heart cannot be seen through,
Knowing the face knows the face and does not know the heart.
In real life,
Strangers will never be jealous of you,
On the contrary, the most familiar people can't see you well.
So be sure to keep an eye on it and know how to be defensive,
Wealth is not exposed, low-key people,
In order to avoid jealous people counting on you.
If you have the above four kinds of people around you,
Stay away decisively and keep your distance!