Nowadays, in love, women often love to ask a question, and many men avoid it. This question must be known to everyone: I fell into the water at the same time as your mother, who did you save first? But very few men ask their wives, me and your dad, who do you choose? No matter which problem it is, it is actually a difficult problem. But thousands of years ago, there was a woman who faced this problem, when her husband and father could only choose one, who did she choose?
Matsuri, as the first ruler of the Spring and Autumn Period. He was a senior ruler who had assisted five monarchs of the Zheng Kingdom. And after the death of Zheng Zhuanggong, Ji Zhong directly took over the power to depose the monarch. Later, The Crown Prince Ji suddenly ascended the throne, but the Yong clan of zhengqing of the Song dynasty was very dissatisfied with this. It turned out that Ji Ku's younger brother Ji Tu was his nephew, and when he heard that Zheng Guo had become the Duke of Zhao, Yong wanted to design a plan to lead Ji Zhong to the Song Kingdom and force him to establish Ji Tu instead.
In desperation, the priest had to agree. Ji Tu finally got his wish and became emperor.
However, even if Ji Tu became emperor, in the years after he succeeded to the throne, Ji Zhong still controlled all the power. Ji Tu was unwilling, so he found Yong Gui and asked him to assassinate The Priest. And promise that after his death, the place he is sitting in now will be yours!
However, this Yong gui is the husband of the daughter of the priest, that is, his son-in-law. Yong Gui decided to invite The Priest to his home for dinner and took the opportunity to kill him. But soon, this matter was known to YongJie's wife, that is, the daughter of The Sacrifice. Now she was embarrassed. Tell your father, then your husband must be dead. If you don't tell your father, your father will die. It's so hard to choose. So she went to her mother and asked her, "Husband and father, who is closer?"
Her mother gave an answer: "Father one, every man is a husband!" This phrase also evolved into the later idiom "everyone can do their best". The implication is that there is only one father, but the husband can be any man.
This later story, of course, is that the priest survived and sent someone to kill his son-in-law. Matsuri's daughter Yongji was also praised by posterity as a "filial daughter" for this incident.