In today's view, the meaning of the idiom "everyone can be husband" is undoubtedly to say that a woman can be her husband no matter what kind of person, indicating that this woman is very casual and has no moral integrity, so we often use this word today to belittle some women who do not observe women's morality.
When we use these idioms, we always like to explore the story behind the idiom, so in what historical context did the idiom "do everything in one's life" come about? Who is the heroine of the word, and what does the idiom mean in the first place?
The sacrifice of power to the opposition
Gong Zhong was a powerful courtier during the Spring and Autumn Period of the little overlord Zheng Zhuang, he assisted Zheng Zhuang Gong to achieve many achievements, was recognized and trusted by Zheng Zhuang Gong, was entrusted with heavy responsibilities, after the death of Zheng Zhuang Gong, Gong Zhong supported Zheng Zhuang Gong's son Gongzi To become the king of Zheng Guo.
However, Gongzi Kuo's ability was average, coupled with the fact that Duke Zheng Zhuang originally married the daughter of the Song nobleman Yong Clan and gave birth to a son, Gongzi Tu, who also had the legal right to inherit from Gongzi Ku, and the Song nobles were very dissatisfied with the practice of sacrificing Zhongzhong to establish Gongzi Ku as the monarch.
In view of this, in the end, Song Zhuang set up a trap, let people suddenly arrest Gongzi to the Song Kingdom, saying that he wanted to kill him, so Zheng Guo's sacrifice Zhong went to the Song Kingdom, and after he arrived, he was arrested by the Song State, threatening that the Sacrifice Zhong must support Gongzi to suddenly become the monarch, and then let him go, or kill him.
In the face of such a scene, the sacrifice zhong also has no way, can only sign an agreement with the Song state, and then take the gongzi to the country, planning to support the gongzi suddenly as the new monarch, the original monarch Gongzi overheard that the sacrifice zhong now ran to support the gongzi suddenly, and the gongzi suddenly has the support of the Song state behind it, forced to survive, and finally the prince can only give up the position of the monarch and flee, so he left a small life.
According to the agreement, The prince suddenly became the new monarch, that is, the protagonist of the story we are going to talk about today, Zheng Ligong. It can be said that Zheng Ligong is a guy who has more than enough success and failure, he has been able to become the monarch by relying on the support of the priest, but there is nothing to do in the position of the monarch, and he also feels that this is because the sacrifice affects his real power, and he tries to eliminate the sacrifice to achieve the monarchy's centralization, he feels that as long as the monarchy is centralized, he can do a career, but the real situation just backfires.
The origin of man is full of kofu
In order to eliminate the sacrifice, Zheng Ligong thought of an assassination plan, and found a person who was closest to the sacrifice, hoping to use the close relationship between this person and the sacrifice to kill the sacrifice when the sacrifice was not defensive, the best person Zheng Ligong found was Yong Gui, this person can be said to be very loyal to Zheng Ligong, and there are some political disagreements with the sacrifice, but he also has another identity, that is, he is the son-in-law of the sacrifice.
Yong Gui married the daughter of The Sacrifice Zhong as a wife, the relationship between the two is relatively harmonious, with the support and help of the Sacrifice Zhong, The position of Yong Gui in the imperial court can be risen step by step, but Yong Gui and Zheng Ligong are worthy of being the same people, both of them have the help of the Sacrifice Zhong, but they both invariably choose to be ungrateful, and want to take the opportunity to kill the Sacrifice Zhong and realize their ambitions.
After yonggui agreed to Zheng Ligong's task, he began to make a intensive plan, he originally planned to find an opportunity to invite his father-in-law to dinner, and then take advantage of the staggering of the chips to accidentally kill him, everything was almost planned, at this time Yonggui suddenly felt a little scared, he was not sure whether this plan could successfully kill his father-in-law, if it failed, the consequences would be unimaginable.
Once a person has pressure, it will appear on the face, and others may not be able to see these insignificant changes, but as the pillow person of Yonggui, that is, the daughter of The Sacrifice Zhong, of course, she has already perceived the difference in Yonggui, and she repeatedly asks Yonggui if she has encountered any major events, please, if she really can't handle it, go to find her father Matsuri to help.
Listening to his wife's affectionate words, Yong Gui inevitably still has some feelings of weakness and guilt, so day and day thinking will inevitably lead to night dreams, and finally when he is asleep, Yong Gui said what he had always wanted to say to his wife in a dream way, his wife heard that her husband actually wanted to kill her father, shocked, after constantly trying to calm the mood, she still once again found Yong Gui to determine the situation.
Yong Jie saw that his wife had discovered her secrets, begged her in various ways, and said a lot of insincere words, that is, she hoped that her wife would not tell the priest, otherwise she would lose her life. When the woman saw her husband's sincere attitude, she could not help but be a little unbearable, and began to hesitate, in order to solve her doubts, she tried to talk to her mother.
