People with personality. A person seems to have a personality because he always follows his own temperament in doing things, rather than following principles.
Calmness of action. Waterfalls become soothing and ethereal as they fall, and doers turn intense longings into utter calmness when they act.
It's better to be simple. If thoroughly understood, it is difficult to be loyal. Because the deeper you understand, the more you will be exposed to the dark side.
Idealist misconceptions. Idealists fantasize that they are engaged in the greatest cause under the heavens, and they do not want to believe that the growth of their own cause also needs the foul-smelling manure necessary for other undertakings.
Noble sentiments. Noble sentiments are largely composed of kindness and credulity, which is what greedy and successful people despise and despise.
Destinations and roads. Many people will stick to the path they have already taken, but they rarely insist on their destination.
Maverick is an offensive place. Mavericks are always repulsive because their distinctive ways make those around them feel inferior.
The privilege of celebrities. Bringing supreme joy through insignificant gifts is the prerogative of celebrities.
Casual nobility. Those who are accustomed to giving rather than taking have an inadvertent nobility.
Friend. Sharing joy rather than compassion makes people friends.
Take advantage of highs and lows. In order to gain knowledge, we must learn to use the inner tides to bring ourselves close to one thing, and after a period of time, withdraw from that thing.
Love yourself. People often say "love career", in fact, love yourself, "love career" is only the expression of "love yourself".
The most elegant hypocrite. Not talking about oneself at all is a form of elegant hypocrisy.
Step into nature. We love to walk into nature because it never judges us.
To be great means to point the way. No river is great and full on its own, and it is great to be able to absorb many direct currents and lead them forward. The same is true for people. The key is to be able to point out a direction that everyone follows, and it does not matter whether he himself has enough talent.
Ask to be loved. Asking others to love yourself is the greatest arrogance.
Contempt for others. The most obvious sign of contempt for others is to tolerate others only for their own purposes.
Fear of exposure. Good deeds are just as afraid of exposure as evil deeds. The latter fears that exposure will cause pain (as punishment); the former fears that exposure will make happiness (pure pleasure ends once it is mixed with the satisfaction of vanity).
Tyrant genius. If the soul churns up an irrepressible desire to establish its absolute authority and maintains this fanaticism all the time, then even a non-negotiable talent (in politicians or artists) can evolve into an almost irresistible force of nature.
The value of obnoxious opponents. Sometimes we remain loyal to a cause simply because those who oppose it always annoy us.
The embodiment of the spirit. If a person thinks intelligently on a regular basis, his face and body will also look smart.
disdain. Often, people are more sensitive to contempt from others than to contempt from themselves.
Don't ask for a solution. People who can only speak a little foreign language are more happy than those who speak well in foreign languages, and pleasure and non-understanding are very happy.
Lack of friends. The lack of friends is usually due to being jealous and arrogant. Many people have friends just lucky because there is no reason to be jealous.
Easily concede. If one can convince oneself to hate the past, one will no longer be tormented by unfulfilled wishes.
In danger. We were the most vulnerable to being hit by a car when we had just dodged it.
confession. After repentance, we forget our sins, but those who listen to them remember.
The dangers of seeking medical attention. People either live because of doctors or die because of doctors.
Magical vanity. People who accurately predict the weather three times will be more or less superstitious about their superstitious talents. Once vanity is satisfied, we no longer argue whether it's a gift or a coincidence.
occupation. Occupation is the backbone of life.
The dangers of personal impact. The person who feels that he has a great influence on others must give the other party full freedom, and should show support or even encouragement for the occasional resistance of the other party, otherwise he will inevitably become the enemy of that person.
Let the successor get what he deserves. People who have a selfless mind and create great careers will cultivate successors with their hearts. Seeing the shadow of an opponent in all possible successors and being strictly guarded against them is a sign of full-time and despicable.
Smattering. Half-understanding is more popular than thorough understanding: things are simplified in the half-informed, resulting in more understandable and convincing perspectives.
The hour hand of life. There are rare, isolated, but meaningful moments in life, and countless intervals. The best intervals are nothing more than the aftertaste of those moments. Love, spring light, beautiful melody, mountains, moonlight, sea, all this has only one chance to speak freely with the heart, if such an opportunity does exist, because many people have never experienced such a moment, they are themselves in the intervals and intermissions of the symphony of life.
humility. True humility (i.e., understanding that we are not our own creators) is there, and it is very suitable for the big man, because he knows best that he has no merit (no matter how much he has contributed). The ego of the big man is abominable not because he is experiencing his own power, but because he always treats others by hurting and being arbitrary in doing so, or testing the bottom line of the other person's endurance. Usually this only proves his lack of confidence in his own strength, but it makes people question his greatness. Therefore, wise people should try to avoid conceit.
The Path of Ancestors. It makes sense to develop the skills of your ancestors rather than start a new one. Otherwise, the possibility of perfection in a certain skill is lost. So people often say: which way to go? - Take the path that your ancestors have walked.
The Age of Arrogance. The age of arrogance for talented people arrives between the ages of 26 and 30. This is the first period of human maturity, and it also has a heavy green and astringent taste. People in this person's period often demand respect and humility from those who do not know much or know nothing about their talents, based on their own feelings. ...... Experienced elders often smile at this and reminisce about this good time with great feelings. People in this period always feel that they are being overused. Maybe he did make a difference later, but that kind of unbeatable confidence is gone, unless this person has been an uncompromising clown driven by vanity all his life.
Love and respect. Love makes people long; fear makes people avoid. That's why we can't love and respect the same person at the same time. To respect a man and to acknowledge his authority is to fear him: it is a feeling of awe. But love does not recognize authority and does not accept any distinction, such as the superiority of status. Because being loved means not being respected, ambitions hesitate in the face of love, either publicly or privately.
Preference for the indifferent. People who are emotionally hot are also cold, so they are generally unreliable. Because those who have always shown indifference are instead favored and considered reliable and trustworthy. In effect, this is confusing them with those who are slow and can maintain heat for a long time.
Philosophical mindset. People always strive to maintain the same emotional positions and perspectives in the face of changeable life circumstances and events, which we call philosophical mindsets. But instead of maintaining our own unity, we should listen to whispers from different life situations and different perspectives to enrich our experience. By rejecting being rigid, unchanging, and isolated individuals, we recognize and share the lives and qualities of all sentient beings.