After the woman found her mother, Lady Sacrifice, the two opened their hearts and talked about many things, and when they were leaving, the woman asked her mother a difficult question: "Father and husband?" After listening to her question, the mother understood that this child must have something on her mind, and being able to ask such a question shows that her daughter has some special things between the sacrifice and the Yongjie, and the mother must answer carefully.
The mother thought for a moment and told the woman, "The father is only one, and everyone is a husband." Meaning that is to say, there is only one father, the husband's words can be replaced by anyone, this sentence and Liu Bei said that "brothers and brothers, women like clothes" has the same magic, the woman after listening to the mother's answer, instantly understand what to do.
In the fourth year of Li Gong,000 years, he was the dictatorship of the Priesthood. Li Gong was troubled, and yin made Xu Yong want to kill The Sacrifice Zhong. The wife, the sacrificial daughter, knows, and calls his mother: "Father and husband? The mother said: "The father is only one, and everyone is a husband." "The female is to tell the sacrifice, and the sacrifice is to kill the Yong, and to kill the city." - "The Chronicle of History"
Then the woman told her mother the earth-shattering secret that her husband Yong Gui wanted to kill her father, Matsuri, and after listening to it, she pinched a cold sweat and immediately told the news to Matsuri, who was furious after listening to it, thanks to me for so many years to treat you like my own son, now you actually want my life, and then arrested Yong Gui and beheaded him in the middle of the city to make an example.
After Yong Gui's death, Zheng Ligong also understood that he could not stay in Zheng Guo, so when he was leaving, he snatched yong Gui's body out and scolded at the corpse: "If you conspire with the woman, it is advisable to die", which means that he tells the woman everything, and you deserve to die.
After saying this, Zheng Ligong escaped from Zheng Guo, and a bloody storm ended with the defeat of Zheng Ligong and Yong Gui, and The Sacrifice Zhong, relying on the timely reminder of his daughter, was able to become the final victor, and the allusion of "everyone can be a husband" was also passed down, but we can understand that the "human beings can be husbands" at this time did not have those meanings later.
Questions about the story
After reading this story, many people will have a lot of questions, some people will think that Zheng Ligong is a stupid emperor, obviously he wants to kill The Sacrifice, why do you still have to find the son-in-law of the Sacrifice To kill? In fact, Zheng Ligong's operation is not ignorant, but a wise and foolish move, looking for the son-in-law of the sacrifice to kill the sacrifice, not only is it easier to approach the sacrifice, but also the possibility of him betraying Zheng Ligong is less likely, because the pressure he faces, in addition to failure, there is also pressure from the moral and human aspects.
So why did Yong Gui agree to Zheng Ligong's request? In addition to the fact that there is a certain contradiction between Yong Gui and the two of them, what is more important is that the weakness of human nature is at work, Yong Gui lives in the shadow of The Sacrifice Zhong, it can be said that many things he can't exert his hands and feet, just like many door-to-door son-in-law, forced by the pressure of his father-in-law, he does not dare to raise his eyebrows and do things, for fear of offending his father-in-law and causing him to lose everything, this state will produce a strong rebellious psychology after a long time, just Zheng Ligong will take a fancy to Yong Gui.
However, it is a pity that Yong Jiao has a thief's heart and no thief's guts, and after accepting such a task, his heart is full of contradictions and fierce struggles, and finally he thinks about it day and night, and tells the whole thing and is known to his wife. This wife obviously loves her husband very much, so after knowing her husband's secret, she did not immediately tell her father, but also experienced a fierce ideological struggle, and only went to her mother to solve the puzzle.
Of course, from the perspective of the girl's actions later, in fact, I think she already had an answer in her heart when she was looking for her mother to solve her puzzle, but she was temporarily unsure, and she needed her mother to help her determine it, after all, in the Spring and Autumn Warring States period, widow remarriage or female remarriage is very common, and there is nothing strange, as the woman's mother said, there is only one father, but the husband can be anyone.
After having the affirmation of the mother, the woman finally made the final choice, in fact, according to the historical background at that time, the woman should understand in her heart that all the glory and wealth she has now is given by her father, and with her father, Yong Gui does not dare to act rashly or bully herself, if her father is killed by Yong Gui, her life will obviously not be better in the future, besides, an ungrateful little person is not worth entrusting herself to for life.
epilogue
The allusion of "everyone is as good as possible" was originally full of bloodshed, but with the changes in history and the change of people's understanding of this word, this word later became the first choice used to belittle some women who did not keep the way of women, perhaps there was nothing wrong with this idiom and allusion, what was wrong was people's understanding and the feudal society's bondage on women!
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